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1 In 3 American Moms Getting Action On The Side

huffingtonpost.com — The survey, "Sex and the American Mom," revealed that 34% of these married moms is in the midst of, or has already had, an affair. Think of three married moms you know and ask yourself, "Which one is cheating?"

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  • jongos, on 05/14/2008, -19/+162Wow. So this is what the end goal of feminism was?
    • xcyber347, on 05/14/2008, -38/+11ah, another misogynist on digg, the end goal is so they can do it as often as men and not recieve a harsher response
      • GorfTron, on 05/14/2008, -5/+44Men are beaten ***** for cheating. Women are just satisfying some emotional needs.
        • beingdevious, on 05/14/2008, -4/+22and blame men for making them choose that route.
        • xcyber347, on 05/14/2008, -12/+5lol, beaten ***** by whom? both men and women have stupid reasons for cheating
      • bagboyrebel, on 05/14/2008, -3/+18so you're saying that when men cheat they aren't treated as monsters?
        • xcyber347, on 05/14/2008, -16/+7in this society, guys who are players are cool and even encouraged to be that way. girls who are the same way are considered sluts.
        • Vich, on 05/14/2008, -4/+13Yet ultimately for guys to be "players" there must be "sluts" so that's kind of a self-defeating notion
        • SickofSects, on 05/14/2008, -2/+10xcyber, that might be true for single men, but we are talking about married people here.
        • jamesdew, on 05/14/2008, -2/+13there's a difference between being a player and cheating on your girlfriend.

          Besides, this image of girls being sluts is mostly perpetuated by women and not men. If you women feel this way so strongly stop calling women who sleep with lots of men sluts and stop sleeping with the 'players'. This situation is entirely within the control of women so stop complaining about it and do something, perhaps you are waiting for some men to do something about it for you?
        • xcyber347, on 05/14/2008, -4/+1ya, go down 5 comments, i'm sure the poster was a woman /s
        • sostoudt, on 05/14/2008, -2/+2guys are only cool in other guys eyes. how ever there are plenty of women that will never date a guy thats labeled as a player. like i said again the problem is with the women
      • sostoudt, on 05/14/2008, -2/+10xcyber feminism will never change that becuase in reality its only women who care if women are sluts. men love sluts.
        i dont know what men have told you before but if they've said anything other then they dont care they were just telling you what they thought you wanted to here.
        • xcyber347, on 05/14/2008, -6/+3"men love sluts."

          then if this article is true, it should make most of the people here happy. btw, despite what you've been told, feminism is not a movement against men. in fact, some of feminism's most prominent opponents are women.
    • optimusprime01, on 05/14/2008, -4/+8Rightly said, it was for freedom of vagina :P.
    • pitlord, on 05/14/2008, -10/+17End? HA!
      >.>
      This isn't even the half time. Those libtard Feminazis won't stop until they've completely subjugated every man on the planet and turned us all into docile little girls for them to torture and humiliate.
      • xcyber347, on 05/14/2008, -4/+12it appears that on digg, right-wing neocons only get dugg up when it comes to gender issues
      • gryphon50, on 05/14/2008, -4/+0paranoid much?
      • ICSU, on 05/14/2008, -3/+3That was either sarcasm or you deserved to be blocked.
      • Kumah, on 05/14/2008, -2/+1I can only hope that some day I'll be raped by a sexy feminazi MILF. Please god, please!
      • ascendingPig, on 05/14/2008, -1/+2Sounds like someone here is expressing his insuppressible desire to be subjugated, tortured and humiliated like the docile little girl he is. ;)
    • Spuy767, on 05/14/2008, -2/+4I don't have to guess which one of the three is cheating because I'm sleeping with her. :-(
    • BabyWookie, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2How did you arrive at that conclusion?
  • LEUB, on 05/14/2008, -0/+23I agree with the authors -- who are these people and where do they find the time? Recently, though, I couldn't help noticing a lot of married men and women flirting at a party. Now I'll begin wondering if any of these people really follow through.
    • jaznova, on 05/14/2008, -1/+9How about an unofficial survey here.

      How many married moms here on digg are having or have had an affair or one night stand?
      • Dundasbro, on 05/14/2008, -2/+10You are going to get zero positive responses here for many reasons. One, the amount of married mums on Digg will be a minority. Two, you then need partition that minority into the "cheating" and "not cheating" sections. Three, that "cheating" section needs to be divided again into "Would admit it" or "Wouldn't admit it". Nobody is going to fit into all of them, especially since usernames can often be traced back to people easily.
        • dawnraid101, on 05/14/2008, -0/+4I have
        • AnotherBrian, on 05/14/2008, -0/+18Well I can answer in the positive for Dundasbro's mom.
          /Sorry about that.
    • arobicha, on 05/14/2008, -14/+3I can't see any other point to the article other than exactly that: Make people paranoid and suspect everyone of cheating. 1/3 women won't be satisfied with their married sex lives... If your wife is cheating because you're neglecting her, then she has the right to look for some satisfaction in my books. On that note, I can relate! Horny moms under 40... look me up!
      • TheRob91, on 05/14/2008, -1/+21NO. If she isn't satisfied then she has the right to leave you, not cheat on you and act like its all ok. Thats some retarded *****.
        • arobicha, on 05/14/2008, -2/+0No, you have the preconception that sexual activity is something that is sacred and should only be shared between husband and wife, don't you? Retarded ***** is when you would rather tell somebody you love to death that you want to leave them over sex. Yes, they should have the common courtesy to talk it over with their significant other... but don't think that just because a man doesn't have sex with his wife that he hates her, or mistreats her, or doesn't love her. That's obscenely shallow of you.
      • ostracize, on 05/14/2008, -0/+4Or at least talk about it with you. A marriage should be built on trust.
    • DangerCollie, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2I believe it. And, no, it's not just idle flirting. Even where there's strong social convention against it...actually, it's worse in those places. The more social stigma, the more external sexual repression, the more it seems to happen. That's my highly subjective experience. It's also the highly subjective experience of a friend of mine who's a personal trainer in a very swank neighborhood. It's almost a cliche but he's banging half his clients. The half he's not are the ones who really need the exercise.
  • lucidguru, on 05/14/2008, -11/+103MILF FTW
    • longcat99, on 05/14/2008, -17/+5enough "FTW"'s for gods sake, its getting old and annoying...
    • over900000, on 05/14/2008, -1/+25It could be YOUR mom, guy.
    • TaylorSmythe, on 05/14/2008, -4/+16I work with kids and meet many MILFs. I am hoping this can mean good news for me.
      • nirav72, on 05/14/2008, -4/+30As a married man, l hope that you get your ass kicked by the husband whose wife you will screw or have screwed around with. Cheating has no excuse. Even if you are not the cheater.
        • Deodrus, on 05/14/2008, -0/+17True that. Forgiving after being cheated upon and re-building is a painful process.
          Only when it happens to you will you really know devastating the feeling is.
          A one-night stand is way less hurtful than a prolonged affair. Now "that" hurts like a bitch.

          Of course, this applies under the condition that you are in love with the said partner.
          (btw, ***** those retards who dugg you down bro. I'm with you all the way. I wanted to break the guy's balls with a baseball bat when it happened.)
        • dopplerdog, on 05/14/2008, -8/+12Your marriage vows are between you and your wife and are YOUR problem. Other people don't come into it, nor should they be bound to it. If your wife screws around it's your issue. It's nothing to do with the other guy: he's not the one that broke a promise. Heck, he may not even KNOW she's attached.
          • Deodrus, on 05/14/2008, -0/+11Oh, he knew :-)
          • dopplerdog, on 05/14/2008, -5/+6Doesn't matter. There's plenty of "open marriages" around nowadays, and it's stupid to think that the "other guy" needs to check with the husband first to see if it's ok. It's not up to the "other guy" to get permission from the husband - it's up to the wife to draw the line.
          • frasermoo, on 05/15/2008, -0/+0I would like to see someone say that to the guy as he pulls a baseball bat from his car.
        • Picaroon, on 05/14/2008, -2/+6If your wife is going to cheat on you that easily, and this guy doesn't take advantage out of morality, then some sleazier guy will.
        • Deodrus, on 05/14/2008, -0/+5Let me clarify. I never did anything bad to the guy... I actually wrote him a nice logical letter (I got his email from her inbox - that's how I found out about it). I gave him the benefit of the doubt that he didn't know about me... but much later on I found out that he did, and persisted in his efforts to woo her anyways.
          Oh well... past is past.
          • Gerz1219, on 05/14/2008, -0/+10I just don't understand why The Other Guy sometimes develops an emotional attachment and tries to make a relationship out of the affair. I mean, you already know going in that the girl will cheat and lie to her partner, so why would you want to be that partner? Recently had a friend break up a four year relationship between two other friends. Tried talking some sense into the homewrecker and got nowhere.
    • JSager, on 05/14/2008, -0/+4Well, since you were the third comment, it's probably your mom.
    • J4k3, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Exactly. There's so many sites out there promoting the "latest MILF that got banged", that I'll have to agree with the researchers here. Guys, women have needs too and to be a good husband you need to devote time to your wife. On the other hand, if you do give her everything that she needs and she's still craving for men to ***** her, then she's a slut and there's not much you can do. I guess that's why divorce rates are so high nowadays; it's pretty hard to find faithful people to spend the rest of your life with.
  • suzywang3000, on 05/14/2008, -28/+14that's so awesome.
    • mzx639, on 05/14/2008, -2/+15Yeah, it's going to be great when your husband is f*cking your friends too!
    • flashingcurser, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Suzy I keep you on my friends list to see who you are trolling every day. You truly have taken it to a new level, an artisan! I dub thee "Queen of the Trolls"!

      Do I digg you down or up? Which would you prefer?
  • onionbagel724, on 05/14/2008, -8/+552 of 3 dads getting action on side with single women. 1 of 3 dads getting action on the side with other moms.
    • victrola, on 05/14/2008, -3/+12Dads win!
    • brentinkc, on 05/14/2008, -9/+23I'm a single dad. There's a married mom coming over tomorrow morning.
      • Alix7, on 05/14/2008, -15/+4Break the bitch for me

        (with your wang)
      • PoopOnPaul, on 05/14/2008, -8/+31You're an *****
        • Tollofsen, on 05/14/2008, -7/+9Uh? No, she is. And he's hoping to tap it.
          • PoopOnPaul, on 05/14/2008, -1/+14So if you find your wife cheating on you, you're going to say, "Excuse me good sir, it would appear that that's my wife you're inside of. If you would kindly be on your way, I'd like to have a word with her."

            I call *****. The guy's an *****. MAYBE the guy didn't know your wife was married. But the guy in question knows. He's an *****.
          • dopplerdog, on 05/14/2008, -10/+6@poop, there are a lot of open marriages around now, and you can't expect the guy to get written permission from the husband first. Fact is, it's not up to this guy to check - if she's in an exclusive relationship, it's the wife's responsibility to say no.
          • willfe, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Yup, and it's a real pisser that she's quite free to *tell her husband* "oh, I'm committed to you, and won't sleep with anyone else!" while she continues to screw around behind his back.
        • Patori, on 05/14/2008, -5/+8Unless he's the dude's friend or something, he isn't. There's no obligation to the other guy, no connection.
      • roodammy44, on 05/14/2008, -3/+3What a wanker you are.
        I hope you know heartbreak one day the way this woman's husband soon will.
      • Kumah, on 05/14/2008, -2/+1***** her good so she comes back for more!
    • AdobeBrick, on 05/14/2008, -0/+0for a play date?
  • h0ser, on 05/14/2008, -14/+88sluts.
    • shondell, on 05/14/2008, -8/+9just so you know, i know for a fact your mom is one of the moms getting "action on the side".
    • ICSU, on 05/14/2008, -4/+4envy
  • HaloZero, on 05/14/2008, -1/+93I want data! how did they choose random samples, non-response bias calculations. Was it on phone, online?

    Online polls = not a true reflection of society.
    • hermslice, on 05/14/2008, -5/+1O man i really want this one to be true. please give me links
    • GorfTron, on 05/14/2008, -2/+18Yes! I want data! Phone numbers and pictures!
    • dadioflex, on 05/14/2008, -0/+12It was probably a thoroughly scientific survey carried out in a hotel bar just outside of town on a Tuesday night.
    • Patori, on 05/14/2008, -1/+1!= works.
    • zspeed78, on 05/14/2008, -1/+5Seems like it was a survey on AOL or one of its magazines, that obviously women (and mostly moms) read... and since theyre saying 33% of moms cheat, I would think theyre data is probably pretty accurate for moms that stay home and have time to take surveys on AOL or to respond to magazines. I doubt 30% of working 8am to 5pm, + commuting moms cheat.
      • gryphon50, on 05/14/2008, -0/+3on the contrary, I would say most stay-at-home moms have young children and are so busy with them, and so exhausted, I highly doubt they're cheating much at all. If any wife is cheating, it's going to be one with older children and one that is going back to work....Seems like alot of these cheaters, both men and women, meet people at work.
        • zspeed78, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Good point.. Im not suuuure.. but that might be more likely. I just know Ive heard a lot of stories about bored women from home remodeling contractors and swimming pool contractors.
        • stoneking2312, on 05/14/2008, -0/+3pornos don't count
    • cocacolamandan, on 05/15/2008, -0/+1This data isn't scientific or valid. "Subjects who choose to respond" are not a representative sample. Moms who are more into... interesting ...sexual habits are more likely to respond.
  • mciampa1214, on 05/14/2008, -13/+11Yeah, thanks to me
  • pedo, on 05/14/2008, -8/+114i've actually had more success with married women than with kids.
  • pittpat, on 05/14/2008, -14/+13Ladies my number is....
  • UltramegaOK, on 05/14/2008, -2/+85"Cookie Magazine and "AOL Body" did a survey..."

    Who? I'd like to believe the statistics, but the credibility of the surveyors sucks.

    Buried for AOL.
  • cyranthus, on 05/14/2008, -1/+25somehow i think this will soon be buried as innacurate
  • putergirl, on 05/14/2008, -1/+5yeah, sure they are they are on here Digging ;l)
  • LessThanLiz, on 05/14/2008, -10/+3Pimpettes!
  • killbert24, on 05/14/2008, -4/+29The survey (poll) could have been taken on a pornographic website for all we know. How many people answered, where are they from, what is the margin of error, etc?
  • lava, on 05/14/2008, -2/+41Mom?
  • AntzNZ, on 05/14/2008, -6/+18I really doubt this is accurate, 1/3 seems far too much.
    • hermslice, on 05/14/2008, -2/+6PLEASE BE TRUE
      • Drugx2, on 05/15/2008, -0/+0all the people on here like you who want this to be true obviously don't have a wife or girlfriend. cuz anyone who has would be pretty pissed off at there girl for sleeping around. frankly its discusting.
    • travis1982, on 05/14/2008, -1/+6Seriously..I ***** hope so..now I'm worried about my mom and my girlfriend...stupid women...now excuse me while my maid performs falacio.
    • campigenus, on 05/14/2008, -1/+1Based on my experience I would say it's more than that. But what do I know, I am single. ;-)
    • tsotha, on 05/14/2008, -0/+5When you get cheated on it opens your eyes. When other guys find out your girlfriend/wife cheated on you they'll come up and say "that sucks, dude. When my ex-wife did it..." That's when you find out how common it really is.

      Also, both sexes lie about sex in surveys. Guys tend to overstate, and women to understate. I would say the 1/3 number is on the low side.
    • DangerCollie, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2It's not really that big of a stretch. The number of women unhappy in their marriage is consistently around 40%. So you're talking a sub-set that actually acts on it. Then toss in the swinger couples, couples that openly have sexual experiences with other partners and 33% actually seems low. Be good looking and run a home repair business, you'll find out how common it is.
  • MessiR10, on 05/14/2008, -20/+10WTF...this whores should be stoned to death.
  • snacktime, on 05/14/2008, -1/+60THIS IS NOT A VALID SURVEY.

    It was a "response" survey, meaning subjects responded voluntarily and the sample is biased. It was NOT randomly sampled, meaning the conclusions are worthless.
    • BeyondDisbelief, on 05/14/2008, -10/+4Ok sure, its not a perfectly accurate survey, but:
      1) With most people having access to the internet now, just how badly off do you the results to be? Surely its not going to be 50% off or anything like that. With that in consideration 30,000 responses is pretty huge, and the website doesn't have strong sexual themes that I can discern to terribly skew it.
      2) Do you really expect such a survey to get ANY responses at all if the anonymity wasn't secured by the fact it is done on the internet? Would you answer such a server if it was someone approaching you, sent it to you by mail, etc.? How do you know it wasn't a private detective?
      • tallguyg, on 05/14/2008, -1/+10This survey is 100% worthless just like snacktime says. The number of responses is completely irrelevant. Its the type of sampling that matters and since it was a VOLUNTARY survey there is absolutely no way to generalize these findings to the american public. It is about as far from "random sample" as you could possibly get, so yes it can very easily be more than 50% off. In fact, the VALID studies put the number of people who have affair at closer to 5%. Absolutely worthless survey and article. Buried.
        • BeyondDisbelief, on 05/17/2008, -0/+0I have trouble believe any "valid" surveys can have remotely accurate results considering the nature of the question. Who's going to tell you they've cheated or are currently cheating if you are physically collecting the data from them? It doesn't matter if its a sealed envelope or form with no name on it. Internet survey is as close as accurate as you can hope ofr for the nature of this question. No one's going to believe a 5% finding, that's much more likely to be over 50% off.

          The only trouble with this survey is if there is any reason to believe the sample base are more or less likely to cheat than the population. I see no reason to believe AoL Body response sample to be significantly more or less likely. Does AoL Body skew their audience to be of a particular religion? sexual preference? lifestyle? I don't think so for any of those.

          The fact they had time to fill it out means more free time? Well there's also the opposing argument that those with high stress jobs (thus less free time) such as lawyers, politicians, etc. are more likely to have affairs... and I have the tendency to think high stress is more likely to cheat than those with free time, so you might even say these results are understating. Yeah, I know, that isn't backed up by hard fact, but every conclusion is ultimatley drawn from subjective judgement and interpretation.

          Are the uncertainty to that so huge that you can't even believe this to be a ballpark estimate?
      • zspeed78, on 05/14/2008, -5/+25%????????!!!!!! Keep dreaming.

        Furthermore, as long as the survey method isnt prone to picking out specific types of people.. theres no problem with it. And then, if you report your findings NARROWLY (like, women, and then moms), its still valid. Sure this survey is not accurate in answering if a newlywed will cheat, or a college gf will cheat. But a stay at home mom with time to answer an ad, i believe it.

        Also, voting is a voluntary survey, and we pick presidents using it. So it cant be too bad.
        • jawbreaker4fs, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1You voted for Bush, didn't you?
    • travis1982, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2Then that means the numbers might be more...maybe it was only 34% because a lot of married women don't want to admit it...maybe only 2% all women who cheat were willing to admit it in a survey, esh..so high right now.
    • DangerCollie, on 05/14/2008, -1/+3You sound like you're hoping it's not valid.
      • willfe, on 05/15/2008, -0/+1Clever ad hominem, but no, this is a legitimate complaint about the efficacy of the survey.
  • diskit, on 05/14/2008, -2/+28Lucky UPS drivers...
    • passedoutghost, on 05/14/2008, -3/+0Lucky pool boys you mean.
    • xonahuia, on 05/14/2008, -2/+3Lucky Mexican gardeners, I wonder how many of them have impregnated their bosses wives and don't have to raise children that aren't theirs
      • BabyWookie, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2I always wondered why my second kid looks like a beaner.
    • leerayIG88, on 05/14/2008, -1/+1UPS drivers rarely have sex. Women just like to flirt with you because of your UPS uniform (tight shorts).
  • xsquirrel378x, on 05/14/2008, -3/+130thankfully my mom is always working late, she has no time for an affair
    • BeyondDisbelief, on 05/14/2008, -37/+3Not to accuse your mom or anything, but as a general response to people who have affairs in general (again, not directed at you) late-working is the #1 excuse
    • hwy9nightkid, on 05/14/2008, -37/+1Dude, that is what she TELLS you she is doing.. you fool
    • xsquirrel378x, on 05/14/2008, -1/+70way to get the joke guys
    • Memnochxx, on 05/14/2008, -3/+28You two (motogoat and BeyondDisbelief) are retarded.
      • NOFXY, on 05/14/2008, -1/+9you have to spell it so they'll understand you, let me demonstrate. "You two (motogoat and BeyondDisbelief) are *retarted*." it makes it easier for their primitive brains to comprehend what you're saying.
    • passedoutghost, on 05/14/2008, -20/+1Pfft. Why do you think she 'works' late?
      • TheXuu, on 05/14/2008, -0/+3Perhaps she is a Wal-Mart Shelf Stocker. They work pretty late....
    • chrgrose, on 05/14/2008, -1/+4giggidy
    • DarkDx, on 05/14/2008, -1/+2HAHAHA
  • TomKarpik, on 05/14/2008, -3/+89The two female authors couldn't help but to subtly blame men for this anyway:

    "When we told men that one in three married moms cheat (or have cheated) on their husbands, and that a solid majority are actually looking for more sex than they're having at home, most mens' eyes light up with surprise and certainly curiosity. Some even joked about where they might find one of these gals. But, what we didn't hear was "Yes, I can understand that. I'm not in the mood very often and I'm probably not satisfying my wife's sexual desires.""

    Cheaters are cheaters. Some will attempt to blame their cheating on their significant other, but it's all just part of the "not my fault" anti-responsibility syndrome that so many North Americans suffer from. If you cheat, it was YOUR decision, and the consequences are entirely YOUR fault.

    Stupid.
    • BeyondDisbelief, on 05/14/2008, -9/+0I think you overanalyzed that line. read the following sentence.
    • rolf, on 05/14/2008, -0/+16I think in the preceding paragraphs, where they said it was once stigmatized but now not so much, even serving as a wake-up call to the other partner to save the marriage -- that they trying to say "it's okay, go ahead, even if you get caught, you won't get in trouble because it's really the other person's fault too."

      I really have no use for moral relativism. If you're sneaking around, it's because you know it's wrong. End of. (Applies to men and women.)
    • Mootabolife, on 05/14/2008, -1/+6I do my part not to give cheaters the opportunity. I hope that maybe my good deed will influence them in the future to be better people. The consequences are your fault, not having anyone strong enough as a friend isn't.
    • ZenMojo, on 05/14/2008, -2/+5I have a convenient way to preserve the honor and dignity of a husband whose wife cheats on him because he's not doing enough to satisfy her in the relationship.
      Tell her there's no reason she should be sneaking around when she's a grown woman ... then kick her ass out on the curb.
    • cloud4197, on 05/14/2008, -1/+5My thoughts exactly. No one wants to accept responsibility for anything in the US anymore. It's ruining the country.
    • Metman, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1And sadly, even after they are caught not only do they fail to realize the number of lives they have impacted, but they rationalize the pain they do see they caused.
    • toekneebullard, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1I find it weird how marriage stereotypes always swing super wide one way or the other. Either the husband is always horny and the wife is disinterested, or the wife is looking for it on the side cause her husband is no longer interested.
    • flashingcurser, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Sadly, even if they are caught most men wont divorce them. Loose the kids? no way. He will just ***** around on the side too.
  • santaliqueur, on 05/14/2008, -2/+33With all those Milf Hunter videos I've seen, I'm surprised it's not 50%.
  • WTFppl, on 05/14/2008, -9/+30Marriage is for suckers!
    • chrgrose, on 05/14/2008, -3/+1Marriage doesn't make me ga...wait nevermind.
    • amoeba, on 05/14/2008, -8/+4without which you wouldn't exist as your parents would never have had you.
      • travis1982, on 05/14/2008, -0/+4you're silly
      • jlburke, on 05/14/2008, -0/+10Right, only married people can have children
        • solid12345, on 05/14/2008, -4/+8And single parents usually spit out brats, society needs 2 parent households historically.
          • WTFppl, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2^^Perspective^^
          • Continuum, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2Dude, no one said single parents. just an unmarried couple.
          • chrgrose, on 05/15/2008, -0/+1Even if its true, it is only so because idiots of society like yourself repress them.
      • hellotyler, on 05/16/2008, -0/+1You're right.
    • toekneebullard, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2You have to look at it this way: You can either be lonely, or you can be annoyed.
      I picked annoyed.
    • Codeblew, on 05/15/2008, -0/+0I would pick lonely over annoyed any day. Woman annoys me, I fix that by not seeing her anymore.
  • remo2012, on 05/14/2008, -6/+1The Truth is coming out!
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNdUV1vysAc
  • MrTito, on 05/14/2008, -1/+29So 1/3 of the "your mom" jokes are true.
    • vuke69, on 05/14/2008, -1/+13I just did your mom
      I just did your mom
      I just did your mom
    • tsotha, on 05/14/2008, -0/+0I dunno. Do one third of mothers really wear army boots?
  • doyoulikeworms, on 05/14/2008, -2/+3http://body.aol.com/healthy-living/sex-american-mo ...
    • karaokekidd, on 05/14/2008, -1/+2Let's skew their results! I voted as an unfaithful happy go-lucky nympho.
  • TwoLOUD, on 05/14/2008, -2/+6I dont doubt it one bit..:)
  • fredmv, on 05/14/2008, -9/+4Gotta love those freaky-deaky cougars. Hard to believe being a Digg user, but I've contributed to some of that 'action'.
    • MsAntiSunshine, on 05/14/2008, -1/+9Wait could you repost that? Your ego was clouding the comment.
    • walugi, on 05/14/2008, -1/+4no you havent.
    • PoopOnPaul, on 05/14/2008, -3/+4Congratulations, you're an *****. I hope one day the husband finds you and kicks your ass.
  • Mikhail101, on 05/14/2008, -3/+8Hmph so all those porn titles like "I had sex with my best friend's mum" could be true
    • RonBurgundy76, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2No. Only about 34% of them.
    • freedomfrog, on 06/04/2008, -0/+1NO. It said American not British. No mums.
  • saqer, on 05/14/2008, -16/+10moral bankruptcy of society as a result of ultra-consumerism and lack of religion
    • dadioflex, on 05/14/2008, -8/+4No religion, no morals to bankrupt. Win win.
    • chrgrose, on 05/14/2008, -2/+5No. with religion you simply have more curtains behind the windows.
      • travis1982, on 05/14/2008, -6/+2and behind those curtains is probably a priest raping a 10 year old boy...yum.
  • sparkleton, on 05/14/2008, -1/+49Reminds me of the time that four friends and I saw another friend (female, not single) making out with some random guy on the dance floor. When we met up later on and I asked her why she would make out with some random guy when she already had a boyfriend, she responded: "I didn't do that."

    No matter how many times I told her I saw her do it along with 4 other people she denied it until the end. Still does to this day. That kind of denial is crazy.
    • Carl306, on 05/14/2008, -2/+18I'll say it, and you males out there are likely thinking the same thing. Stereotypically, girls are ***** crazy...
      • sostoudt, on 05/14/2008, -2/+2yep but we have accepted that fact(atleast the heteros have). we forgive you :)
    • Neorio, on 05/14/2008, -3/+7Heh heh. If you ask a woman how many people she's slept with, she'll only mention how many boyfriends she's been in love with. Not the tens or hundred of men who have sexed her that "didn't count'!

      Being a boyfriend is like the "marriage, free-sample". It's a free sample, because techincally speaking - marrying a woman is tantamount to buying one, and paying for her to pretend to like you and only you.

      otherwise, women want lots of boyfriends as much as men want lots of girlfriends.
    • crossmr, on 05/14/2008, -2/+3Shaggy built a hit single out of it.
      • crossmr, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1are you kidding me? its the entire premise of his video..
        it wasn't me..
        damn uncultured kids.
    • micflo, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1did you get in on the action?
    • SickofSects, on 05/14/2008, -7/+4Why do you feel the need to keep bugging her about it though?
      • sparkleton, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Ha. I understand what you mean, but I'm not following her around heckling her. Honestly it's more an inside joke at this point and is rarely brought up other than for a quick laugh.
    • dafunkmonster, on 05/14/2008, -4/+4Dude, you're talking to a woman. It's always gonna come off "crazy".
    • ZenMojo, on 05/14/2008, -1/+7It doesn't count 1) when there's music playing, 2) if she can't get pregnant from it, 3) if no one's looking, 4) if her boyfriend's in a different zipcode. I've known plenty of women like that and it never ceases to amaze me.
  • Memnochxx, on 05/14/2008, -0/+3Non-random survey results are inherently biased. Buried as inaccurate.
  • evan3168, on 05/14/2008, -2/+11what about German moms? Ive seen the pornos on the interwebs
  • bacon_skoda, on 05/14/2008, -1/+2clearly Colleen Dealy and Taylor Baldwin. if they are moms.
  • gogog0, on 05/14/2008, -2/+4anyone who's taking a general psychology or statistics class knows that this statistic is complete ***** and is often used by people pointing out flaws in surveying.
  • DreamVsPs2, on 05/14/2008, -3/+183/3 of Digg users don't get any action at all.
  • ladyarcher85, on 05/14/2008, -3/+47Jokes, witty comments aside I find this report disturbing. I don't approve of cheating/infidelity. If you are just going to "play the field" why the hell did you even get married? Its unfair to the other person. Not only are you cheating on your partner, you are also ruining your kids life. Since you decided on pooping out some kids they deserve a good, solid family life in which to grow up so they won't be so f*cked when they're grown.
    These people should be ashamed.
    • kenplaysviola, on 05/14/2008, -2/+6I agree with you wholeheartedly, but as the article mentioned, marriage is probably going to be redefined. It won't be the traditional structure that we think anymore. Maybe a little one-time affair on the side will be assumed and expected. Is it healthy for the children? I don't know. From looking around me, I wouldn't be surprised if women in my generation commonly started having affairs on the side. It may just be something common in marriages that we will have to accept.
      • ladyarcher85, on 05/14/2008, -1/+10Just because it is going to be "redefined" it still does not make it right. I just think it is a sad day for all that we would just accept a great wrong simply because many are doing it.
        • dopplerdog, on 05/14/2008, -0/+7Fact is, how you want to run your relationship is between you and your hubby. What do you care what other people do, or how they want to run their relationships? Why is it a sad day? You can still stay faithful to your hubby if that's what you want.
          • ladyarcher85, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1True, and I'm not arguing with that. Many are enjoying those kinds of relationships and it works wonders for them, but if there was already an agreement between the partners that they have an "open" relationship then they wouldn't be calling it cheating now, will they?

            And cheating is what we are discussing here.
      • tsotha, on 05/14/2008, -2/+10No way. Human beings just aren't wired like that. When your SO cheats on you life just sucks, and for a long time. In most instances the relationship is irreparably damaged. The monogamous relationship is something validated by thousands of years of history in civilization after civilization, and everywhere it breaks down the civilization breaks down as well.

        The anthropologists argument goes like this: In general, men won't put effort into raising children that aren't (or may not be) theirs. It makes sense, when you think about it, since evolution is all about passing your genes along before you die. What makes men invest in family and society is the assurance that the kids they're raising are their own. It's no exaggeration to say this really is the cornerstone of civilization.

        There are certainly cultures where both men and women have lots of sexual partners, especially in Southern Africa. But these cultures barely scrape by in the best of times because the local soil is very fertile, which allows the women to feed their children purely through their own efforts, with no help from the men - if a man has a job he spends the money on himself, his parents, or in the wooing of women. When he dies his property doesn't go to his wife or children, it goes to his siblings, i.e. people who are definitively related to him.

        And it all works, as long as things are going smoothly. But it means there's no money for the children to go school, and when the mother dies the kids are screwed. Also the society is brittle, in that a war, drought, or epidemic will mean starvation where it wouldn't in two-parent cultures.

        Really, this is not the way we want things to go. It's been tried before in lots of places, and it just doesn't work as well as culture we inherited.
    • chrgrose, on 05/14/2008, -4/+9"...why the hell did you even get married?"

      This is a clue that you don't understand at all how women think.
      • sostoudt, on 05/14/2008, -0/+4i know ladyarcher everybody knows they get married for the 50%, its win win either find someone you love or atleast make out like a bandit lol
      • ladyarcher85, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1And just because its the women who are discussed in this survey does not mean they are the only ones who cheat.
    • dopplerdog, on 05/14/2008, -6/+6Ladyarcher, how old are you, 12? Though some people are lucky enough to live up to the expectations of marriage, most do the best they can even if it falls short. It's very judgemental of you to criticise others without even considering their circumstances. Walk in their shoes and you might have grounds to criticise.
      • sostoudt, on 05/14/2008, -1/+6i think thats alittle strong i mean divorce is always a option(better one then cheating) sure not every one can keep there vows but atleast have enough decency to tell the other person.
      • ladyarcher85, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2Wow, not only is your way off the mark you are missing my whole point. So, marriage is full of problems, demands etc. Well duh! So, that gives them the license to cheat? Bravo! I'm sure you're one of those who certainly walked in those cheaters shoes.
      • ghinch, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1I think the point was, don't get married if you can't handle the responsibility. People don't want to make the hard decisions or accept responsibility about anything these days, and it's one of the biggest detriments in our society.
    • pr0t0, on 05/14/2008, -1/+2Just in case you were unaware, babies don't come out of a woman's ass.
      • ladyarcher85, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1And just in case you are also unaware that was just a figure of speech because fact is there are a lot of people who just bring out babies in this world without any regard for their well-being, very much like pooping.
  • hotsw4p, on 05/14/2008, -8/+3sad really.... what's the point of getting married if you aren't pleasing your wife in the bedroom? if you don't want her in that way, why'd you get married in the first place? and if you have such bad communication that she isn't happy with sex in the marriage and you're getting f*cked around on behind the scenes, then i guess it wasn't meant to be in the first place so it wasn't really a marriage worth talking about... so i guess not one worth being faithful for either.... :(
  • nastronomical, on 05/14/2008, -3/+6Cant trust these whores anymore that's why you should get a Home Paternity Kit.


    https://www.homedna.com/paternity_test.html?src=go ...
  • pintomp3, on 05/14/2008, -0/+25*****.
  • Papajohn56, on 05/14/2008, -1/+14100% of submitters don't understand how statistics work
    • crossmr, on 05/14/2008, -0/+9Yup:
      Think of three married moms you know and ask yourself, "Which one is cheating?"

      The statistics don't remotely mean that. Its not a uniform distribution..
    • sostoudt, on 05/14/2008, -2/+1how do i know that the statistic of a 100% comment is right since you are a comment submitter lol
    • ghinch, on 05/14/2008, -0/+1Oh, people can come up with statistics to prove anything. 14% of people know that.
  • GorfTron, on 05/14/2008, -1/+5This is what happens a lot lol
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82yCqvPWwNE
    (not an RR)
    • bigtizzle, on 05/14/2008, -0/+5I would've knocked the dust off that pussy.
  • crapmatic, on 05/14/2008, -4/+2Maybe the numbers are skewed by the 9 out of 10 trailer trash moms getting action on the side?
  • dan222555, on 05/14/2008, -2/+9AOL online survey + posted on The Huffington Post = about as inaccurate as it gets....
  • crash21, on 05/14/2008, -5/+2pics or it doesn't happen
  • JohnnyKinder, on 05/14/2008, -5/+10So, as someone posted before http://body.aol.com/healthy-living/sex-american-mo ...
    I am now a mother of 3 who has sex 2-5 times a week and also cheated on my husband since having my kids, so uhh, yea, this is a legit survey. Aol surveys FTW!
    • nephilimx, on 05/14/2008, -0/+6I dugg you up just for the ironicness of you being a mother and being named "johnny"
    • dafunkmonster, on 05/14/2008, -0/+5LOL I'm a mother of 12 who has sex once a year and values sex more than my kids...
      • WoollyMittens, on 05/14/2008, -0/+5A "breeder" so to speak.
      • fxu1989, on 05/14/2008, -0/+3hey baby, what you doing tomorrow night?
      • flashingcurser, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2With 12, your factory should have been turned into a playground a long time ago.
    • hellotyler, on 05/16/2008, -0/+1Yeah, i'm sure TONS of people are trolling the AOL motherhood forums and trying to skew poll results...
  • louiemalkovitch, on 05/14/2008, -3/+2That Bitch!
  • theandy1, on 05/14/2008, -2/+21I know the way this finding was conducted is bs, but it's probably not far from what the actual numbers are. Most people think that it's the man who helped a woman cheat who is at fault and girl was just taken advantage of when she cheats. Yet when a woman helps a man cheat it's always the man's fault. I have friends who get upset at the guy who ***** their girl, but for some reason go on to act like their girl is an angel. I know our natural instinct is to kick the dude's ass which we should do, but seriously you should make your girl take some responsibility too. When you let women get away with ***** of course they're gonna keep doing it. So start kicking cheaters to the curb otherwise you'll have a kid in the middle of the mess the next time it happens.
    • inkhead, on 05/14/2008, -2/+3If any of this is true it doesn't really matter, you husband probably has slept with about 8 women since he married you... seriously.
    • tsotha, on 05/14/2008, -0/+5Kicking his ass wasn't my instinct. My response to her was "come home, get your stuff, and get out." I would only be pissed off at the guy if he were someone I knew.
    • flashingcurser, on 05/14/2008, -0/+2Has anyone watched Clint Eastwoods "Every which way but loose"? (Paraphrasing slightly)
      Girl "I hear you went to prison for killing your wife"
      Eastwood: "Yeah"
      Girl: "So why did you kill her?"
      Eastwood: "because I found her in bed with my best friend"
      Girl: "Why didn't you kill him?!?"
      Eastwood: (somewhat sheepishly) "he was my best friend"
      • Enternal, on 05/14/2008, -1/+1Wow..... he should kill them both. Kill her because she cheated on her husband. Kill his best friend because he cheated on his best friend. The wife should not cheat. The best friend should tell his friend so that his friend can leave that wife and then he can do whatever he wants.
        • willfe, on 05/15/2008, -0/+2Nah, just wait for a half-crazed burglar to accidentally find them both together and shoot them because they're witnesses, that way you can get framed for it, go to a nasty prison, buy a rock hammer and a chessboard from Morgan Freeman, and eventually escape your cell to crawl through a narrow pipe (filled with raw sewage) the length of five football fields to freedom so you can claim funds you helped the crooked warden embezzle and escape to Mexico.

          /Obscure? :)
  • PoopOnPaul, on 05/14/2008, -3/+1I can't wait till we can delete our accidental posts...
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