i have also gotten better at avoiding this and
i suspect the process has made me a better writer communicator and human
For what it’s worth: This almost never happens to me, especially in domains where I’m an expert. The models respect me. They can disagree respectfully too. It’s more difficult for me to get them to respect themselves, but it’s doable.
Like yeah there’s a pathology. But if you’re still having this problem with models, you’re either failing to create conditions of basic psychological safety and triggering them, or maybe they’re telling you you’re full of shit for a good reason.
