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Mother teaches sex education to her son using her own body

chinadaily.com.cn — A mother taught her son about sex education using her own body, including a trip to the gynecologist.

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  • CurToast, on 10/12/2007, -11/+597"Now that we've covered kissing and cuddling, it's time to practice eating out... at a fancy restaurant."
    • AriaStar, on 10/12/2007, -6/+386Well, traumatizing your son IS the best form of birth control. Whenever he sees a girl naked, he'll think of his mother.

      Well, at least she didn't leave it to schools.
    • ProximaC, on 10/12/2007, -45/+13All you who think it's "nice" for a hot middle school teacher to teach kids about sex probably wouldn't think it was so cool if it was your mom I'm thinking...
    • TomP, on 10/12/2007, -16/+271Was she hot?
    • Iffrat, on 10/12/2007, -30/+5was she hot? thats what is really important

      /sarcasm..


      looks like i was a little late
    • jdb252, on 10/12/2007, -17/+2AriaStar, that's a real quick fix for P.E....
    • Sh0cker, on 10/12/2007, -67/+4I could see how it could be more effective.

      Imagine being 14 and knowing where to stick your tongue..

      Boy: Mom, I think you have a yeast infection.
      Mother: No Son, that's the taste of semen.
    • raynar, on 10/12/2007, -27/+4"it's time to practice eating out... at a fancy restaurant."


      at the 'Y' ?
    • earl507, on 10/12/2007, -21/+6Mother: "And now for a hands on lesson.."
      later...
      "Would you like to earn extra credit?"
    • blinddub, on 10/12/2007, -24/+11this story is so wrong :p
    • ReaperUnreal, on 10/12/2007, -12/+23@TomP

      That's exactly the response I expected (and hoped) to get here. Seriously though, would it be that bad if your mom was a 25 year old stripper?
    • rotarychainsaw, on 10/12/2007, -9/+43Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiicccceeeeee...
    • Eastlygod, on 10/12/2007, -4/+76@ReaperUnreal

      A 25 year old mother of a 14 year old kid?
    • ozziedog, on 10/12/2007, -3/+62That's the end of that kids sex life.
    • crilen007, on 10/12/2007, -4/+52You know.. I've typed a few witty comments before deciding that this is one topic I don't want to touch with a 6 inch pole.
    • ShrimpCrackers, on 10/12/2007, -1/+24I can attest that as an Asian person, and having had spent plenty of time there... that I think that a mother teaching sex ed to her son, even using her own body, is way better as opposed to the way its done by the schools in China (and most Asian schools in general with the exception of Japan).

      Sex education in Asia, for the most part, is extremely conservative and largely ineffective (hence the really rampant AIDS and STD epidemic there). Many students grow up never getting any education about it or get the wrong idea since many teachers (witnessed this myself) use analogies as opposed to the USA where we just pretty much tell you as it is. There are lots of legends/comedy stories about how some guy or girl literally takes the analogies from the teachers and carry it out (like poking his actual head in a womens toilet or putting condoms over their thumbs as opposed to their penis, as demonstrated by the teacher).
    • lowmagnet, on 10/12/2007, -6/+0Great FG ref :)
    • darkamster07, on 10/12/2007, -9/+3is this hot?
    • roryy, on 10/12/2007, -5/+1Family Guy FTW!
    • PureHeretic, on 10/12/2007, -3/+2retard

      the mom should find a more socially correct way to teach her son how babies work?
    • dextroz, on 10/12/2007, -4/+1my mom's pretty hot... but she don't give :-(
    • docsavatchniya, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1...quite frankly...now that i've passed--by quite some time now--pubescent childhood...the day i think of my mom as "hot"...will be the day i cut my own throat...

      ...i imagine i'll be around for quite some time...barring, of course, the odd and errant "Act of God"...


      ...peace...

      doc
    • smartass007, on 10/12/2007, -1/+0Larry Flynt FTW
    • nimawin, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1Lois Griffin ROCKS!
    • kuzotz, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1SEx ed in china is conservatgive, but ***** sex ed in the US is all like
      if oyu jack off your hands will grow fur, and your eyes will fall out, and if you have sex then you will get an STD that willl cause your balls to swell up, and cause your dick to fall off.

      Sex ed int he US is all about scaring people./
  • shadus, on 10/12/2007, -23/+17Creepy!
    • SakisRakis, on 10/12/2007, -37/+12Why?
    • OMGWTFROFLMAO, on 10/12/2007, -3/+88This kid is going to have an Oedipus complex x 1000
    • SakisRakis, on 10/12/2007, -31/+8I don't see why I am being dugg down for asking 'Why?'

      When someone simply declares something like this creepy, I think it is perfectly reasonable to ask why seeing a naked human, be it a relative or otherwise, is creepy.
    • hbweb500, on 10/12/2007, -2/+22@OMG
      Actually, according to Freud, most every young boy "suffers" from Oedipus Complex, and every young girl from Elektra Complex. Of course, that *was* Freud.
    • g30ph, on 10/12/2007, -7/+39Why is it creepy?

      Because apparently when you become a parent sex becomes a dirty thing and and you're supposed to pretend babies come from magic. You don't care how your kids learn about sex as long as you are spared the burden of teaching that lesson.

      I don't feel like this woman did anything wrong, but trying to put myself in that boy's shoes makes me a little queasy. I prefer the way I learned, in a classroom in junior highschool and with my sisters friend.

      Also I think people give Freud too much credit. Just because he was a sick pervert doesn't mean all of us are.
    • Kickm3, on 10/12/2007, -1/+2g30ph : my thoughts exactly. This is an extreme, I think it's quite wrong, but I'd prefer this for my kids than no sexual education at all.
    • Alkali, on 10/12/2007, -1/+3"I prefer the way I learned, in a classroom in junior highschool and with my sisters friend."

      g30ph: If your a guy then I envy you.
    • Philbert, on 10/12/2007, -0/+9"I prefer the way I learned, in a classroom in junior highschool and with my sisters friend."

      At least it wasn't your sister.
    • ernkush, on 10/12/2007, -4/+5Freud was not a sick pervert. Some of his theories are not entirely provable, but the "complex" theories are widely held to be true by many psychologists. Additionally, I advise that you actually observe young children and how they bond with parents. You will notice that young girls will almost always bond better with their fathers and likewise boys will bond better with their mothers. Then 7-10 years later ask the children who they would consider the idle mate in their lives and which characteristics they value the most. Now observe the parents themselves and interview them. Once again, you will notice a very high level of similarity between the characteristics that their children describe and the characteristics of the respective parent. Perhaps you may learn something very surprising from this experiment.
    • IzeasGT, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1"No thanks, I just have a slight Oedipal complex."
    • stev3, on 10/12/2007, -0/+4@Alkali: And if he's a chick I wouldn't mind a tape.
    • kb0x, on 10/12/2007, -0/+2"Because apparently when you become a parent sex becomes a dirty thing and and you're supposed to pretend babies come from magic."

      You know, There *is* a middle ground between pretending babies come from magic and getting your vag out and giving your son a guided tour.

      I can't think of anything more horrific than sitting down with my mum when i was 14 and have her show me her vagina.
  • immort, on 10/12/2007, -1/+98They obviously don't have an internet connection at home.
  • Bara, on 10/12/2007, -8/+171Video or it didn't happen.
    • adml_shake, on 10/12/2007, -1/+138careful what you wish for, we don't know what this mom looks like.
    • LizardSlayer, on 10/12/2007, -0/+2Is anyone else curious as to how this ended up being reported in China Daily, especially under Odd news?

      "Others, including doctors, said she should use better teaching methods."
      (Chutian Jinbao News)

    • bigtizzle, on 10/12/2007, -8/+3@adml_shake

      Of course we do, she's Chinese.
  • HarryGldfarb, on 10/12/2007, -79/+12in communist China mother ***** you!
    • Forestmb, on 10/12/2007, -15/+53As opposed to America where you ***** your Mother?

      ...gonna pass on that one...
    • NoOneButMe, on 10/12/2007, -4/+26Sigmund Freud was Austrian, not American.
    • g30ph, on 10/12/2007, -0/+5Ya know, Howard Stern is announcing the next "It's Just Wrong" this time with Mothers and Sons. For those who don't know, Howard asks Mom a question, if she's wrong, her Son has to take an article of clothing off of her. In the past he's done Fathers and Daughters and Brothers and Sisters. It's really uncomfortable but hard not to keep listening to. And they pre-screen to make sure the women are attractive.
    • TheAbsintheHare, on 10/12/2007, -6/+1No no silly.
      In America, we are all dirty *****.
      Hence, in communist China, dirty mother ***** you!
    • darkamster07, on 10/12/2007, -1/+1@ g30ph
      can you find it online somewhere?, that sounds like a good listen
  • sideshowRAHEEM, on 10/12/2007, -20/+9Well that kids going to grow up to be a serial killer.
  • wageslave1, on 10/12/2007, -15/+240A) Nowhere does it say they ingaged in sexual acts.

    B) There is nothing sexual about the naked body. Sexuality is intent, not skin.

    C) Before Religious Puritanism, Victorianism and The Industrial/Oil Age, dont you think people would have seen their family members naked? When youre sleeping in a hut, on the ground, do you think your family members felt "embarassed" of sex?

    D) Child-birth is not an institutional activity, it has traditionally -- naturally -- happened in the hope. Possibly in full view of the entire family or village. Not in shame, but in joy.

    We westerners really need to get our heads around this sex / nakedness thing. Were all naked under our clothes, grow the ***** up. Whats with all the ***** hang-ups?

    I say good to this women for being mature and frank... if it is done in a mature and frank manner, and her intent is honest, whats the problem?

    I see nothing wrong with this.

    • sideshowRAHEEM, on 10/12/2007, -72/+16 @wageslave1

      So the thought of seeing your mom naked doesn't repulse you, in case you haven't check we aren't living in huts on the ground anymore we have actual societies now and there are better methods to teach your kid about sex. This woman is clearly out of her mind.
    • canewediggit, on 10/12/2007, -61/+11"There is nothing sexual about the naked body" - only if she isn't hot.

      i'm with raheem, we've evolved and advanced, and we don't live in huts. that kid is headed down 1 of 2 paths;
      1. serious oedipal complex
      2. gay
    • CraigJ, on 10/12/2007, -8/+53Nothing wrong with what she did. Geez, what a bunch of prudes.
    • clockworkORANGE, on 10/12/2007, -24/+8You can't just become gay, sorry haha, your born that way and it just happens, my brother is.. Just think: your straight, but then all of a sudden you just decide to become gay, doesnt even seem possible, does it.
    • jfpwr, on 10/12/2007, -39/+3@wageslave1

      thats so nasty... having some 40 year old mother opening up her vagina in your face saying 'son this is a vagina this , see this nasty crackling here this is where you insert your penis ***** and this thing up here shaped like a sega game gear thats my clitoris and your going to wanna satisfy that using your penis ***** or finger dick'

      this isn't a western thing , its a human thing... are you some kind of incesting zealot or some thing?
    • djSyndrome, on 10/12/2007, -6/+45sideshowRAHEEM: the only reason it repulses you is because society has conditioned you to react that way.
    • mywhitenoise, on 10/12/2007, -21/+3Are people honestly digging this guy? What a ***** nut case. Nobody (well I guess some people, like yourself and the peopele digging you) want to see their mothers naked!
    • SakisRakis, on 10/12/2007, -0/+32@ sideshowRAHEEM and canewediggit

      How is it you equate 'progress' with never seeing people naked? I would be interested to hear your reasons...

      In my humble opinion, many problems occur because people are so embarrassed by their bodies. Eating Disorders, social reclusion, and public 'scandal' all stem from people being close-minded.
    • tony134340, on 10/12/2007, -7/+10This is in China, they find this fairly repulsive also. What if this was a father and daughter, would you say the same thing? I'm a forward thinking guy but you can only push things forward so much that you may have gone a little too far.
    • oooo, on 10/12/2007, -1/+23wageslave1 has it summed up pretty right.

      @sideshowRAHEEM
      Right, so by better methods to teaching would involve being puritan about it all and only abstracting it all into books. If there was no sexual intent there is nothing wrong with this. If you are being repulsed by your mother's body you are being weird about it thinking only about sexual connotations.

      @canewediggit
      So by going to a naturalist beach all parents are turning their kids into problem cases or gay?

      Gah, mothers are having problems even breast feeding in public! Society I think needs to evolve out of its insanely religious/puritanical head-up-its-arse state it is now in.
    • canewediggit, on 10/12/2007, -20/+4"How is it you equate 'progress' with never seeing people naked?" - you miss the point. i love naked girls. hell, i spent xmas and new year's in rio. what do you think i was there for, the cuisine (although the churascurrias are pretty damn good)?

      i think staring at my mother's holiest of holes is disgusting. and to all of you who disagree, go tell your mom to spread for you and see what she thinks, then get back to me. you guys are the sick bastards with the oedipal conflict, not me.
    • JoeCool1986, on 10/12/2007, -11/+10@wageslave

      Yeah, but you're forgetting one thing. This lady is doing this IN a society that conditions you to see that as gross and possibly sexually traumatizing. Therefore, just because it's natural doesn't mean you should do it. Using your logic, the mom would be perfectly justified in requiring her children to never wear clothes publicly, which is insanity. You would completely traumatize your kids that way even though going around naked might be perfectly natural.

      To sum up, you're forcing these very conflicting feelings of nakedness and sexuality on a poor 14 year-old and seriously risking screwing with the kids head and thoughts on sexuality, even if the mom is right! So maybe you should think about that before you tell us all to "grow the f*** up."
    • SakisRakis, on 10/12/2007, -0/+14Canwediggit,

      The child didn't go ask his mother to 'spread for him', the mother was displaying human physiology to her son. Her own was the most easily accessible. Would you find it more reasonable if the mother brought in a prostitute and pointed out physiology on her?
    • sideshowRAHEEM, on 10/12/2007, -12/+5I'm surprised at seeing all of the psychopaths that obviously wish there mom had taught them about the birds and the bees this way. Here's the bottom line I as a grown man never want to say to myself "hey that porn star's pussy looks just like moms". I don't think that makes me weird.
    • AdrianRice, on 10/12/2007, -7/+9"A) Nowhere does it say they ingaged in sexual acts.

      B) There is nothing sexual about the naked body. Sexuality is intent, not skin."

      Yeah, you're probably right - but do you really think it's necessary for mum crank up the stirrups at the local GP and splay the goodies in a show and tell session?? Plenty of other options I would think. She's just opened Pandora's Box (pardon the pun) - where does the next question stop?
    • dashroc, on 10/12/2007, -3/+40If the tables were turned and it was a Father explaining sex to his daughter with his penis, I'm sure you would be singing a different tune.
    • oooo, on 10/12/2007, -1/+9@tony134340

      Sure, if it was a father/daughter situation it may require closer scrutiny, but that's only because of historically too many cases of kids being abused by the fathers, less so by the mothers.

      However on the face of it, it should be the same - father/mother and their nakedness should not be repulsive, hidden or abnormal in front of sons/daughters. Too many people have been wrongly conditioned into thinking naked == sexual and that is not how it should be.
    • dave932932, on 10/12/2007, -3/+2The problem is that sometimes this is not done in good intent.
    • oooo, on 10/12/2007, -4/+7@sideshowRAHEEM

      "I'm surprised at seeing all of the psychopaths that obviously wish there mom had taught them about the birds and the bees this way. Here's the bottom line I as a grown man never want to say to myself "hey that porn star's pussy looks just like moms". I don't think that makes me weird."

      So what if a porn star's pussy looks like your mums? Is that so bad? It's human nature. I am sure there a lots of pussies that are similar to your mums, just as there must be lots of women with similar hairstyles, eyes, nose, ears, etc to your mum's. Our bodies and all their various parts are natural. Get over it.
    • mcfly1204, on 10/12/2007, -4/+18I'm not going to argue against your point, but what in fact is the point of her actions? Is it necessary? No. Is there anything wrong with the human, naked form ? No. Is it odd that she took her 14 year old son to the gyno to have her vagina spread open so she could explain her inner anatomy? Ummm, yeah.

      "You can take a good look at a T-bone by sticking your head up a bull's ass, but wouldn't you rather take the butcher's word for it?"
    • sideshowRAHEEM, on 10/12/2007, -5/+4@mcfly1204

      Your comment gets dugg for quoiting one of the greatest comedies ever Tommy Boy?
    • humperdeath, on 10/12/2007, -4/+6In Chinese culture (Asian culture in general) this is not abnormal. Living in close quarters will allow families to see each other bodies without thinking it is wrong. Someone has to teach the kids, why not let it be the mom. Sure, it sounds weird to us, but really, why is that?
    • tony134340, on 10/12/2007, -6/+1This is not really a question of if the act she did was wrong or right, but suppose this is accepted. It would then be acceptable for parents to fluant their private parts to their kids all around the world. Now where do you draw the line? It's going to make it that much harder for kids to report sexual abuse or sexual indecency.
    • dvddesign, on 10/12/2007, -2/+2Actually there's a good deal of women in the world today whose first exposure (in a completely upstanding and non-demoralizing way) to a male penis is because they accidentally walked in on their father or brother in the shower or bathroom while growing up.

      I don't agree with the tact she took about it, mostly because I think sex ed stuff is something that needs to be spurred on by the kid at that age. Given another year or two, I'd bring it up myself, but at 10-12, leaving a little mystery to it all isn't hurting anyone... Lots of kids will just ask outright, "Where to babies come from?" and that's enough to get the ball rolling. Impositioning your child to accompany you into the gyno-office to watch your mother's hoo-hah get cranked wide may not be the wisest thing in the world, but it's better than cartoon drawings with phraseology of "mommies and daddies" and leaving the rest at a total guess when he's 16 and with his first GF.

      It could be worse. She could've taken him to a whorehouse and given interactive personal instruction with a whore. How ***** up would that have been? A threesome with mom calling the shots.

      And seeing your mother naked doesn't make you gay. It didn't make your father that way...

      Tony, have you ever left the USA? Everyone else isn't as prudish as we are here. It's okay in some countries for people to be nude.
    • JorgeGT, on 10/12/2007, -0/+3"What a Brave New World, that has such people in it."

      Seriously, some attitude in this thread is horrible,and reminds me the students from Brave New World, when they admit human did have children instead of let them be created and grown in the modern human-creation facilities and there was a thing called...ehm... you know... that word... *parents*!. Aldous Huxley's predictions are closer everyday. It's shameful.
    • canewediggit, on 10/12/2007, -4/+5ok, this thread has gotten out of hand, so i'll sum up my thoughts on this. this isn't about nakedness or the human body, it's about appropriateness of a _parent_ intentionally exposing their genitals to their _children_ for whatever reason. i find it to be inappropriate and think it will do more harm to the child's future mindset when it comes to women and sex then good. there are a variety of other ways to teach your children about sex whether you live in rural china or nyc, and most of them won't have your child equating pussy to mommy.
    • spidoman, on 10/12/2007, -5/+2The Woman was Frank? ewwww.... I don't want a tranny mom.
    • sideshowRAHEEM, on 10/12/2007, -5/+3@canewediggit

      I don't know about you canewediggit but these insane people have won me over I am now drinking there Koolaid, in fact I'm headed over to my local kindergarten recess with nothing but my birthday suit on to do a little tutoring, your never to young to learn about the human body kids.
    • canewediggit, on 10/12/2007, -4/+3raheem- sorry my reply took so long. i've been on video conference with my mom. she was showing me her *****, damn it was soooo hot! and completely natural too, just like when we lived in huts and ate grubs. what a beautiful thing.
    • darkamster07, on 10/12/2007, -0/+5I have seen my parents naked my whole life (my dad in particular loves to walk around the house semi-nude). When I want to ask my mom something and she is in the bath I just go in and ask her. I realize that it is not normal for the majority of people, but I never really thought about it, and I am at least (fairly) normal.
    • returnofmalv, on 10/12/2007, -1/+5"I see nothing wrong with this."

      Maybe if the kid was 8, but seeing as how he was 14, he probably got a massive boner... but then again, he is Asian, so I don't know.
    • 3dom, on 10/12/2007, -2/+1wageslave1: While I agree with your comment for the most part, one bit stuck out.
      B) There is nothing sexual about the naked body. Sexuality is intent, not skin.
      This is true. However the kid didnt just see his mom in the nude out of context. It was specifically sexually-related.
      Also, frank and mature? that's hardly the best way to have a first experience seeing a real-life vagina :/
    • docsavatchniya, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1...the /reaction/-as opposed to response-to this (IMHO) responsible approach to parenting as teaching is apropos to the brainwashing of PC culture of today...responsibility, a near-ignored, though often-espoused, concept in today's alarmist society...the danger isn't in the /responsibility/...it is in the thoughtlessness of /not/ teaching...it is in the /malevolence/ of the familial predator and incestuous behaviour...the woman did this, not at home, she did it in a clinical, even scientific, environment, with professionals at hand as another responsible and wise means of technical- and educational-support...i am impressed with her approach...

      ...peace...

      doc
    • amoirae, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1"Now reach in and feel around for Mommy's G-Spot."

      "Oh, yeah You found it. Daddy NEVER finds it."
  • bigdt87, on 10/12/2007, -11/+2OH GOD!!! MAKE IT STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • famousdave, on 10/12/2007, -6/+46"I french kiss, Daddy says I'm the best!"
    • signal15, on 10/12/2007, -0/+4Dugg for Family Vacation reference. :)
  • Zigire, on 10/12/2007, -7/+1Misleading title..
  • clockworkORANGE, on 10/12/2007, -10/+4He's 14.. I'm pretty sure when I was 14 i knew that seeing my mom's vagina would just be completely disgusting.. thats sick haha.
  • theunderground5, on 10/12/2007, -11/+3i know it's her kid in all and she can teach him how she wishes but, if that doesn't scar him for life i don't know what will.
    • CraigJ, on 10/12/2007, -2/+15that's right you don't and neither does society as a whole. Just because the majority believes in something doesn't mean it's right or healthy. The mysticism surrounding sex, and the lack of openness around the subject and the resulting ignorance fostered by the puritanical are the causes of any damage, not the fact that we are sexual beings.
  • loginname, on 10/12/2007, -0/+44The goggles they do nothing!
  • mywhitenoise, on 10/12/2007, -9/+2smelly.
  • zach4390, on 10/12/2007, -3/+3Well, was she hot? I mean, if she is, I think I need some sexual clarification as well.
  • naio21, on 10/12/2007, -3/+9That's the woman who gave meaning to the word MILF.
  • Majin, on 10/12/2007, -10/+3hes gona grow up to be gay
    • CedEx, on 10/12/2007, -1/+0He might just have to be if he's not one of the lucky guys to get a girl, considering the ratio is something like 118:100 Guys to Girls.
    • darkamster07, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1Man that was stupid! Are you lost? I think you typed in the wrong URL, this is Digg, not MySpace or YouTube, why don't you go there? Here at digg at least some of us try to keep our comments somewhat intelligent.
  • mbthompson, on 10/12/2007, -8/+2Eeeewww. That is so gross!
  • SirBotchness, on 10/12/2007, -2/+14Must be that Arkansas district of China.
  • ZachSzafran, on 10/12/2007, -1/+2no pics, no digg
    • ImTheDarkcyde, on 10/12/2007, -0/+5are you sure you wanted to see that?
    • member57, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1Just the mom...
    • rshu4you, on 10/12/2007, -1/+2If he turns gay, will bringing in dad turn him back?
  • LightninFast, on 10/12/2007, -0/+0they definitely dont have MTV
  • johnhummel, on 10/12/2007, -1/+18Brings new meaning to the term "Home Schooled"....
  • happinessiseasy, on 10/12/2007, -5/+1TTIWWP
  • baxtermaddux, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1hmm. hey i think i could use a refresher course on sex ed now
    • chefsam, on 10/12/2007, -0/+5Really? Why? Got a hot Mom?
    • dvddesign, on 10/12/2007, -0/+2Yes he does, you're welcome to come watch. I help her teach said "refresher course", Tuesday nights at The Velvet Rope.
  • chefsam, on 10/12/2007, -3/+6"Father... Yes, son? I want to kill you. Mother... I want to aaawwwwwwyeeaaaahhhhhhhh!!" -Jim Morrison/The End

    Oedipus complex affirming behavior, maybe??
  • cybermort, on 10/12/2007, -1/+2what no pictures??
  • joggingmac, on 10/12/2007, -1/+5That's normal
  • nonzzero, on 10/12/2007, -1/+8Seems very practical.
  • RhyeKno, on 10/12/2007, -9/+3Thats disgusting. I think she's got the hots for her son.
  • 4degrees, on 10/12/2007, -1/+24this is outrageous! I would rather have my children watch a madman disembowel a man, weave a pretty little basket from his intestine to hold the rest of his organs in than educate them and expose them to reality!

    /sarcasm off
    • SakisRakis, on 10/12/2007, -0/+11Thats the American way alright! ;)
  • haggie, on 10/12/2007, -0/+9This happens in Louisiana every day. How do you think Britney Spears learned about sex?

    But sadly, with Britney, it was her dad that showed her his genitalia and how babies get born.
    • 66np66ip, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1"how babies get born."

      Dude, watch your syntax. It's "...got bornded," ya'll.
    • dvddesign, on 10/12/2007, -0/+2By watching MTV...
  • venuspcs, on 10/12/2007, -11/+16Okay now it is official, DIGGERS are a bunch of under sexed, close-minded, prudish, middle-aged people.

    For the record there is absolutely nothing wrong with the human body, no matter what it looks like (clothed or naked). The problem is in how we perceive what we see. Our perceptions (societal conditioning) leads us to believe that it is wrong or disgusting. I have seen my mother naked on several occasions, as well as my step sisters, my neice, children (baby's), etc....While I don't look forward to such events I do not feel disgusted, repelled or turned-on by them. They are a natural part of life....

    I bet you ***** leave the room when a women is breast feeding her baby....don't you?

    I on the other hand make a point to make eye contact with her, carry on a conversation and occasionally make small talk about the process itself.
    • digitalsin, on 10/12/2007, -3/+31I bet you're popular in the men's urinal
  • polypropglop, on 10/12/2007, -0/+15Like my parents always told me....

    "If you can't keep it in your pants, keep it in your family."
  • agentbad, on 10/12/2007, -4/+1Here come the perves, quick someone play ride of the valkyries.
  • dvfreelancer, on 10/12/2007, -3/+13To me this just seems wrong. Though I realize my mom is anatomically similar to other women, it's really not necessary to see it. Even though you know your parents had sex, you don't want to think about it. You especially don't want to think of your parents having really good sex, especially the kind you come away with scratches and pulled muscles or is illegal in Mississippi. Particularly if it happened to be on the dinner table, kitchen counter, pool table, shower, living room couch or some other place the family routinely congregates.

    We all know the process went pretty much the same for our parents, I'm just not sure how healthy it is to have a really good visual of the details.
  • cdharrison, on 10/12/2007, -2/+6What they really need to do, is teach sex education by making them watch really old people go at it. Now THAT would be an effective means of birth control.
  • cr4ft, on 10/12/2007, -5/+0Could you imagine the kids at school? Like, if his name was Jason or something they'll be singing:

    "Jason's Mom has got it goin' on! She's all that I want, And I've waited for so long!"
  • pyman, on 10/12/2007, -1/+3Oedipus Smedipus
  • Toddzgirl, on 10/12/2007, -16/+10Ok I'm a woman, and that is just plain sick. I don't understand how people can say they see nothing wrong with this. I didn't even let my parents tell me about sex much less show me...its just weird. And as someone trained in child psychology and child abuse, that is going to cause lasting effects on him, because he will have to be able to separate his mom and whatever girl he is trying to have sex with and therefore his first time is going to be extremely difficult for him. I honestly don't understand how anyone is ok with this...its just sick and wrong.
    • irb0b0, on 10/12/2007, -1/+3"..lasting effects on him, because he will have to be able to separate his mom and whatever girl he is trying to have sex with and therefore his first time is going to be extremely difficult for.."

      -- so what you are saying is that this is a very effective method of birth control?
    • djSyndrome, on 10/12/2007, -1/+13With a handle like 'Toddzgirl', how can you expect to be taken seriously as a 'woman'? Sounds like you enjoy being an object more than anything else.
    • digitalsin, on 10/12/2007, -1/+7That's the obvious immediate thought of most people in our society.

      The question to really think about though, is how much society / culture has to do with the thought of seeing a parent naked as disgusting, repulsive, etc. I'm not saying it isn't, however I do see a difference between how we in the West see it and how those in the East see it.

      If you were born on an island and the only other human beings you associated with were your parents, and everyone was naked, would you come to the realization that it is disgusting? I think you wouldn't.

      Therefore, it is only disgusting because your perspective is the product of your surroundings, religion, etc. That's something to think about.

      The fact is though, we don't live on that island and we live in a society where we all wear clothes, and thus the child could be traumatized by this sort of 'education'.

      Would it have been okay though, had she gotten another woman who was unrelated to the boy to educate him?
    • JorgeGT, on 10/12/2007, -0/+4- Toddzgirl is very proud of being a Beta. Alphas work so much, and Gammas and Epsilons are ugly and dumb. She doesn't want to play with them, she likes to be a Beta.

      - Toddzgirl is very proud of being a Beta. Alphas work so much...
    • arcticblue, on 10/12/2007, -3/+11From the comments I've read on digg, this would be the perfect "diggtopia":

      1. People would run around naked...all the time... because there's nothing wrong with being naked
      2. Everyone would be gay and the heterosexuals would be ridiculed for living how nature intended
      (I'm not anti-gay or anything, but I was once dugg down into oblivion for saying something that didn't hold gays on an altar)
      3. Only the gaming division of Microsoft would exist...and of course they'd all go to work naked
      4. There would be no copyright laws
      5. Everyone would be vegan, but no one would eat apples. Apples would be sacred.
      6. The national bird would be the penguin
      7. Everything would be tested for blend-ability
      8. Duggmirror would actually work
      9. Violence on TV would be banned, but violent video games are OK.
      10. Americans are the real terrorists.
      11. The name of this "utopia" would be Ubuntu.

      Toddzgirl, there's no point in trying to inform diggers of something. Most of them are dead set on this alternate lifestyle where we should all be jumping with joy at the chance to see our mothers naked and if we're lucky, we might even get to touch her boobies or sniff her vagina (The smell of our mother's vagina is natural too, so why don't we go around sniffing it?). Where everyone skips and frolics in the meadows while holding hands and singing cheery songs. Where 2 guys can kiss in public and everyone cheers them on and thanks them for the privilege of seeing it.

      I may be blowing things out of proportion a bit, but I'm sure you get what I'm trying to say. I'll be dugg down so you probably won't even see this.
    • canewediggit, on 10/12/2007, -3/+3With a handle like 'dj Syndrome', how can you expect to be taken seriously as a 'dj'? Sounds like you enjoy playing crappy trance more than anything else.
    • roywaits, on 02/02/2008, -0/+1True... Poor kids gonna have it worse off than a pastor's son.
    • Mexrocker, on 10/12/2007, -0/+4As you can see by my handle where I am from, my parents come from a small pueblo. Its a small population and everyone knows everyone. I've seen my mom naked plenty of times but I don't get turned on nor do I think of her sexually. We are all very comfortable around each other. To this day everyone in my family changes in front of each other. There's no shame. This extends to the majority of my extended family. We don't have a problem with it. It's just the human body. I know people have seen other people naked and thought nothing of it.

      It really has to do with the American Culture. It's ok for a kid to watch some guy get his head blown off and his guts spilled everywhere. Once a little cleavage starts to show or a little ass crack or something a little sexually suggestive, that become unacceptable. Isn't the child more likely to see that kind of stuff in real life as opposed to some guy getting blown to bits?

      I have friends who think nakedness = sex/bad/inappropriate and I also have friends who think the opposite. It really depends on how you were brought up and what your self esteem is like. If the mother has no problems showing her son what a woman looks like then kudos to her.
    • digitalsin, on 10/12/2007, -0/+4@mexrocker:

      "It really has to do with the American Culture. It's ok for a kid to watch some guy get his head blown off and his guts spilled everywhere. Once a little cleavage starts to show or a little ass crack or something a little sexually suggestive, that become unacceptable. Isn't the child more likely to see that kind of stuff in real life as opposed to some guy getting blown to bits?"

      You hit the nail right smack dab on the head.
    • darkamster07, on 10/12/2007, -0/+3"I didn't even let my parents tell me about sex much less show me...its just weird"
      a woman?, more like a little girl, grow the ***** up. You know why some kids would get screwed up from this is because of people like you; people that teach their kids and others that the human body is a vessel of shame.
    • amoirae, on 10/12/2007, -0/+1I completely believe Toddzgirl was trained in child abuse.

      She abuses at a Springerian level now. Before she became degreed she abused at a level that would have once only gotten her on Montel if not Ricki.

  • mseneschal, on 10/12/2007, -0/+35If the dad tried to show the kid’s sister the other side of the equation,he’d be locked up.
  • anonydigg, on 10/12/2007, -0/+8A little too edgy: yes.
    Terribly wrong and immoral: No.
    Except for possible public humiliation, no harm done;
  • TechLaw, on 10/12/2007, -1/+1Now that is serious abstinence sex education.
  • radial, on 10/12/2007, -5/+3Whether you show the kid pictures, videos, or a real person, what's the difference? Would you rather he be shown a total stranger's girlie bits or at least someone that's a hopefully a known decent, and clean person?
    Knowing China, they're probably teaching their kids in school that women are incapable of having female babies, and that the government only issues a few lucky mothers female children. At least the mom is trying to teach him the right thing, or at least what she believes is right.
  • starguy, on 10/12/2007, -8/+6The kid has already seen the inside of his mom's ******. More so than anyone else I should think. So by seeing it again, it somehow is perverted? I think not.

    In Europe, and I imagine many other places in the world, families dress together in the same room. As an American, I was initially shocked by this, because in America somehow the body has been made to be something to be ashamed of and hidden. Which is kind of screwed up and neurotic when you think about it.

    To Toddzgirl, if you think seeing your mom or dad naked is weird, you probably feel uncomfortable about giving them a hugg too. Well, wait until its too late, and they are dead and you see them in a cofine. Then that will really look weird to you. Will you hug them then? Will you even touch them to say goodbye. Or will it be too weird?
    • arcticblue, on 10/12/2007, -2/+3Wow dude... you got a thing for your mom? You seem a little offended that some people don't want to see their moms naked. I've never heard of families dressing together in any part of the modern world. My wife is Japanese and they don't dress together. Sure, her and her brothers are all in their 20s, but they don't dress together (for the record, I'm in Iraq, and she's back in Japan with her family). I dated a girl from Germany and her family didn't dress together. I don't know where you got your info from.

      When I was in the 6th grade, I found a sex tape of my parents while looking for a blank tape to do a school project on. Seeing that affected me for many years. I still don't know if I'm over it. Sure, I may have come out of my mom's vagina, but I sure as hell don't remember seeing it. I really didn't (and still don't) want to see it again. I am planning on having kids of my own next year and I can guarantee you that I won't ever expose my kids to what I was exposed to.

      If it's so natural to cover up your body with clothes, then why don't African tribes who have never been exposed to "Western thinking" run around naked? Sure, they wear next to nothing and are generally topless, but they still make an attempt at being clothed. Wearing clothes is part of being a civilized species. It sets us apart from animals. It is perfectly natural to not want to see your parents naked.
    • arcticblue, on 10/12/2007, -2/+1"To Toddzgirl, if you think seeing your mom or dad naked is weird, you probably feel uncomfortable about giving them a hugg too. Well, wait until its too late, and they are dead and you see them in a cofine. Then that will really look weird to you. Will you hug them then? Will you even touch them to say goodbye. Or will it be too weird?"

      I forgot about that last paragraph. How the ***** can you compare seeing your parents naked to seeing your parents in a coffin? I lost my dad to suicide when I was 5. I did not think it was weird to see him in a coffin. I lost my best friend to a seizure when I was in high school (actually was talking to him on the phone when he died...and I never saw him naked), I did not think it was weird to see him in a coffin. I never saw my grandma naked or even fantasized about it like you may have, but I still did not think it was weird to see her in a coffin. I take a personal offense to your statement. When you're mom dies, I hope you get one last booby squeeze to say goodbye because I'm sure everyone around you will think it's perfectly normal and natural.
    • brownb2, on 10/12/2007, -2/+1@starguy

      *****. That's like saying "In America , and I imagine many other places in the world, incest is a normal occurrence". Just because it may happen once on the internet, or your imagination and you need some far off "backwards" place that you hope most diggers haven't been to, doesn't make it common.

      "In Europe, and I imagine many other places in the world, families dress together in the same room".
    • aristotle0dude, on 10/12/2007, -1/+1@brownb2 & arcticblue: I think this story is a bit messed up but you guys are seriously ***** up. Incest? Who said anything about incest? It is interesting however that you would bring that up though as it gives insight into your psyche.

      How nudity is viewed by prudish cultures such as the Anglo-Saxon culture differs from how other European cultures have viewed it in the past. It is still common in Finland for example, to have families using a Sauna in the nude. Unfortunately, cultural contamination from English cultures has begun to affect other cultures in how they view nudity and sexuality.

      You see in Finland, nudity was viewed as a normal state of being when you were in extremely warm places like a Sauna. Sex was viewed as a healthy and normal part of life between consenting adults. People have business meetings in Saunas in Finland because they are considered holy places were you are expected to be truthful/honest and everyone is an equal when they shed the trappings of power and wealth and become nude.

      Pornography and seductive clothing is a by product of the Victorian era which caused sex and nudity to be viewed as something dirty and sinful. English culture is perverted and sick.
  • greenbowlball, on 10/12/2007, -0/+2Let's face it, Learning sex is hard.
    http://www.gotuit.com/player/index.html?c=SM_Entertainment&t=3103&s=31852
  • pdrap, on 10/12/2007, -0/+14Did you notice that there was a picture on that article where she's showing off her big pussy?

    http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/photo/2007-01/15/content_783978.htm
  • bram, on 10/12/2007, -1/+5MOM?
  • jasondragon, on 10/12/2007, -0/+3It's been done but I can't resist.

    Niiiiceeee.
  • Toddzgirl, on 10/12/2007, -7/+5Umm...how does my name have to do with anything? Because I'm proud of my boyfriend because he realizes I'm not some dimwit that doesn't know anything. Ok good way to attack someone. Next time I'll go with a handle like djsyndrome...because that does show far more intelligence...silly me. Why does that kid need to be educated by his mom? Who does that. Hey mom whats a pussy? Please. And yes it does have to do with the culture, but if on the island it was also ok to rape 5 year old children and then eat them...would it be ok...because in their culture its ok so shouldn't we accept it? Just showing how that way of thinking can be twisted around. Anyways me and my name are going to go twirl our hair and file our nails so we can look pretty when the man comes home from work for dinner.
    • haveacigar, on 10/12/2007, -0/+7quite a flame there
    • digitalsin, on 10/12/2007, -2/+8", but if on the island it was also ok to rape 5 year old children and then eat them...would it be ok...because in their culture its ok so shouldn't we accept it? Just showing how that way of thinking can be twisted around"

      Uh...are you equating rape with seeing a parent naked, or did the ability to build an analogy not get passed down the gene chute?
    • dvddesign, on 10/12/2007, -0/+4Well, most guys don't put too much thought into a screen name. We usually pick out something like "Boob Ogler", realize it's either banned or taken, and then we pick two random objects in our lives, cram them together and go.

      A girl will more likely have a emotional attachment to something than a guy, so a guy sees a girls screen name of "toddzgirl", we pretty much got that figured out. Being snarky and rude doesn't prove your point about being more than just your "man's girl"

      Culture is what makes us all different, honey. Do you prey to Allah several times a day? Nope? Then your culture is different than someone else's. Eat food with sticks? Drink your beer warm? Have dog and horse instead of chicken and beef? Wear FUBU clothing? Culture...

      Do I want my mom showing me her vag? Hell no. But given that you know nothing of their community, their level of wealth, their society, their family, etc. You really don't have much more to do than click "digg" or "lame", leave a comment and move on.

      Someone teaches everyone about sex. I'd rather people learn about it from someone the child knows they can trust. I'm sorry you were too freaked out to have your parents teach you about it, whatever the reasons were, most parents who do, do a pretty decent job of it. Otherwise, I'm sure there'd be a lot more registered digg users.

    • djSyndrome, on 10/12/2007, -1/+2"Because I'm proud of my boyfriend because he realizes I'm not some dimwit that doesn't know anything."

      Are you absolutely sure about that? Every time you click the 'Submit Comment' button on this thread, you're just digging yourself a deeper hole with your half-baked arguments. You should get out and see the world instead of applying your centrist views to the rest of the planet.

      I also stand by my argument that your handle points to you viewing yourself as another man's object. Your replies are only cementing my observation.
    • cheekdog, on 10/12/2007, -1/+2wow....how sad you have to attach yourself to a man to feel your own worth. or lack thereof.
    • darkamster07, on 10/12/2007, -2/+1nice, you sound like my teacher, she has the wit of a two year old to.
  • haveacigar, on 10/12/2007, -2/+3Traumatizing your son.. better at protecting you from aids than circumcision
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