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- nevaseez, on 04/15/2008, -47/+905typical nutbar broad.
- tawnee, on 04/15/2008, -35/+768blah blah blah blah "he has caught me masturbating in my sleep." blah blah.
Awesome article. - digghandyman, on 04/15/2008, -13/+650Watch porn together. Problem solved.
- inactive, on 04/15/2008, -2/+549'He said this would be a good time to tell me: he has caught me masturbating in my sleep. Several times.'
Great defensive move my man - respect - 40yrOldVirgin, on 04/15/2008, -2/+452...and third, why would you pay for porn?
- Bajayjay, on 04/15/2008, -8/+435My girlfriend has way more porn on her computer than I do.
- Cylexis, on 04/15/2008, -5/+430something i've learned over the years is that when a guy looks at porn, or even another girl walking down the street, its *not* because he doesn't love you. guys just *do* that. there's no reason to be insecure about it and raise a ***** having "talks" with him all damn week.
i just accept it. it means my bf is a human being. i don't even feel the need to bring it up. let the man have his privacy. he did let me watch it with him once, though. sure, i was blushing bright ***** red the entire time... but it great experience and i'd totally do it again. - exomni, on 04/15/2008, -5/+399I love how she's all worried about her boyfriend thinking of sex as "traditional" and "private" and "between two partners", and yet she's writing all about her intimate personal relationship details for all the world to read on her blog.
At least when pornographers post their sexual experiences online it's just acting. - Xecutioner, on 04/15/2008, -39/+393First off, why would you look up porn on google. And second off, why wouldn't you clear your history. Learn to use a computer buddy.
- mywhitenoise, on 04/15/2008, -5/+346No kidding. "Are you looking at gay sex with two men?", "Are you looking at anything that involves any kind of violence? Animals?" Did she really ask him that?
- homedaddy, on 04/15/2008, -2/+334you should stop using her computer to look at porn. ;)
- StigNordas, on 04/15/2008, -5/+303Why can't more women come to the same conclusion as the author (at the end)? You simply can't take porn that seriously, if you do you'll never be able to talk about it rationally with your partner.
- LongShlong, on 04/15/2008, -9/+297Firstly, don't pay for porn: www.xvideos.com
Secondly: Real men don't erase their history. I like to print my history out (weekly) and hang it in my cubicle.
Thirdly: Porn is good for girlfriends, they should understand this. It keeps us satisfied when they aren't around, or, keeps us from cheating... - Ninh, on 04/15/2008, -6/+220He's male, has a pulse and possibly likes women. Deal with it.
- NegativeIon, on 04/15/2008, -9/+217The author is WAY over-thinking this. Just speaking from personal experience, porn is something that catches your attention, serves a purpose, and is instantly forgotten as soon as the moment is over. it's a means to release. it has little parallel in the world of real relationships. it gets you off. if you're not in the mood it can be creepy, but then if you are, it's amazing... but just to be blunt (and relatively anonymous). real sex is a million times better any day.
- degron, on 04/15/2008, -7/+214Why should you have to? Date a girl who likes porn too.
- SillyRabbits, on 04/15/2008, -5/+209I was thinking the same thing. Just listening to her rationalize her thought process had my brain screaming drama queen. I'm surprised she didn't call up his mom and ask if she knew what types of sites he was visiting. And women, exhibit A of why men don't have any interest in talking about this....she immediately tells the whole story to her friend. Nice relationship she has there.
- MacEnvy, on 04/15/2008, -48/+215I think she should mind her own ***** business. It's his dick, not yours, sweetie. As long as he isn't cheating on her or spending so much time jerking that it disrupts his job or something, she shouldn't particularly care.
He needs to get out of that relationship ASAP. - fuhlavaflave, on 04/15/2008, -2/+154I NEVER take porn seriously. I only watch clown porn.
- geoken, on 04/15/2008, -1/+153Yeah. That's like loosing your Queen and Rook, then pulling a surprise checkmate with 2 pawns.
- mali1, on 04/15/2008, -2/+146Dugg for common sense.
- NathanielJ, on 04/15/2008, -4/+130Not all of us look up porn on our mom's desktop, and thus we don't feel the need to erase our porn visiting history.
- Ophelia870, on 04/15/2008, -6/+116Ugh. All women are *not* like this. Guys look at porn. They masturbate. Who cares? I hate that this woman posted all this on a blog, if I was her boyfriend I would be mortified, christ, she just told the internet that she sleep masturbates! Why would you want people to know that?!
Rest assured dudes, not all the ladies are this stupid. Her conclusions at the end redeemed her a bit, but she could have written all that without divulging waaaay TMI. - kterrance, on 04/15/2008, -5/+114OK I get her point with the first guy who betrayed her. But in the end she's all good. Seriously funny though. Masturbating in your sleep. How do you hide that?
- typicalusername, on 04/15/2008, -2/+110Holy *****, the nerd level in the thread just shot through the roof with that comment.
- f4nt0m4s, on 04/15/2008, -7/+115If there exists pictures of naked women, men are going to find a way to look at them. Unless you can cut off a guys hands, gouge out his eyes, and remove his penis, he is going to find a way to masturbate. Guys are horny...ALL the time. We are the bottomless pit of horny. The only time we put horny aside is when we are hungry or tired. And I bet 9 out of 10 guys wouldn't mind eating and having sex at the same time. Porn keeps men sane, whether they are in a relationship or not. And if porn wasn't on the internet it would be in a magazine or a painting in some cave. I'm sure cavemen where jacking it to hot cavewomen titties back in the day. The point, ladies, is: unless you find weird ***** up porn on your boyfriends computer, you shouldn't be freaking out. As long as porn isn't ruining the sex in the relationship (that is, you have a good sex-life), than it's probably just your typical normal relationship.
I'm just glad this article reached a sane and logical conclusion, after reading the first page and a half I thought this was going downhill. But it turned out to be a logical read. - theillest1, on 04/15/2008, -3/+110Watch it. Learn it. Love it. Unless it's 2 girls, 1 cup. Unless of course you want to get dumped (no pun intended...actually, yeah it's intended.)
- SergioValente, on 04/15/2008, -15/+114The Catholic approach is best. Don't ever discuss it, if presented with something like porn on your boyfriend's computer, he's definitely aware. The first boyfriend freaked/lashed out when cornered. Bad idea. Pretend sex doesn't exist, yet somehow manage to procreate fruitfully. Be sure to subtly communicate your lack of comfort with the subject, and your children will be afraid to ever bring it up. Joy.
- gerbco, on 04/15/2008, -2/+100 i'm reading this and I kept thinking WTF.. he watches porn and yet it is somehow all about her. Are all women this insecure?
- KSUdesigner, on 04/15/2008, -25/+116Well clearly you've never had a girlfriend. This is par for the course with women.
- spdorsey, on 04/15/2008, -5/+95That girl is thinking waaaay too much. She needs to learn that there is a such thing as harmless fun in the world.
- offspring06, on 04/15/2008, -2/+91I think it would be more odd if he wasn't looking at porn on his computer.
- darny, on 04/15/2008, -4/+82I'm pretty sure it's highly uncommon.
- dpcamp, on 04/15/2008, -3/+80yeah i wish she would have elaborated on that part.. the rest i just tuned out like it was my gf nagging at me about my WoW pr0n!
- PauliAnna, on 04/15/2008, -7/+84porn is the safest form of sex -- unless you are on camera
- eyepatch100, on 04/15/2008, -5/+78This is definitely news.
"Guy watches porn, can't find clear history button" - twisterrust, on 04/15/2008, -1/+73here goes the weekend
- jonr, on 04/15/2008, -4/+76I love you.
- jcr4nf, on 04/15/2008, -17/+87Your boyfriend does want to ***** those other women more than he wants to ***** you. Trust me, there are plenty of women out there I would ***** before my girlfriend but I know my limitations. The problem is that women can't separate sex and emotion. For men they are like carrots and chocolate cake (chocolate cake of course being sex). I could still love the hell out of my girlfriend while I'm railing some blond behind the dumpster at TGI Fridays, but that doesn't mean I do it. It's a natural urge for men to spread their seed. The minute women accept this the better off we will all be.
- theradical, on 04/15/2008, -14/+83Let's just settle this once and for all. "So, my first thought was...Am I not enough?" Of course not! You are never enough. Girlfriend = good. Porn = good. Girlfriend + porn = great. There is no way for girlfriend to = great, without somehow + porn.
- socialdork, on 04/15/2008, -2/+69Mine too. I know how to delete my browser history and rename my bookmarks.
- lordtyros, on 04/15/2008, -6/+71False. Find a good one.
- mywhitenoise, on 04/15/2008, -5/+70Who gives a *****? What guy DOESN'T look at porn? If you're worried about your partner looking at porn, then you're better off looking for a needy lesbian with the same insecurities.
"Great, meaning traditionally great—nothing too non-traditional, no costumes, no toys, no role-playing, and until this moment, no porn." .....BORING! - thecrazyd, on 04/15/2008, -5/+69Doesn't mean it is a good thing.
- CoryTrevor, on 04/15/2008, -4/+65No. It's par for the course for insecure women. Find yourself another one. Trust me, you'll be blown away at how different the relationship is.
- westhe32nd, on 04/15/2008, -1/+60WTF are you talking about? I watch pronz with my GF!
- tcpip4lyfe, on 04/15/2008, -3/+60Now only if I could find a way to work a GF, porn, and COD4 into one package.....
- ripple123, on 04/15/2008, -3/+602 girls 1 cup is a modern art masterpiece. Its rickrolling for real men.
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