m-indya.com — MY late father couldn't even read. Yet I had to follow a certain "convention"?? the kind I was never taught in school ?? if I were to write a letter to him. It had to begin with this sentence: Adapun pada masa anakanda menulis surat ini, anakanda berada dalam kandungan sihat dan diharapkan ayahanda dan bonda serta keluarga berlebih-lebih