Secret aphrodisiacs?

Hey diggers! Anyone have a secret aphrodisiac they use for their partner/or women? I’m looking into dark chocolate and strawberries but it seems like it’s not working. I’ve purchased several bars of Hershey dark chocolate bars and several pounds of strawberries and girls don’t seem impressed when I keep offering them these things. I’m just trying to start a family and I feel like I’m being stonewalled everyday. Any guidance is appreciated. Serious replies only, do NOT bullshit me. Thank you.