As a Chinese girl, I had always preferred dating my own kind and I'm sure a lot of other Chinese girls will say the same until they meet a Caucasian with whom there's mutual attraction and then an entirely new story unfolds. I'm now dating a white guy, here's what I noticed 1) I need to speak English with him and we both have fun as he tries his best to learn a little Cantonese, that's a cultural difference which is to be expected anyway2) Sex is more constant. Where with my ex, I needed to coax him to bed, my current boyfriend takes the initiative.3) He's less possessive and it took me time to get used to talking to him directly about how I feel when we quibble, whereas with my ex, I don't know why it seems natural to just hint and make my thoughts and opinions subtle.However, even as I point out the differences I see, I think it's all variance in personality and culture. Most Asian girls will tell you they'll prefer dating their own guys because it is so much easier in many aspects. My parents, even as I've dated my current boyfriend for a little more than half a year, are still trying to convince me to go back to Hong Kong to find a "proper Chinese boyfriend". So for Asian guys who are mulling over why white/black guys are taking all your girls, I think you guys should be ashamed to even think that when you really have the advantage. Don't think it's easy for us girls to make a choice on who we date! In general, I feel that guys remain guys, no matter what ethnicity. They don't like having clingy girlfriends (assuming they're straight), they enjoy sex, they like girls who are feminine, sexy, attractive and caring. And they always will have a hard time understanding what girls want unless you say it to their face.
With the exception of a few intellectual posts, this thread is becoming unnecessarily racist. People need to stop making general statements like this if this is just based off your observations of being in a foreign country for a couple of years without an understanding of the culture.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
accept the unfortunate girl esp. a smart asian would have to live the life of poverty and idiot children right?mexicans are the lowest of low shut ur trap and know ur place
I'm sure it might just be a phase (white fever) but at the same time it may not be...lets hope it is... We as an Asian race should consider slowing the melting pot effect and try to continue our beautiful Asian races going. If and when the melting pot is at it peck we will all look the same pretty much how fun would that be...
you and i have extremely similiar knowledge and points of view. i am asian and recently become aware and interested at black women. though as you say the "african american" culture is some what self degrading... though i cannt argue, i also feel there are small pockets of african american culture that dislike the life styles of african americans portrayed by white media and strive to break the negative stereotypes. in particular, african american women who try to break away from these negative stereotypes also tend to have a open mind towards asian males and a dislike towards white males. yes, many if not most azn femals are racist towards all black males (though some will engage in sex with black males out of curiousity the same females will abstain from a relationship with black males, i got angry at a past azn girl friend for racist rermarks against blacks).best thing people can do for the sake of future generations is to keep our children away from the powerful influences of white media until they are mature enough to form their own non prejudice opinions.you do realize we will be flamed by many white males for our points of view?email me, i would like to have other relatd conversations.livesimplyandhumbly@yahoo.com
I posted my response to this whole issue many times.I posted this on another site:As a Korean-American who is engaged to a white guy, I'll tell you the difference. He treats me as a equal and not as a afterthought. I've dated both Asian and white and there is definitely a pattern if difference that is clearly noticeable. I experienced much more demeaning behavior and attitude from my Asian boyfriends than from my white boyfriends. I don't have to try and impress my white boyfriend's parents because they accept me for who I am and not what I am. My boyfriend is smart (going for his chemical engineering degree), is athletic (not overweight and plays soccer), is clean in both spirit and body, doesn't SMOKE or get drunk, doesn't try to act ghetto, doesn't try to impress me with what he has (you know..the usual car, bling bling stuff). He treats my family with respect and even though my own brother isn't happy about him and shows it, Jeff (my fiance) treats him with the same respect he shows my parents. In regards to my parents, they have gone from disappointment to indifference to bragging about my beautiful and wonderful man. And yes, finally, our romance with each other is deep, beautiful, and fireworks at its finest.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------To all of my Asian sisters, no matter what ethnic identity you claim...go with your heart but I have found for me that I am more comfortable and under less stress to conform or impress when I have dated white guys. I have found much less in the way of expectations and coercian being placed upon me by their friends and families than with Asians. I have also found that my Asian boyfriends tended to be centered on material things and the pursuit of material things...not me....I was just another possession. White guys placed me as the center of their lives and everything else revolved around me. This is my experience and for you racist tripe who think I shouldn't be with a white guy...or any other guy....her is a clue to you...I wasn't stolen from you. I ran away from you.
Another point...The hidden intent of your posting is well, poorly hidden.Read this:""These scientist, who are white in case you are cynical, claim that whites are genetically mediocre and that to create the prefect genetic human you would have to get an Oriental woman to have a child with a West African man""Read it? Good. Now answer this question: Why only a W. African man and "Oriental" woman? Why not a W. African woman and a "Oriental" man? This says it all about you and what you are really all about. And what is the word "prefect"? Do you not know how to use spell check...or even spell?Again, you are nothing more than a pathetic little infant.
I am a british born pakistani, and I'd like to clarify that I don't have any 'inferiority complex' towards white people. My skin tone is neither too pale nor too dark, but just right somewhere in between. I think it is natural to have a desire for 'fair skin' but fair does not necessarily mean 'white'.. I believe it is more to do with being healthy and brightness. There are some people who I have seen, black as coal you might say, but by God, they were just glowing with light and beauty.
asians in general do not like dark skin. its part of the culture. white skin is prized which is why white girls tanning is seen as rather odd:Pas for height, different ethnic groups within asians have different heights. some of the shortest are the vietnamese which make up a decent chunk of the american asian population which is probably bad for them. they are also one of the shortest in asia.
haha i love white guys....now i am happy with a blond guy from sweden :P hope he doesnt see what i wrote here.. :))) i think he is a very nice guy...... i like talking to him and kissed by him!!!! :) i had a nice time with him.... but he will soon go back to sweden ...:(( XXXXXXX
It's simple Asian girls are white so they different chose for same color partner. If you would like to know more get more mydearvalentine.com/valentine/idea-tips
Color is such a natural thing that - it depends so much upon genes which have been customized by nature according to geographical discrepancies. When will kids stop fighting over white, asian, black, etc. We are all the same stupid friends!
Me being from a european and asian background, i can't believe some of the comments im reading! First of all, for all you hating girls out there! You cant hate on us for taking all of your men, cuz you wouldn't be writing your pathetic little comments if it wasn't true. All the guys i've dated simply love the way i look. Asian girls do not have boyish figures, we're petit, polite, we take care of ourselves. Not like most white/black etc who are hating on us! Just cuz your race is mostly big boned, loud, rude, dressed like lezbos, acting like boys, and are JEALOUS enough to go on the internet and write hateful things towards us. If you don't like asian girls then go f**k yourselfs, i just dont get it. Boys if you don't like asian girls then find a site for whored out trailer trash and big lipped monkeys, maybe you'll find them more attractive :)
This is why we appreciate Asian girls so much. You represent the East's idea of feminine. I hope it pressures other Western girls to be less raunchy and more ladylike. The media often says it's "going back several generations for women", but it's not going back in terms of rights. Did your grandparents get a divorce? Probably not.
Western women want men to be more and more masculine. I see so many petite girls with a guy who's 6 ft 2 inches and 250lbs. They reject educated, even handsome guys who aren't built like some kind of neanderthal. They also want guys to act and talk lower-class. They want to raise little monster children to claim supremacy over the average children. They want them to be more individual, talk over others and always be heard. Our culture glorifies men with physical size/strength while their culture glorifies discipline and wisdom. I think Asian girls are just looking for a compromise. Many of them hook up with white engineers, which actually steals good men from the white race but it's not their fault if Western girls don't find a stable, loyal man to be sexy.
me and my other mates we love our beautiful sexy white females and u mixed up white womens doesnt have monkey features and if u dont believe me u can check it out urself just get a monkey pic and get ur pic or any pic of an asian girl and put them next 2 each other now u will see that asians are the ones with monkey features ha who is the monkey now??????
Browsing different web forums and blogs, its easy to found many white males love both Asian, are likely to be arrogant & unfriendly to Asian men. They thought Asian women go for white men instead of Asian men, but this concept is just a dream that many Western men choose to believe in, which made up by stories in western movies, novels, dating website fake articles, and even from some cheap Asian women(particularly those ugly dark looking ones fr SE Asia e.g.North Thailand, Vietnam, Phillippines, & some poor Chinese provinces).
Unfortunately some Asian women with lower than avg in appearance & have no room in the Asian societies, who can't get any loves from Asian guys will instead date foreign men for living and to gain more attention from people at home.
Just check it out there, 99% of those Asian women dating western men are NOT considered pretty or attractive, or she must have some metal problems herself and she's actually a hooker(as you can see many of these interracial couples in the City and everywhere in Thailand, escort service!), despite how bad they've made other Asians look bad.
In general, Asian males are NOT attracted to white women but white males are attracted to Asian women, this is the ONLY reason why AM/WF couples can be seen less in the streets, in fact for Asian women, white males are no different to other foreign males(e.g. Arabic, Latino, Indian etc) only white men think themselves are special to Asian women.
Google puts websites that deteriorate Asian guys at the front lists, those that telling the bad side of pathetic white males are hided at the end deliberately by the searching engine, just like white males promote themselves to women(White or Asian) through their dominated western media & films, portraiting White males are hero, Asian/Indian/Arabic/African men are bad, cowards, rats etc.
It shows how insecure and lack of confidence of many white men inside.
maduinNov 16, 2006
I'm Laotian and I've only ever dated white girls, I'm up to my 5th and hopefully last one.
wendyalisonNov 16, 2006
As a Chinese girl, I had always preferred dating my own kind and I'm sure a lot of other Chinese girls will say the same until they meet a Caucasian with whom there's mutual attraction and then an entirely new story unfolds. I'm now dating a white guy, here's what I noticed 1) I need to speak English with him and we both have fun as he tries his best to learn a little Cantonese, that's a cultural difference which is to be expected anyway2) Sex is more constant. Where with my ex, I needed to coax him to bed, my current boyfriend takes the initiative.3) He's less possessive and it took me time to get used to talking to him directly about how I feel when we quibble, whereas with my ex, I don't know why it seems natural to just hint and make my thoughts and opinions subtle.However, even as I point out the differences I see, I think it's all variance in personality and culture. Most Asian girls will tell you they'll prefer dating their own guys because it is so much easier in many aspects. My parents, even as I've dated my current boyfriend for a little more than half a year, are still trying to convince me to go back to Hong Kong to find a "proper Chinese boyfriend". So for Asian guys who are mulling over why white/black guys are taking all your girls, I think you guys should be ashamed to even think that when you really have the advantage. Don't think it's easy for us girls to make a choice on who we date! In general, I feel that guys remain guys, no matter what ethnicity. They don't like having clingy girlfriends (assuming they're straight), they enjoy sex, they like girls who are feminine, sexy, attractive and caring. And they always will have a hard time understanding what girls want unless you say it to their face.
maneurysmNov 16, 2006
With the exception of a few intellectual posts, this thread is becoming unnecessarily racist. People need to stop making general statements like this if this is just based off your observations of being in a foreign country for a couple of years without an understanding of the culture.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
shattersNov 16, 2006
"... and cooked like motherf**kers"They cooked like your dad?
fatfishyNov 17, 2006
sweet MC Chris reference!
spikeyoneNov 17, 2006
TAI MAI SHU
Closed AccountNov 17, 2006
accept the unfortunate girl esp. a smart asian would have to live the life of poverty and idiot children right?mexicans are the lowest of low shut ur trap and know ur place
snohmanNov 18, 2006
I'm sure it might just be a phase (white fever) but at the same time it may not be...lets hope it is... We as an Asian race should consider slowing the melting pot effect and try to continue our beautiful Asian races going. If and when the melting pot is at it peck we will all look the same pretty much how fun would that be...
iamnotwhiteDec 5, 2006
you and i have extremely similiar knowledge and points of view. i am asian and recently become aware and interested at black women. though as you say the "african american" culture is some what self degrading... though i cannt argue, i also feel there are small pockets of african american culture that dislike the life styles of african americans portrayed by white media and strive to break the negative stereotypes. in particular, african american women who try to break away from these negative stereotypes also tend to have a open mind towards asian males and a dislike towards white males. yes, many if not most azn femals are racist towards all black males (though some will engage in sex with black males out of curiousity the same females will abstain from a relationship with black males, i got angry at a past azn girl friend for racist rermarks against blacks).best thing people can do for the sake of future generations is to keep our children away from the powerful influences of white media until they are mature enough to form their own non prejudice opinions.you do realize we will be flamed by many white males for our points of view?email me, i would like to have other relatd conversations.livesimplyandhumbly@yahoo.com
sereneazngirlJan 14, 2007
I posted my response to this whole issue many times.I posted this on another site:As a Korean-American who is engaged to a white guy, I'll tell you the difference. He treats me as a equal and not as a afterthought. I've dated both Asian and white and there is definitely a pattern if difference that is clearly noticeable. I experienced much more demeaning behavior and attitude from my Asian boyfriends than from my white boyfriends. I don't have to try and impress my white boyfriend's parents because they accept me for who I am and not what I am. My boyfriend is smart (going for his chemical engineering degree), is athletic (not overweight and plays soccer), is clean in both spirit and body, doesn't SMOKE or get drunk, doesn't try to act ghetto, doesn't try to impress me with what he has (you know..the usual car, bling bling stuff). He treats my family with respect and even though my own brother isn't happy about him and shows it, Jeff (my fiance) treats him with the same respect he shows my parents. In regards to my parents, they have gone from disappointment to indifference to bragging about my beautiful and wonderful man. And yes, finally, our romance with each other is deep, beautiful, and fireworks at its finest.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------To all of my Asian sisters, no matter what ethnic identity you claim...go with your heart but I have found for me that I am more comfortable and under less stress to conform or impress when I have dated white guys. I have found much less in the way of expectations and coercian being placed upon me by their friends and families than with Asians. I have also found that my Asian boyfriends tended to be centered on material things and the pursuit of material things...not me....I was just another possession. White guys placed me as the center of their lives and everything else revolved around me. This is my experience and for you racist tripe who think I shouldn't be with a white guy...or any other guy....her is a clue to you...I wasn't stolen from you. I ran away from you.
marian21660Mar 26, 2012
you soooo right
sereneazngirlJan 14, 2007
Another point...The hidden intent of your posting is well, poorly hidden.Read this:""These scientist, who are white in case you are cynical, claim that whites are genetically mediocre and that to create the prefect genetic human you would have to get an Oriental woman to have a child with a West African man""Read it? Good. Now answer this question: Why only a W. African man and "Oriental" woman? Why not a W. African woman and a "Oriental" man? This says it all about you and what you are really all about. And what is the word "prefect"? Do you not know how to use spell check...or even spell?Again, you are nothing more than a pathetic little infant.
Closed AccountAug 26, 2007
Republicans are small dicked all round,You can tell by this comment
Closed AccountAug 26, 2007
Republicans penis = 0.9 (Pabster)
michaelmitNov 4, 2007
Pics or it didn't happen, seriously!
broncozzzNov 19, 2007
if this talk about asian girls liking white guys, where can a white guy meet some asian girls??? where i live theres nothing but latinas.
soofiNov 21, 2007
I am a british born pakistani, and I'd like to clarify that I don't have any 'inferiority complex' towards white people. My skin tone is neither too pale nor too dark, but just right somewhere in between. I think it is natural to have a desire for 'fair skin' but fair does not necessarily mean 'white'.. I believe it is more to do with being healthy and brightness. There are some people who I have seen, black as coal you might say, but by God, they were just glowing with light and beauty.
wetnapJun 2, 2008
asians in general do not like dark skin. its part of the culture. white skin is prized which is why white girls tanning is seen as rather odd:Pas for height, different ethnic groups within asians have different heights. some of the shortest are the vietnamese which make up a decent chunk of the american asian population which is probably bad for them. they are also one of the shortest in asia.
wetnapJun 2, 2008
didn't you see no real kiss?
sirenaluAug 14, 2008
haha i love white guys....now i am happy with a blond guy from sweden :P hope he doesnt see what i wrote here.. :))) i think he is a very nice guy...... i like talking to him and kissed by him!!!! :) i had a nice time with him.... but he will soon go back to sweden ...:(( XXXXXXX
sirenaluAug 14, 2008
the japanese wife is happy and lucky then to have you as her husband ;)
sweetestgirl1Sep 30, 2008
DitchingMrWrong
sweetestgirl1Sep 30, 2008
DitchingMrWrong
peterassmannOct 18, 2008
lol its funny where the guy shaves himself :D<a class="user" href="http://www.hiphop-sms.com/geschichte/rap-meinung.html">http://www.hiphop-sms.com/geschichte/rap-meinung.h ...</a>
fasika96Nov 10, 2008
dugg for sushi
ashisbalaJan 3, 2009
It's simple Asian girls are white so they different chose for same color partner. If you would like to know more get more mydearvalentine.com/valentine/idea-tips
rashexponentJan 3, 2009
Color is such a natural thing that - it depends so much upon genes which have been customized by nature according to geographical discrepancies. When will kids stop fighting over white, asian, black, etc. We are all the same stupid friends!
eurasiantwinJan 3, 2010
Me being from a european and asian background, i can't believe some of the comments im reading! First of all, for all you hating girls out there! You cant hate on us for taking all of your men, cuz you wouldn't be writing your pathetic little comments if it wasn't true. All the guys i've dated simply love the way i look. Asian girls do not have boyish figures, we're petit, polite, we take care of ourselves. Not like most white/black etc who are hating on us! Just cuz your race is mostly big boned, loud, rude, dressed like lezbos, acting like boys, and are JEALOUS enough to go on the internet and write hateful things towards us. If you don't like asian girls then go f**k yourselfs, i just dont get it. Boys if you don't like asian girls then find a site for whored out trailer trash and big lipped monkeys, maybe you'll find them more attractive :)
turingfan11Sep 2, 2010
This is why we appreciate Asian girls so much. You represent the East's idea of feminine. I hope it pressures other Western girls to be less raunchy and more ladylike. The media often says it's "going back several generations for women", but it's not going back in terms of rights. Did your grandparents get a divorce? Probably not.
Western women want men to be more and more masculine. I see so many petite girls with a guy who's 6 ft 2 inches and 250lbs. They reject educated, even handsome guys who aren't built like some kind of neanderthal. They also want guys to act and talk lower-class. They want to raise little monster children to claim supremacy over the average children. They want them to be more individual, talk over others and always be heard. Our culture glorifies men with physical size/strength while their culture glorifies discipline and wisdom. I think Asian girls are just looking for a compromise. Many of them hook up with white engineers, which actually steals good men from the white race but it's not their fault if Western girls don't find a stable, loyal man to be sexy.
jimmybroSep 3, 2010
me and my other mates we love our beautiful sexy white females and u mixed up white womens doesnt have monkey features and if u dont believe me u can check it out urself just get a monkey pic and get ur pic or any pic of an asian girl and put them next 2 each other now u will see that asians are the ones with monkey features ha who is the monkey now??????
marian21660Mar 26, 2012
you know you are soo right.I have a asian girl anytime ...and married one...for once I am happy
babyhottieSep 3, 2010
ur the man^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<3
i dnt h8 asianz or anything but i h8 the fact tht most asian girlz h8 their own race thtz y they go 4 white guyz o.O
lukeitNov 7, 2011
look this section http://www.indochinavisa.com/forum/Love-Stories.html
oceandeep7Apr 22, 2012
Browsing different web forums and blogs, its easy to found many white males love both Asian, are likely to be arrogant & unfriendly to Asian men. They thought Asian women go for white men instead of Asian men, but this concept is just a dream that many Western men choose to believe in, which made up by stories in western movies, novels, dating website fake articles, and even from some cheap Asian women(particularly those ugly dark looking ones fr SE Asia e.g.North Thailand, Vietnam, Phillippines, & some poor Chinese provinces).
oceandeep7Apr 22, 2012
Unfortunately some Asian women with lower than avg in appearance & have no room in the Asian societies, who can't get any loves from Asian guys will instead date foreign men for living and to gain more attention from people at home.
Just check it out there, 99% of those Asian women dating western men are NOT considered pretty or attractive, or she must have some metal problems herself and she's actually a hooker(as you can see many of these interracial couples in the City and everywhere in Thailand, escort service!), despite how bad they've made other Asians look bad.
In general, Asian males are NOT attracted to white women but white males are attracted to Asian women, this is the ONLY reason why AM/WF couples can be seen less in the streets, in fact for Asian women, white males are no different to other foreign males(e.g. Arabic, Latino, Indian etc) only white men think themselves are special to Asian women.
Google puts websites that deteriorate Asian guys at the front lists, those that telling the bad side of pathetic white males are hided at the end deliberately by the searching engine, just like white males promote themselves to women(White or Asian) through their dominated western media & films, portraiting White males are hero, Asian/Indian/Arabic/African men are bad, cowards, rats etc.
It shows how insecure and lack of confidence of many white men inside.