guardian.co.uk— The reasons why many men pay for sex are revealed in the interviews that make up a major new piece of research.
Jan 15, 2010View in Crawl 4
I'll make it even less funReading some of these comments I'm a little taken aback by the willingness of men to pay for sex...is it really that hard to find someone to be with? Prostitutes for the most part aren't as glamorous as they are portrayed, unless you have Eliot Spitzer money they are used, abused, crack infested shells of their former selves.Then you have men like this winner :FTA:"But another of the interviewees left me feeling concerned. Darren was young, good-looking and bright; I asked him how often he thought the women he paid enjoyed the sex. "I don't want them to get any pleasure," he told me. "I am paying for it and it is her job to give me pleasure. If she enjoys it I would feel cheated."Yeah yeah I know digg me down
LOL Hookers are way cheaper than wives or girlfriends. Its simple economics. plus you can pay the prostitute and she / he leaves. No nagging for the other 23 hours. What a concept and the same women nagging there husbands are the same ones wanting them to be faithful. Faithful to what?
I never went to a prostitute but I still hate butt ugly, frustrated, feminists like the author. I bet she doesn't get any. No dick could get up and survive around that one.
i agree with everything you said but the statement " women didnt use it as a tool of control" is never going to happen..... creatures have been using sex as a means of control ever since it evolved.
Okay...They're _forced_ into it... but it's the _staying_ that they have an actual choice in.Ultimately EVERYTHING you do in life is a choice... the potential consequences may be unpleasant (ie being beaten, being treated like a criminal by the "justice" system).Everyone has the right to say 'no' to something they don't like or don't want to do.Part of the problem is that most people will chose an unpleasant know over a potentially pleasant unknown.
... pdxphoenix... wow... your complete lack of understanding of real life is surprising. So no one is "forced" to stay in jail. Criminals can just try to break out whenever they want. No ones forcing them. No one forced the slaves to be slaves. They could have said no anytime and gotten beaten and killed. Nice choices here... Sure they have a choice by strict definition but saying that you have a choice when everything is against you is insensitive at best and cruel and idiotic at worst.I guess we shouldn't have had the civil rights movement at all right? women and blacks had the choice to pretend to be white males and vote. They had the choice to slaughter every white man and take the country for themselves. They have no right to complain about being discriminated against. THey had a choice
assassyn360Jan 16, 2010
Prostitutes don't have headaches.
blumarlin1Jan 16, 2010
It's behind the knee, you have to believe it's there.
robotbuddhaJan 17, 2010
You could say the same about sex with almost any girl who's not a prostitute.
queentiyeJan 17, 2010
I'll make it even less funReading some of these comments I'm a little taken aback by the willingness of men to pay for sex...is it really that hard to find someone to be with? Prostitutes for the most part aren't as glamorous as they are portrayed, unless you have Eliot Spitzer money they are used, abused, crack infested shells of their former selves.Then you have men like this winner :FTA:"But another of the interviewees left me feeling concerned. Darren was young, good-looking and bright; I asked him how often he thought the women he paid enjoyed the sex. "I don't want them to get any pleasure," he told me. "I am paying for it and it is her job to give me pleasure. If she enjoys it I would feel cheated."Yeah yeah I know digg me down
Closed AccountJan 17, 2010
LOL Hookers are way cheaper than wives or girlfriends. Its simple economics. plus you can pay the prostitute and she / he leaves. No nagging for the other 23 hours. What a concept and the same women nagging there husbands are the same ones wanting them to be faithful. Faithful to what?
cfuseJan 17, 2010
No, for a woman honest enough to admit she's only doing it for financial gain (and for a break in the nagging).
cfuseJan 17, 2010
and some of them are below freezing.
silviumcJan 17, 2010
I never went to a prostitute but I still hate butt ugly, frustrated, feminists like the author. I bet she doesn't get any. No dick could get up and survive around that one.
danrienJan 17, 2010
i agree with everything you said but the statement " women didnt use it as a tool of control" is never going to happen..... creatures have been using sex as a means of control ever since it evolved.
pdxphoenixJan 19, 2010
Okay...They're _forced_ into it... but it's the _staying_ that they have an actual choice in.Ultimately EVERYTHING you do in life is a choice... the potential consequences may be unpleasant (ie being beaten, being treated like a criminal by the "justice" system).Everyone has the right to say 'no' to something they don't like or don't want to do.Part of the problem is that most people will chose an unpleasant know over a potentially pleasant unknown.
bobbi21Jan 23, 2010
... pdxphoenix... wow... your complete lack of understanding of real life is surprising. So no one is "forced" to stay in jail. Criminals can just try to break out whenever they want. No ones forcing them. No one forced the slaves to be slaves. They could have said no anytime and gotten beaten and killed. Nice choices here... Sure they have a choice by strict definition but saying that you have a choice when everything is against you is insensitive at best and cruel and idiotic at worst.I guess we shouldn't have had the civil rights movement at all right? women and blacks had the choice to pretend to be white males and vote. They had the choice to slaughter every white man and take the country for themselves. They have no right to complain about being discriminated against. THey had a choice