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- mynameisjudge, on 02/17/2009, -7/+351What the hell? Why are women bartenders such a big deal now? There are plenty of other girls in the bar without the hugely inflated ego.
- nmoulana, on 02/18/2009, -20/+301Seriously, I don't understand their mentality, like every guys dream is to score with the female bartender who according to this article is the most sexually intimidating and dignified kind of woman. Get over yourselves, please. You're a damn bartender for god's sake making like $10 an hour, not some successful attorney or hot ass celebrity. How about an article that goes like this: "So you're a somewhat attractive bartender that has to work graveyard shifts to barely make ends meet, what do you think the chances of you ending up with a smart, professional, and decent guy is?" How about making us guys the prize for once? Sheesh, a ***** bartender? Really. Get me a drink bitch. No tip for your self obsessed ass, you're probably too good for it anyway.
- RileyCourage, on 02/17/2009, -9/+210She works for tips, dudes. She's just not that into you.
- Diggopolis, on 02/17/2009, -11/+187Ever since I was old enough to hang out in bars I knew to never "hit" on the bartender. She was there to work, not socialize -- and quite often already had a boyfriend who was big enough to call King Kong "Little Bro". LoL
- inactive, on 02/18/2009, -2/+156I seriously expected Bel Air.
- ultraman54, on 02/18/2009, -13/+154digg is not your diary
- llamagod, on 02/18/2009, -6/+145WTF did I just read all of that?
- akuhl101, on 02/18/2009, -3/+134screw this bitch ... don't let her crap intimidate you guys, every bartender is going to screw someone, might as well be you - just make a concrete plan, and if she says no, ask the other bartender :)
- zaffir, on 02/18/2009, -3/+121At the bar/club I worked at the female bartenders were some of the biggest bitches i've ever met, and could care less about the customers if it weren't for tips. And with good reason, much like the article states. The waitresses were at least friendly, but probably only because they hadn't been working there nearly as long and weren't as jaded. Not that customers had any more of a chance with them than the bartender.
Oh and ladies, the same goes for flirting with the doormen. No, I don't care that you're hot; we're full, so you're not getting in. No you can't have my phone number; I know you're just going to call me in two weeks when it's jammed wondering if i can let you and 12 of your friends, a few of which happen to be underage, in the back door. Get used to waiting in line. - CasualNinja, on 02/18/2009, -1/+99As a straight man I find it is easier to hit on the bartender at a gay bar. I go in with my woman and then hit on the bartender. He thinks that he can "turn" me, I get free drinks every time!!
- zhaojon, on 02/18/2009, -1/+91Yeah, going to a gay bar with the intention of getting drinks bought for you is fine, but sometimes your ass hurts in the morning. Must be that cheap rail booze, right? Right!?
- DP84, on 02/18/2009, -1/+89I've dated a woman bartender. You're not missing anything special, unless you get off on 5 nights a week of drunken drama and rants about her coworkers.
Oh, and they know EVERYONE in town so be prepared for her to show up everywhere you go, even after you've broken up. - davidsmero, on 02/18/2009, -5/+85Wow. You know they have these things called "blogs".
- dasdef, on 02/18/2009, -5/+84they love it when i call them skanks though
***** i hope my girlfriend doesnt read digg
oh ***** im digging a deeper hole by typing this
oh well, sarah if you're reading this you're a bitch!! - one1plus1one, on 02/18/2009, -16/+89When I was single, I would try to avoid overtly hitting on chicks...
I found that if I got too overt, then it didn't seem much fun, it didn't suit my personality. It wasn't who I am. Whenever I tried it, it usually turned them off, and it made me seem more obnoxious than I really am.
However, having said that, there was one time when I did deviate from my general rule of not overtly hitting on a woman.
You see there was this amazing girl that came to work at our office. She just immigrated from Korea.
To my shock (even though she seemed shy and innocent) she seemed to be "going wild and letting loose". She got a tongue piercing (back when that was radical) and then she made a few overt gestures to me, such as the time she said,
"I always wondered what it would be like to sleep with a white guy."
And I replied, "Well, thanks to an accident of genetics, I just so happen to be a white guy."
I took her over comment as my queue that it was ok for us to get overt, and began making overt comments towards her. But that quickly turned her off, and she wasn't interested in me anymore.
That depressed me for days, because I really wanted to sleep with her. I desperately wanted to sleep with her -- very badly.
My body was aching for her body. Just her presence in the room made me dizzy.
But she wasn't interested anymore, so then I just accepted defeat shrugged my shoulders, and thought, "Whelp that sucks, but you can't always get what you want." That is the lot in life of being a guy.
I then told her, "You know I'm really sorry that I was making those overt comments. I don't know what got into me. That's no way for me to treat a lady, and it's not really who I am. And I know that it has hurt our friendship. I really, honestly would like us to be just friends again... Seriously. Just friends. I know guys don't usually say that, but I really mean it: we had great times joking around and laughing and talking. I really miss that."
So for the next 2 months we just hung out sometimes joked, etc... then suddenly one night, when we were watching "Sex in the City" on my couch, she suddenly turned and tried to kiss me.
I then pushed her away and said, "No No! I thought we were going to just be friends. I don't want to ruin our friendship."
But the more I kept pushing her back, the more she struggled and was actually wrestling me to kiss me. We then slept together for 3 months (practically non stop). When summer was over she grew disinterested in me, and dumped me, and the friendship was ruined.
But f--k it, I'm so glad she ruined the friendship! I still think about those 3 months.............
So that's it. For me and my personality, Zen-Buddhism works best. Nothing overt or in your face... Maybe some of you dudes are good at overt and obnoxious flirting, but I could never get that to work for me. - L0NER, on 02/18/2009, -1/+68Clicked the link for pic of hot bartender... left disappointed.
- Valiantheart, on 02/18/2009, -1/+62"Oy. Look there, it's an exotic female bartender. Now watch as I sneak up behind and jam my thumb up her bunghole."
"Crikey, she's really mad now" - anubis2night, on 02/17/2009, -3/+63What makes the female bartender so great? They work in a bar, what little hotness they have is often the effects of the environment and honestly with that kind of attitude you could do better. I often wonder what happens to chicks like these when their looks go in a few years.
- AlienMushroom, on 02/18/2009, -5/+62Sounds like lesbian to me.
- Pstmann, on 02/17/2009, -6/+62Unless you work in the biz. Then it's easy.
- inactive, on 02/18/2009, -1/+56nah, but it is a place for fiction.
- nyxerebos, on 02/18/2009, -2/+55This is a complete load, female bartenders are the shizzle, you just have to pick the right kind of bar. Hitting on someone working in a busy club or restaurant is useless, they're there to work, busy and probably sick of jerkwads hitting on them.
HOWEVER... find a small hotel bar or a quiet rural place and there will be times when you are the only customer. Sit at the bar, dont hit on her, just read something interesting. Pretty soon she'll start a conversation with you, because she sees the glass washer every day and it's not helping pass the time.
Where else do you get to spend time alone with an attractive young female stranger without having to commit to an approach and with no real time pressure.
Books could be written on this subject, but I'm sure you can fill in the gaps. - MrFurious2k, on 02/18/2009, -0/+52What...wait... did you just admit to watching sex in the city?
- j3rm1981, on 02/18/2009, -0/+52But...she drank a shot with me!
- Nick217, on 02/18/2009, -3/+50"In her mind, men are predictable, ridiculous animals who can rarely be trusted, or worth her time." Sounds like my kind of lady! I'll have a Busch, please. And would you mind turning the game on? Thanks babe.
- psaffrey, on 02/18/2009, -1/+45Wow - a digger with some confidence about women. Are you sure you're in the right place?
- inactive, on 02/18/2009, -0/+39So, you should stalk them?
- charlie55, on 02/18/2009, -8/+46a bartender would have to be pretty ugly and/or surly to make $10 an hour
- danwallace, on 02/18/2009, -0/+36Maybe if you said "overt" to her a few dozen more times you wouldn't have had to wait so long.
- rotundo, on 02/18/2009, -1/+36Worth the chase? How so? Is there something female bartenders have that other hot, intelligent, and sexually adventurous women lack? Color me skeptical.
- Scira, on 02/18/2009, -1/+36Sit at the bar and read books written on this subject.
- inactive, on 02/18/2009, -2/+36Well good because I always promise to only put in the tip.
- fletchsliver, on 02/18/2009, -1/+35All women love to be called babes, I hear.
- anxdiety, on 02/18/2009, -1/+35http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFPdfY3V6z8
- ivansusanin, on 02/18/2009, -3/+36i applaud you
- MrChunks, on 02/18/2009, -0/+29You're a door gorilla and you managed to write a (reasonably) coherent sentence? I take my hat off to you, sir.
- Kennui, on 02/18/2009, -2/+30"So You Want to Hit on a Digg User?"
- zaffir, on 02/18/2009, -0/+28Not as much as they love to be called broads.
- Torx, on 02/18/2009, -0/+28Word of advice, dont do it. Order your drink, shut your trap, and flirt with the skank sitting next to you.
- razrielle, on 02/18/2009, -5/+32All we need now is Steve Irwin doing a documentary about them.
- mike23w, on 02/18/2009, -0/+27I'm going to hang out at the herpes clinic and meet me some strippers. oO
- sindrit, on 02/18/2009, -2/+28Every proper barfly knows the first rule of drinking at bars is: do not hit on the bar staff (because they have the power to refuse you drinks). Anyway, the writer of the article is clearly a female bartender that is tired of not getting hit on by her regulars and is going for some reverse psychology.
- tabion, on 02/18/2009, -3/+28Once you go Asian you can't go Caucasian.
- inactive, on 02/18/2009, -1/+25As my wife is a former bartender, I can say two things.
1. I didn't meet her at her work and she didn't meet me at mine.
2. Be prepared to deal with your new girlfriend "flirting" at work as that is how she makes money... If you can't deal or are a jealous little child, then don't bother trying to begin with. You girl ain't going to change her ways unless you are seriously supplementing her income. - mt330404, on 02/18/2009, -4/+27amen brother, i work the door at a bar in town and it's the same ***** way. im not necessarily an attractive man but i KNOW all these bitches are hitting on me to use me. sluts.
- TexasCanuck, on 02/18/2009, -0/+22*shrugs*
I married a bartender that was working bar to pay for school.
Now she's a computer software engineer. - kaptainchump, on 02/18/2009, -0/+21I've done the same thing before. They're expecting you to be a sex hungry man and you completely throw them off. It drives them crazy when they can't have something they want. Fore-play...
- TheCash, on 02/18/2009, -3/+23Little old to be giving a ***** what anyone thinks of me.
And Cosmo's have Triple Sec and Lime juice, junior. When you've been legally ordering drinks for a little longer, you'll learn some of the differences. - BossKey, on 02/18/2009, -0/+19If they're good, they keep working. I've been to a bar staffed by three gray-haired ladies, nobody cares what they look like because they mix 'em right.
Of course, if your bar's reason for being is to pack the place with frat boys, jocks, and popped collars, then yeah, they'll keep the bartenders fresh for you. - Tarl, on 02/18/2009, -5/+23That is just a wall she builds around herself to help against the unending catcalls, stupid drunks hitting on her, and the "Can't wait to leave this *****" mentality mostly everyone has after a long day at work. Get a grip.
A better article would be "Top things you hate about bar customers if you are a female bartender." -
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