I find bisexual girls actually have a lot less drama than straight girls - they usually don't get jealous easily, for one. (Instead of watching you check out the girl in the short skirt in front of you, she's checking her out as well) They, like geeks, tend to "live and let live" more, too.Unless all the bi girls I know are outside the norm.
Being able to read body language well is a spiritual ability. In other words, there is no way you'll learn how to do it just by reading a book. You have to develop yourself first and foremost. When you understand yourself and your own body, you'll slowly start to understand your own body language. Only then will you begin to have a small clue on how to read the bodies of others.So if you really want to learn how to pick up subtle signs, then do not head to Amazon.com. Go contemplate and meditate and pay attention. When you have some experience relaxing, and after you have contemplated your own life and mind, to the best of your ability, and hit a brick wall, THEN go find some material that might help you, and only THEN will you actually KNOW what kind of material you're looking for too. Otherwise you'll just be a dumb sheep who follows blindly.
Why would a girl NOT want to date a geek guy? Geeks are intelligent, interesting, and they have that awesome, irresistible geeky sense of humor. They're perfect just the way they are - no changes required.
#7: Experience with drugs is also a plus. At least out here in N. California, almost every geek I've met is also a pothead. In our section of the dorms dedicated to computer science majors, it was a major drug hot spot, with an aroma of weed and incense permanently filling the area. They are also very likely to have had multiple psychedelic drug experiences. I'd say being a pothead or occasional weed user would drastically increase your chances of bagging a geek. #8: Also, forget about practicing religion, as geeks are much more likely to be agnostic or athiest. Be prepared to forego any kind of church services, and it helps to be open to philosophical discussion about religion in general. #9: Be morally flexible and open-minded. Geeks are unlikely to value religious morals, and are more driven by reason and logic than social norms. Displaying any kind of stubborn ignorance is the fastest way to turn off a geek.
I love your tips -up to point 5 they're OK but with point 6, it's just about impossible to get the guy off the computer if he's 'into it' and that can go on for ever and ever. I did date a geek once but obviously we just weren't made for each other because that point 6 was a sticking point! Never mind, I've found a SHI Symbol and that works for me to meet a few more people (geeky or otherwise) who are also single and best of all I can wear it all the time to show I'm single so I maximise my opportunities. After reading Lord Metroid, DragonJadedEyes and Kayleigh's comments it looks like they need a SHI symbol too - hey mates, give it a bash, it works and you've got a conversation starter without even knowing it - check them out. Good luck everyone
The perfect way get a girl to reply to something you wrote, it seems, is to, in fact, state that they wouldn't. Actually a fine example of reverse psychology without intent. Ha ha. So here I am to prove my own point. Whats up? I'm not a geek or nerd but do I have to be?
The fixing my computer worked for me. He was my Geek in Shining Armour!!! Had a few good dates and I liked him, but when he switched out my bad hard drive for a shiny new one and saved my files.....ooo girl!! I am going to grab him and kiss him since he hasn't made the 1st move besides the hugs. Geeks are the best, I should know, I am a nerd.
Because what's inside the shell is a guy who probably has more love in his heart than you would ever see. But that only happens if you give him a chance to get comfortable around you. That's what the article was trying to say. Try reading the whole thing. There are actually some positive comments in there that would be worth quoting too.
starmantaOct 23, 2006
I find bisexual girls actually have a lot less drama than straight girls - they usually don't get jealous easily, for one. (Instead of watching you check out the girl in the short skirt in front of you, she's checking her out as well) They, like geeks, tend to "live and let live" more, too.Unless all the bi girls I know are outside the norm.
aeooOct 23, 2006
Being able to read body language well is a spiritual ability. In other words, there is no way you'll learn how to do it just by reading a book. You have to develop yourself first and foremost. When you understand yourself and your own body, you'll slowly start to understand your own body language. Only then will you begin to have a small clue on how to read the bodies of others.So if you really want to learn how to pick up subtle signs, then do not head to Amazon.com. Go contemplate and meditate and pay attention. When you have some experience relaxing, and after you have contemplated your own life and mind, to the best of your ability, and hit a brick wall, THEN go find some material that might help you, and only THEN will you actually KNOW what kind of material you're looking for too. Otherwise you'll just be a dumb sheep who follows blindly.
runnergirlOct 23, 2006
Why would a girl NOT want to date a geek guy? Geeks are intelligent, interesting, and they have that awesome, irresistible geeky sense of humor. They're perfect just the way they are - no changes required.
volatilewhimsyOct 23, 2006
Actually geeky guys and sporty guys are the same... They always think they are smarter than what they are.. ;)
wiseweaselOct 23, 2006
#7: Experience with drugs is also a plus. At least out here in N. California, almost every geek I've met is also a pothead. In our section of the dorms dedicated to computer science majors, it was a major drug hot spot, with an aroma of weed and incense permanently filling the area. They are also very likely to have had multiple psychedelic drug experiences. I'd say being a pothead or occasional weed user would drastically increase your chances of bagging a geek. #8: Also, forget about practicing religion, as geeks are much more likely to be agnostic or athiest. Be prepared to forego any kind of church services, and it helps to be open to philosophical discussion about religion in general. #9: Be morally flexible and open-minded. Geeks are unlikely to value religious morals, and are more driven by reason and logic than social norms. Displaying any kind of stubborn ignorance is the fastest way to turn off a geek.
dustin00Oct 25, 2006
Real geeks know marriage is a waste of time, resources, and effort.At most, live together. Never give her keys to the kingdom.
zoesobelOct 25, 2006
Alright. Now tell me why I'd want to do all that.
wiseweaselOct 26, 2006
If we had to explain, then you wouldn't understand...
julielancFeb 11, 2008
I love your tips -up to point 5 they're OK but with point 6, it's just about impossible to get the guy off the computer if he's 'into it' and that can go on for ever and ever. I did date a geek once but obviously we just weren't made for each other because that point 6 was a sticking point! Never mind, I've found a SHI Symbol and that works for me to meet a few more people (geeky or otherwise) who are also single and best of all I can wear it all the time to show I'm single so I maximise my opportunities. After reading Lord Metroid, DragonJadedEyes and Kayleigh's comments it looks like they need a SHI symbol too - hey mates, give it a bash, it works and you've got a conversation starter without even knowing it - check them out. Good luck everyone
phoenixxeNov 24, 2008
The perfect way get a girl to reply to something you wrote, it seems, is to, in fact, state that they wouldn't. Actually a fine example of reverse psychology without intent. Ha ha. So here I am to prove my own point. Whats up? I'm not a geek or nerd but do I have to be?
sunshine3296Jul 21, 2009
The fixing my computer worked for me. He was my Geek in Shining Armour!!! Had a few good dates and I liked him, but when he switched out my bad hard drive for a shiny new one and saved my files.....ooo girl!! I am going to grab him and kiss him since he hasn't made the 1st move besides the hugs. Geeks are the best, I should know, I am a nerd.
thesexygeekJan 19, 2010
Because what's inside the shell is a guy who probably has more love in his heart than you would ever see. But that only happens if you give him a chance to get comfortable around you. That's what the article was trying to say. Try reading the whole thing. There are actually some positive comments in there that would be worth quoting too.
urmyhartbstoprMar 22, 2010
Why don't you go nearby a university? And hit up on some Comp Sci.