3/ The pattern-matching and pattern-applying machine in human adults is not too different from children. So we cannot assume age will provide the necessary wisdom to guard against such "domain transfer" errors.
2/ In hindsight, this is not a new observation. Parents have long complained that home assistants (Alexa/GA etc.) have made their children ruder IRL, since the devices don't require "please" and "thank you." What I see interacting with engineers using coding agents is an extrapolation of that.