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jrod4040Jul 24, 2010
I can wholeheartedly endorse this statement...from experience.
runtheplaceredJul 25, 2010
you've experienced crappy relationships from the male and female perspective? Wow. how'd you do that?
volaitle86Jul 25, 2010
that just gave me a boner
smihalikJul 25, 2010
hermaphrodite
evi1d33dJul 25, 2010
Between him and his hand?
viaincognitoJul 25, 2010
Amen.
sexxxyJul 25, 2010
Im experiencing this now. Not from a crappy relationship but a OVER one. And it feels like she isnt suffering one bit even though im dying over here. Why is this happening to meee
themonikerJul 25, 2010
Sorry to hear it, man. Break ups can be pretty rough. We've all been there.
nomadofthehillsJul 25, 2010
Grow some balls.
loveisaltruismJul 25, 2010
http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/2008/02/18/70-difficult-breakups/
drsolaceJul 25, 2010
She probably is suffering but is too proud to let you know, in fear of seeming weak and/or giving herself the satisfaction knowing you are suffering without her knowing you are suffering.
sexxxyJul 25, 2010
atleast i have the digg users on my side. :)
shadicJul 25, 2010
Yeah. Even though I ended my last relationship, having a void where there was once everything (elohel melodramatics) sucked hardcore. Best cure is to spent less time on Digg and more time out with friends. :P
sexxxyJul 25, 2010
time will hopefully heal this, untill then. f**k her
xbgxJul 25, 2010
Yea you should
craftyguyJul 25, 2010
@drsolace
You are absolutely correct. Women get off on knowing that for some reason.
shediggsJul 26, 2010
@sexxxy Sorry to hear that as well. You do need some friend time to feel better. Go out and mingle.
@drsolace & @ craftguy unfortunately women have the tendency to do that kind of stuff. We are proud, but we do suffer, especially if it was a long termed relationship. We shed ALL of our tears with everyone else around us but make sure that we look strong in front of the other person.
sexxxyJul 26, 2010
i appreciate that @shediggs been trying too, seem good all day but when im alone i seem to break down. didnt know it would be this rough, so many memories just going down the drain!
craftyguyJul 26, 2010
@sexxxy
On the bright side, experiences like this allow you to really appreciate the good times!
laurenbabyAug 19, 2010
@sexxxy you know it hurt me too.
and I never wanted to see him hurt, I would never gain any satisfaction from seeing him endure any ounce of pain. as a matter of fact, I would have gladly taken it from him if I could just to know he didn't have to feel any. I prayed every night that his pain would go away. luckily, it has. trust me, I miss my best friend/other half constantly. I was never trying to be a bitch or careless about it. anyways, I felt like I needed to clear a few things up when I saw this..... lol
texmexrexJul 25, 2010
Obvious: Men Suffer More in ANY Relationship Than Women Do
Well after the first 10 days or so. All downhill from there.
volaitle86Jul 25, 2010
yep, women are parasites
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Find better women.
And never date an unemployed woman.
aforsbergJul 25, 2010
This hits really close to home...
Why is it that girls always dismiss me as their friend? It's not like they don't like me, they all talk to me about all sorts of things. Maybe they think I'm gay.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
dauntless1Jul 25, 2010
No. By and large, women are just under the mistaken impression that assh**es, jackasses and jerks can be reformed, or that those guys will change just for them, when if those guys were worth dating they wouldn't be assh**es, jackasses and jerks in the first place.
pillar007Jul 25, 2010
Man up, don't ever supplicate, tease them in a non-offensive way, don't comply with their requests without some gentle negging, etc.
verbist18Jul 25, 2010
They're not physically attracted to you. I don't mean that to sound harsh, but if a girl only wants to be friends it means she likes your personality but doesn't feel attraction.
ncg8rJul 25, 2010
Maybe???
dwest2Jul 25, 2010
Don't listen to people who think that girls are only attracted to jerks. There are plenty of really nice guys who do just fine with girls. That being said, don't be a pushover, re-read Pillar007's comment. He hit the nail on the head. Also remember that "nice" and "inoffensive" are not synonymous.
Also, hit the gym and hit the department store. Sounds superficial, but admit it, you feel something when an in shape well-dressed woman enters a room. They feel it too when they see a guy like that, even the nice girls.
spacejackJul 25, 2010
dwest isn't entirely wrong about the exercise but I had to respond to "hit the gym."
f**k the gym. Just do some goddamn pushups. Gyms are a ripoff and an insidious leechy subculture, and the pervasive casual equation of exercise with something that's only done at the gym is something that needs to be actively fought.
saranagatiJul 25, 2010
dwest2 was right about the gym. working out with other men will help boost your confidence. as for being put in the friend zone pillar was right but there is more than that. one thing i've realized lately is i've put myself in the friend zone more often than the girl put me there. don't go and hang out with a chick, take her on dates. when you meet them don't try to prove that you're the type of guy she wants to hang out with. as pillar alluded to make her feel like she's getting a trophy by getting you.
Of course there is always the style aspect of it that helps too. Do the gym thing and dress the part. Use google and do some research on fashion, colors that fit your complexion, etc. Find a style that fits wherever you're trying to meet girls and wear that style well. Even if you do look good already, if you're dressed in something simple like a simple tshirt, some jeans and a pair of chucks that will let you hit on any chick who isn't dressed up but you're kidding yourself if you think some chick who got all dressed up is going to be interested in you wearing that. On the other hand if you're dressed up you can hit on the girls that are dressed up as well as the ones that aren't.
crackshot91Jul 26, 2010
@Verbis18: Story of my f**king life. :(
arfikeJul 26, 2010
Speaking of something that needs to be actively fought..
Why should guys play some stupid role just to be noticed by girls? Who's telling these girls never to date a guy who is intellectually agreeable? And it's always the single girls who stress this more than anything else with the guy, not the ones who are taken; who tend to be more comfortable in their skin and actually a little grown up.
By "intellectually agreeable", I mean being open to their desires, while still maintaining one's own identity. For example, this one chick did her little test on me by saying she's really into big, cheap jewelry. She's one of those quirky, bohemian, artsy-types so I took it as a quirk in her personality, which I dug, ya know? But no, that was the WRONG ANSWER!! The correct answer was to point out how corny that was and casually make fun of her for it because I'm a dude and dudes aren't supposed to be deep or interesting.
It feels like establishing any sort of intimate relationship with girls anymore is like being on a game show. Why the hell is that? Who is telling these girls to constantly test men instead of getting to know us the way friends do; by being around them and talking *casually*? Test me, and I get the sense that you're a manipulative bitch. That's how I read her when she pulls that crap.
doshindudeJul 24, 2010
100% true.
soc7Jul 24, 2010
This is news? Why I'm terminally single and happy about it.
disrupterJul 25, 2010
so no one night stand either? your life must be really interesting /s
soc7Jul 25, 2010
A gentleman never tells.
delvarworldJul 26, 2010
terminally single = ugly
crackshot91Jul 26, 2010
f**k you, Delvar. :(
Closed AccountJul 26, 2010
Just because he's smart doesn't mean he's ugly
delvarworldJul 31, 2010
lol yes it does http://www.forwardon.com/view.php?e=id1200c8f6b7f5f813
LosAlamosLabsJul 24, 2010
Interesting choice of Ian Curtis in the pic there.
mxm111Jul 25, 2010
That pic was the reason I clicked. I was fooled.
wjappeJul 24, 2010
From my personal experience I think this is quite true. Mine is quite vocal of how she feels but doesn't seem to care to understand how she hurts others.
rootsm3Jul 25, 2010
Dump her?
joehagueJul 25, 2010
No, think bigger.
f**k her sister/
grammerpantsJul 25, 2010
No you moron everyone knows you have sex with her sister and mom at the same time and then sexually assault their cat on the way out the back door.
yourekinkyJul 25, 2010
Yeah, he's right. Cats are fair game.
jimrooneyJul 25, 2010
DONNY!!!
calliganJul 25, 2010
Most women need someone that will take care of them, protect them, and let them do whatever the f**k they want. Your feelings are not on her radar unless it will affect any of those things.
libbbJul 25, 2010
Most western women are very narcissistic and lack empathy for others. The princess complex results in everything being about, "me, me, me".
hexrrAug 6, 2010
Stereotype much?
reyxAug 8, 2010
@wjappe
lol
porkfriedriceJul 24, 2010
if this is only based on people from florida then its totally unreliable information
runtheplaceredJul 25, 2010
why?
porkfriedriceJul 25, 2010
bottom of the gene pool
sgxyayJul 25, 2010
Weird s**t happens in Florida. 80% of the US's "wtf" news stories come out of there.
pun1sherJul 25, 2010
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ncg8rJul 25, 2010
Yeah... No. Miami doesn't count as part of Florida. The "REAL" Florida is more akin to Georgia or Alabama (depending on your time zone).
runtheplaceredJul 25, 2010
ya! Bury me for asking "Why?" Florida might be s**tty, I don't know.. but it can't be any worse then Digg.
jmorris5tenJul 25, 2010
As NCg84 said, Miami is not really part of Florida, nor is Orlando. Both of those cities are not really 'Dirty South" like Georgia and Alabama or the rest of Florida.
jason210Jul 28, 2010
it's also only about a small age segment...
socketassaultJul 25, 2010
"Miamians." That sounds funny. :D
idoitonlineJul 25, 2010
or Miamites
rockiroad278Jul 25, 2010
Miamese.
fragmasterflashJul 25, 2010
I should be dead already.
bloodwineJul 25, 2010
Women control the sex frequency, therefore they win and men suffer at the hands of sex embargos.
hurricanedcJul 25, 2010
that's where the sleeper hold comes in ;)
opiticaJul 25, 2010
not if you have a pair of balls
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
@Therapist -- see you in jail!
androneJul 25, 2010
Because rape means you're a man /s
deathandtavernsJul 25, 2010
Don't be controlled by sex then. Sex is way more fun when you don't need it and it's more like a pleasant benefit of a relationship. We can satisfy our own sexual needs but they can't supply their own need for validation by being sexually wanted and once you eliminate those two needs as motivation for staying in the relationship, they get a lot more fulfilling.
androneJul 25, 2010
http://www.fleshlight.com/ Joe Rogan endorses them!
danielhunterJul 25, 2010
Do you have a card for your therapy practice? I'd like to call you sometime...
:'(
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Amen, there's a LOT to be said for not letting women use sex as leverage in a relationship.
lokithecomplexJul 25, 2010
What good is a man to woman not under her spell?
And why would a man not under a spell bother?
quisquisJul 25, 2010
It sucks how true that is.
captspauldingJul 25, 2010
Sex embargo would be a great band name!
tyrghastJul 25, 2010
Hey honey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I live in constant fear of this happening to me. Not debilitating fear, but still...
danielhunterJul 25, 2010
*gurp*
*shlpk*
pillar007Jul 25, 2010
Flirt with other chicks. Nothing super obvious as you need to have plausible deniability, but she will know.
Even when she is right in front of you, flirt away, it will drive her nuts and make her want to win you back from the competition.
She might act pissed, but if you are already under embargo can it get much worse?
ncg8rJul 25, 2010
Or worse, pass on the crumbs she offers you. After you turn down your weekly ration of sex without so much as blinking an eye, she will freak right the Eff out. Game, Set, Match.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
From someone in a long-term, real relationship... if you ever date someone who uses weapons against you of any kind (embargos count as weapons) rather than constructive problem-solving, get out of the relationship. You don't need to play silly games or be anything less than perfectly honest in any relationship worth keeping.
ncg8rJul 25, 2010
True enough. However, a lot of men are not in a position to up and leave when things get sh1tty around the house. I was, and did, so I can vouch for your advice being good advice. For others.... They gotta improvise.
tweaklawlJul 25, 2010
Rape is about the power, not the sex.
lokithecomplexJul 25, 2010
While not all rapes are reproductive. They can produce children.
Reproduction is power.
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
I don't get why women would do that. Sex is awesome!
D:
thegiggletestJul 25, 2010
I didn't realize sex was a right. I'm surprised it's not in the constitution. Maybe prostitution should be legalized so men can get whatever they want, and the women who don't support that don't have those men wasting their time.
zb757Jul 25, 2010
Comment didn't make much sense, but prostitution should be decriminalized, but pimping should be cracked down on
hexrrAug 6, 2010
It made sense to me. And I agree
roguebladeJul 25, 2010
I disagree. I find my gf wants it more than I do.
/honest bro
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I've dated women of both variety. It's actually pretty tough when she wants it all the time: you really gotta try to be there for that mentality.
themachine1Jul 25, 2010
Total fraud where is that thumbnail?
bobby1978Jul 25, 2010
Here:
http://blogs.seattleweekly.com/dailyweekly/hot%20for%20teacher.jpg
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Achievement Unlocked: Jizzed in pants 200GS
yO0411Jul 25, 2010
worlds backwards
kennykljJul 25, 2010
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Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Thanks, Kanye.
arbysrocksJul 25, 2010
pretty terrible sample size
bookashadeJul 25, 2010
This is obvious. To any women reading this:
You really do f**k with our heads.
Also its true that women can usually fall back on their friends. While if I went to my buddy of mine and told him how I feel about what she said/did to me he would either tell me to; "dump the bitch, grow some balls, or shut up and pass me the xbox controller"
hurricanedcJul 25, 2010
get some real friends
phillyocJul 25, 2010
I agree. Real friends would be passing him a joint.
nubliJul 25, 2010
amen PhillyOC
yourekinkyJul 25, 2010
Watch "I Love you, Man."
daniellattaJul 25, 2010
That, of course, assumes that she hasn't alienated you from all of your personal friends, leaving you with only the mutual friends you had before you got together or just her own friends.
jjeffers88Jul 25, 2010
Im glad that I am not the only one this has happened to....
thecasablancanJul 25, 2010
Dude, that sucks. I can't imagine why a woman would do that. Even the bitches I've dated never did that.
evilnecroJul 25, 2010
Seriously? That seems like their basic technique. Ge rid of all your unacceptable friends and replace them with her approved friends. Cut off your support system immediately!
theobviouschildJul 25, 2010
I just had a "wow" moment. Hadn't even realized that happened until now.
trdrstvJul 25, 2010
Yeah, I've known a number of women who dis/do that including some of those I've dated. My philosaphy is
"You don't have to like my friends, and you don't have to hang out with those you don't like; you really don't. There's personality conflicts that happen, and I get that but just because you don't want to spend time with someone doesn't mean I don't have to."
dwest2Jul 25, 2010
Ummmm, if you let someone else do that to you it's your own damn fault. I've never had a girl even try to do that to me.
allantronJul 26, 2010
To everyone that cut off your friends because of a woman, f**k YOU
ya, f**k you don
poonchowJul 25, 2010
not to mention women seem to exit the relationship with more physical property and less financial disparity than men. I've personally seen friends pour all kinds of money into a relationship and then the bitch leaves or they fall apart and he's left with nothing.
ocdrockstarrJul 25, 2010
Not me. I've both broken up with someone and been broken up with, and I have returned everything that was bought for me/was technically theirs to begin with. Granted, that leaves them with a few things they probably don't want for themselves, but I don't get any satisfaction keeping things that remind me of them. Nor do I want to destroy their stuff. So they are left with all that stuff and I leave with only the things I brought into my relationship.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
That just means you played the game all wrong...why would you just keep buying your girl unless you're getting something in return, ala gifts for yourself or bedroom action...when I go to restaurants and it's not a special occasion like her bday, we take turns picking up the check. We don't buy each other material goods as gifts either..that's the easy way out..it's like buying someone a gift card, it's just a cycle of money changing hands and a nicer way of saying, here's cash, i have no clue what to get you. Please guys out there, don't be a fool and think that the only way to keep a girl is by buying her things.
bobbi21Jul 25, 2010
hey, we're on digg here. probably the only way for most diggers to get girls IS to buy them things (self included)
danconiaJul 25, 2010
Find yourself a real friend...
la7dfaJul 25, 2010
Yeah, a fleshlight will never leave you or complain.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
grow some balls
androneJul 25, 2010
hahah that's the way my friends are too which is also why I have a select few girl friends to bitch to when girls are doing weird stuff
helloween2008Jul 25, 2010
she won't be talking to any of her friends about you if you have sex with all of them
/sinister
freaky2kJul 25, 2010
Am I the only guy here with female friends? I mean, really... sad, sad digg users.
saranagatiJul 25, 2010
as i started reading your comment "my girlfriends dead" came on the radio. very fitting.
hexrrAug 6, 2010
Get some real friends? And stop joining the ranks of men who reinforce these stereotypes and double standards. You're your own enemy.
teacher2beJul 25, 2010
f**k women.
andru87Jul 25, 2010
That's the idea.
hurricanedcJul 25, 2010
Eat pizza.
tomgfromcanadaJul 25, 2010
in the ass... if she says it's ok.
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
Especially if she says it's not okay..
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
But she poops from there.
ncg8rJul 25, 2010
Not when I'M done with her...
grahamvinylJul 25, 2010
Its more palatable than the alternative
thanatosstJul 25, 2010
receive money.
inconquerableJul 25, 2010
http://www.frigginrandom.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/funny-pictures-disregard-females-acquire-currency.jpg
zb757Jul 25, 2010
Naked link might as well be to a rickroll
tgc1Jul 25, 2010
Sounds like a plan.
faizal5kJul 25, 2010
Disregard females, acquire currency.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
If I were that guy, I'd also be acquiring currency...for COSMETIC SURGERY...hahahahah wpapwpaahahahahhaha .
No, but seriously, he's ugly.
gobstopper45Jul 25, 2010
ah, relationships... i'm so lonely
i need someone to rub my young fertile butt.
batrynJul 25, 2010
Especially when that support is in the form of sex...from another female.
bobby1978Jul 25, 2010
I came for the thumb:
http://blogs.seattleweekly.com/dailyweekly/hot%20for%20teacher.jpg
totosushiJul 25, 2010
Double entendre?
coreyfcJul 25, 2010
That's what she said?
overlord555Jul 25, 2010
That's ok, I've never had a relationship before.
chordonblueJul 25, 2010
You poor bastard...
iceman21Jul 25, 2010
Nothing wrong with not having had a relationship for some, i haven't and i am content with that fact, i actually don't see a reason for putting in the effort to find a girl, i have better things to focus on in my life.
exposheyJul 25, 2010
Like Digg.
aeronJul 26, 2010
I had one, really cool for a while, and then it sucked! I'll be content so long as I never have to go through that again
dagreenmanJul 25, 2010
Is it odd that i lived in Miami for 10 years, and in Florida for 17, and i've never heard the word Miamians before?
poonchowJul 25, 2010
Never heard it either.
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
Cubans
fixed.
saranagatiJul 25, 2010
yes it is odd that you live in miami. all of florida is f**king horrible and smells like someone forgot to flush the damned toilet.
worldnickJul 25, 2010
no s**t.
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Suffering seems pretty subjective to me.
Both genders get in their own crappy relationships but saying one suffers more than the other is a contest for who's more of a victim.
Everyone suffers.
As a woman, I know that it's more socially acceptable for me to fall back on my friends, but after a while you realize that you can only do that so many times because no one likes a downer. It's better if you just grow up and remember that just because the guy you were with was an assh**e doesn't mean that all other guys are like that.
I had a guy I was really into bulls**t me about not being with some other woman after he started growing distant. I asked him about it, and he told me he was just busy with work, and not wanting to be too annoying, I let it go. Next thing I know, I hear he's taking someone else to France for Valentine's Day.
I can't say f**k men. But I do say f**k lying selfish assh**es in general. Men, women or otherwise.
/tear
rain12913Jul 25, 2010
Right on, sister. Each gender thinks they have it worse; newsflash: shut up and stop whining. Be more careful about who you enter into relationships with and if it doesn't work then move on.
dengzhiJul 25, 2010
Rain12913 "A fellow who joined Digg on February 18th, 2008"
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Although looking back, that guy was an avid Redditor (I hate Reddit) and I'm a Digger.
Guess it never would've worked out anyway ;)
zb757Jul 25, 2010
So he got all the good ideas 7 hours before you reposted them?
gbitalicJul 25, 2010
I agree with this comment.
danielhunterJul 25, 2010
Hi I love you can I take you out to dinner sometime will you marry me?
;'( I'm lonely
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Well, if you're ever in the San Diego area...
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
D'awwww!!!!
saranagatiJul 25, 2010
you're gonna marry him if he's ever in the SD area? wow i'm not sure if that means i should make it down to SD more often or stay the hell away with girls like you there. Maybe i should just stick the the plastic ones up here in orange county.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Posting here so I can get updates on whether you visited her in SD. C'mon, inquiring minds want to know!
belldanimeJul 26, 2010
Lol. I kinda took the whole "marry me" thing as an obvious joke.
But if you're ever over here, I don't see anything wrong with going on a date.
danielhunterJul 26, 2010
I am serious. This is my Native American face of seriousness:
:-|
saranagatiJul 26, 2010
haha you just got proposed to on digg. @daniel if you don't hurry up and make it to SD i might have to ask her out.
createthefutureAug 9, 2010
<--- toasting in epic bread
roguebladeJul 25, 2010
LOL
windowjsasJul 26, 2010
I couldn't agree more! especially about falling back on your friends. true, they are there for you, but after a while you need to be able to handle it yourself and not always be bringing them down.
semisarcasticJul 25, 2010
Well, I've never been in a relationship before, so I really don't know why I'm posting here.
holeymoleyJul 25, 2010
18-23 year olds?
Guys who are 18-23 haven't really matured emotionally yet even though they think they have. Girls however have it much more together at that age. As someone who is still head over heels in love with his wife of 18 years, take this advice - dudes, wait until you're 25+ until you completely commit to a woman.
grammerpantsJul 25, 2010
Amen brother, 25 is the sweet spot for good relationships.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
"Girls however have it much more together at that age" hahahahahahahhahhahah ,,, hahahahahhahahahahhahah,,, ahahahhahahahahhahahahha,,hahahhahahahahhahahah pwahahahhahahahahhahahahah.
drsolaceJul 25, 2010
While I agree with your hahaha'ing. Men really aren't as emotionally mature as women at that age. Intellectually mature, definitely. But emotionally, no way.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
"Girls however have it much more together at that age"...until that dreaded time of the month, also known as "princess mental tension".
I don't get it. People constantly complain that men aren't emotional enough, now your all turning around and say their not emotionally mature? A man that simply doesn't give a f**k is pretty emotionally mature in my eyes. its the ones that fall head over hills for some cheap trash and make her his whole world that are emotionally immature. And those are rare.
I call bulls**t on this. Unless the men your referringto are diggers.
androneJul 25, 2010
@Galgori I think the point is both extremes are bad. If you date someone and completely don't give a f**k that's not really emotionally mature but if you're a creeper and make someone you're entire life always agreeing with them that's not emotionally mature either.
blackchrispJul 25, 2010
dugg for "pwa"
melthornalJul 25, 2010
I've yet to meet a single girl aged 18-25 who has had it anywhere even remotely close to "together." In my experience most girls are way worse than guys. Waaaaaay worse. A guy may say 'f**k it, lets get drunk and play video games" where a girl goes off into their teenage high school drama and run around s**tting on everyones day for a week. If you ask me, f**king around for a few hours and getting over it >>>>>>> being a crazy person/horribly overreacting.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Suppressing emotions and denying reality can only work for so long.
ukshadowJul 25, 2010
Women reach the sexual peek at 30, men at around 20. Men mature faster, more likely cheat in 20's, women 30's.
Closed AccountJul 26, 2010
so your saying theres a chance.
aeronJul 26, 2010
it gets way easier the older you get, 30year old women are f**king horny
hexrrAug 6, 2010
No, women mature sexually faster. I thought that was common knowledge. And a man's sexual peak is in his 40's usually.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I committed at 23; worked out very well.
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Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Because most women can go out the next day and find a replacement, same can't be said about dudes.
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Yeah, those women have no standards.
opiticaJul 25, 2010
well theres about a million on digg
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Aren't they all like 15, though?
/jk
rheicJul 25, 2010
Quality men on digg? We're talking about the site where seemingly EVERYONE still thinks that the "women should be in the kitchen making me a sandwich!" joke is funny?
elegantjihadJul 25, 2010
to be fair, you do dress up hermit crabs in dresses...
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Online dating, specifically plenty of fish, a popular free site, has done wonders for me in finding quality women to date. Sure, you may have to wade through 5 women with 3 kids and no teeth, but they are out there.
supurcellJul 25, 2010
I've been using okcupid.com. It's free and I've gotten a few dates out of it. Nothing that lasted, though. It's hard to find a girl who just likes to do nothing and be a nerd with me.
squ1shJul 25, 2010
Where I'm from (Fargo) I can't seem find a good woman anywhere in the 20-25 range. I'm 100% convinced that the universe has decided to take every eligible couple, and f**king dump them on opposite sides of the planet. I'm pretty sure my soul-mate (if they exist) would probably be over in f**king India. *grumbles*
s0nicfreakAug 11, 2010
Belldanime, you have to remember that nerds age slower. They may have all LOOKED underage, but many of them have a mom that doesn't let them leave the basement alone until they're at least 19.
allrightyJul 25, 2010
You can find a girl the next day.... For a price...
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
just hope she's not a cop?
joculatorJul 25, 2010
you would think, but I know a few girls that just can't find a normal-cool guy. They tell me there are plenty of losers out there, but not a whole lot of normal guys with stuff going on.
archades54Jul 25, 2010
Ask her what makes them losers, many could be normal-cool guys but have some little flaw that puts them into "loser"ville. Unless you're area has a lot of actual negative, pathetic humans (high violent crime area maybe?).
ncg8rJul 25, 2010
Loser = not hot guys with loose cash
spacejackJul 25, 2010
Maybe she might look into not designating people as "losers"? And maybe take a long look at what she wants and whether she's in any way capable of reciprocating that, when she's the type of person who calls someone a "loser" for not matching her whims?
belldanimeJul 26, 2010
Loser = Anyone with few or no aspirations/ambitions of any sort or any redeeming qualities thereafter.
I once met a guy who had purposefully gotten himself fired just to collect unemployment, which he lived off of for over a year, and counting.
I start to go crazy if I'm unemployed for even a month.
While I won't lie that a good looking face and nice pecs are a big plus, I'm mostly attracted to guys with an interesting personality, who are also good people and have a job.
I also realize that in order for things to work out with "Mr. Right", I need to be "Ms. Right" as well. That means being educated, a decent human being, self-reliant, and not being a boring person myself.
I try :(
wolfboyzAug 10, 2010
You sound like an awesome chick :]
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Conclusion: women are sluts.
belldanimeJul 26, 2010
Good looking people, men or women, tend to be.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
This is the reason men take a lot of s**t from woman and simply have to deal with it. Its the fact that we're biologically designed to constantly chase after woman thats the f**k up. Yea, a woman can go off and find a replacement the next day. And you might argue, "well she wont find a decent guy" well who gives a f**k? You have that connection with the opposite sex at any time you want, men don't. Besides, just coming out of a relationship you just want a rebound and get on with your day anyway.
Its the fact that men are deprived from both the emotional and physical connection to the opposite sex unless their lucky/try enough times till they find someone thats f**ked up in society.
alandorichJul 26, 2010
I definitely agree with this comment
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Every guy knows that this is the truth. Especially considering women have friends to talk to. Why do you think the suicide rate in young men is higher than any other demographic?
melthornalJul 25, 2010
Suicide rate in young men ISN'T higher than any other demographic. Highest suicide rates are among middle aged and elderly men. Ages 50+, roughly.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
In Australia the suicide rate is highest in men between the ages of around 15-30
melthornalJul 25, 2010
Actually, thats not true. 27% of suicides are made by people between ages 50 and 65 in Australia. More than any other group. Second highest rates are 30-39 with 25% and then 20-29 with 24%. Only 6% of suicides are under age 20. Men ages 25-44 account for roughly 40% of suicides in Australia.
ryan121Jul 25, 2010
It's not because guys dont have friends to talk to it's because guys just generally won't talk about how they feel because we're brought up to believe that's wrong and not what men do. Girls will seek help and talk about their problems and men won't.
Also when a woman talks about problems and also if they cry it actually relieves stress and makes them feel better. Crying or talking does not have a similar effect on men. Men need to be encouraged to speak out about issues they're having no matter how hard it may be for them to do it as it's tragic how many men are commitining suicide, especially young men.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Crying doesn't actually help. The only thing it does is get you to think about and reflect upon your problems. But it can cause you to dwell upon them and get into a spiral of depression. It's the same with anger, hitting a boxing bag or playing violent games only makes anger worse.
hexrrAug 6, 2010
Men are more likely to use methods that work... and men's lack of social support stems from societal stereotypes that men shouldn't be emotional. Which is mostly perpetrated by men themselves. So women aren't really to blame there.
amadeus2490Jul 25, 2010
Men are the one who're hard-working, romantic, have the sense of humor and keep the relationship going. Women are the ones who're all like "Bah bah bah you don't think i'm pretty enough! You're stupid and you deserve for me to make you feel like s**t! I remembered one little thing you said two months ago and i'm mentioning it to you NOW! I'll never really be happy no matter what you do!!"
That's why men live vicariously through porn actors; on-screen, their masculinity is fully acknowledged, supported and accepted . . .into all holes.
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
Seems like you're dating immature daddy's girls and not women.
And f**k women who don't want to work hard. Why the hell do you want someone in your life who doesn't do anything to better it?
whomodJul 25, 2010
Wow Amadeus. You just described spot-on, my ex wife.
zephyrprimeJul 25, 2010
sex
spacejackJul 25, 2010
"immature daddy's girls and not women. "
For truly that Lucy MacGillicuddy is no true scotswoman!
Female. Human. Grown. = Woman.
She doesn't stop being a woman just because she's a miserable piece of s**t. She's both. To exclude her is to put women on a pedestal and claim that they're incapable of being pieces of s**t. They are not.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
@Spacejack Being a woman entails more than just physical maturity. It's also about mental maturity. Unless you act your age, you're nothing more than little kid in an adult's body who didn't quite seem to make it to the next step.
spacejackJul 25, 2010
Wow, I can't help but notice that those qualifications depend entirely on the beholder. Other people are beholden to those concepts that you keep so nebulous that you can revoke them at will.
"Nothing more than a little kid in an adult's body."
Yes, I get it. You think that your characterizations are relevant to basic classifications. They are not. Your idea of who is an isn't mature matters exactly as much as my idea of who is and isn't mature, which matters exactly as much as Carrot Top's idea of who is and isn't mature, which matters as much as a barbed-wire knot's idea of who is and isn't mature.
Your attitudes about your woman's behavior don't change anything about the fact that she's a woman. She doesn't become something other than that because you don't like the way she behaves. Not a little girl, not a tree stump, not a beach umbrella. A woman.
The disturbing thing to me is how you want to maintain this idea that women are blameless and "mature", to the degree that if they don't qualify as that, they don't qualify as women at all. This basically is a way of saying "women can't be bad people."Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
belldanimeJul 25, 2010
@Spacejack I think you're missing my point. This applies to men as well, not just women.
There are behaviors that are generally associated with either an adult or a juvenile. Selfishness, arrogance, and being an overall whiny bitch are considered childlike behaviors and generally get you the "Grow up, already" response from others.
Signs of maturity are, among other things, being responsible, reliable, and being considerate to others.
As long as you still act like a kid, no one will take you seriously as an adult.
I in no way mean to say that all kids are little pricks, of course. Just that selfish and immature behaviors are more associated with juveniles because they don't really know the rules of society yet.
cuervoman914Jul 25, 2010
all holes and faces. so close.
hipmanJul 25, 2010
Yeah, right.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
wow, hate women much? Maybe you should bat for the other team
hexrrAug 6, 2010
I second this.
drsolaceJul 25, 2010
It sucks that you put all that effort in, only to be scorned.
Get a bit introspective, even if you thought you were hard-working, romantic with a sense of humour, perhaps from an outside perspective this wasn't the case.
That and this girl sounds like an absolute douchenozzle ****rag. Remember that not all girls are like this girl. From experience they usually are more manipulative, but it's not always for malicious purposes.
helloween2008Jul 25, 2010
the scary part is that he got dugg up over 20 times...
i never understood the digg community's mob mentality:
"kill rapists, murderers, etc. don't waste our tax dollars on them!"
"f**k women!! blah blah all women are whores"
"[insert pedo bear ASCII]"
IMHO, you won't be complaining about not getting girls if you get rid of the negative personality. You won't find the perfect girl right away, but if people don't like being around you, then you will lose opportunities to find a great girl. At the end of the day, like attracts like...Choose your own values and seek them out in your partner.
blaculasfroJul 25, 2010
DIGG THIS GUY UP PRONTO!!!!!!111
zb757Jul 25, 2010
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hexrrAug 6, 2010
"Men are the one who're hard-working, romantic, have the sense of humor and keep the relationship going"
Your opinion? Clearly it's not the case. Stop bitching and find some real women
thewriteguyJul 25, 2010
they really don't give a s**t
deathandtavernsJul 25, 2010
So men hold back women when things are good but women hold us back when things are bad? That sucks
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
101 problems but a bitch ain't one.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I'm pretty sure that 2 of your problems are bitches.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Check out the comments.
werehuskyJul 25, 2010
By comment number 2
Shutup says:
Shutup whore.
reyxAug 8, 2010
"Boy, that escalated quickly. I mean, that really got out of hand fast!"
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I think this is one time when gay guys haven't got it better!
ukshadowJul 25, 2010
Obviously you haven't met any gay guys. The most materialistic and bitchy people ever! Will dump you over anything.
Closed AccountJul 26, 2010
Oh my goodness, are all those guys I slept with straight?
fatguylilcoatJul 25, 2010
Bitches ain't s**t but hoes and tricks....
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
shut up
fatguylilcoatJul 25, 2010
Uh, no! It's a line from a song you dips**t.
joculatorJul 25, 2010
...lick on these nuts and.....
thejackylJul 25, 2010
...suck the dick
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
...Just get the f**k out whenever you're done...
asus3000Jul 26, 2010
You call that music.. Pathetic.
zyceJul 25, 2010
We definitely need to form a support group for these women who have boyfriends that are suffering. There's just not enough programs targeted at women.
darksydxxJul 25, 2010
f**k realtionships with women.
IF IT FLY FLOATS OF f**kS (RENT IT)
harmorJul 25, 2010
What??
darksydxxJul 25, 2010
I learned this from a very successful and wealthy business man. Took me a while to figure it out too. I thought about that phrase for months and one day it clicked.
I will do the same with you.
chileangodJul 25, 2010
Tell me about it.
shawnfromnhJul 25, 2010
This account has been closed by the user
missaoJul 25, 2010
victim complex much?
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Better cure: Understand that romantic love is a chemical addiction in your brain. Know that it will not last when going into a relationship. If your lover can also be your friend then it can work longterm. However; at any time, he/she/itcould decide to end the relationship. Above all else: Don't panic. Enjoy your time while you have it. There is no "one person for everyone." There's probably always a better match for you but if you're happy does it really matter?
thestoveiscoldJul 25, 2010
Well said my man.
derek817Jul 25, 2010
yeah man their are hot women every where...they walk around everywhere you look.....just put yourself out their get a new one.
lcworldJul 25, 2010
Can't disagree. Just ask Mel Gibson.
haikufuJul 25, 2010
My wife has resorted yelling at me for things that I haven't even yet done wrong. I probably get yelled at twice a day, for things that she hypothesizes I will eventually do wrong. WTF?
Women are f**king crazy.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I think it's in the hard wiring.
grahamvinylJul 25, 2010
Call her out on that s**t. I know it's a lot easier to not have to argue a point that seems like common sense, but if you stand your ground eventually she'll realize that behavior isn't acceptable.
Or maybe she knows your track record well enough to predict your follow through ability and is at some level justified in getting pissed (in an illogical way). If that's the case, start taking initiative along with not putting up with her giving you s**t.
In the end I think women want someone they can depend on to follow through and take initiative in life. Many men I know (and see as a blatantly overused as a stereotype on sitcoms) fall back on the man/child behavior where the woman is more of a mother than anything else.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
Holy s**t that's some of the best advice I've ever heard.
thejackylJul 25, 2010
She's not crazy, she's manipulating you.
echelonistJul 25, 2010
Step 1) Make a new rule: What you accuse me in advance, I'll simply do.
Step 2) Enforce rule of Step 1.
Step 3) In case of escalation: dropkick the manipulating soulless creature.
pixelmagicJul 25, 2010
Why do you take it? I've made it very clear to my wife that she will not raise her voice at me, nor will I raise my voice at her. It works out pretty well.
thegiggletestJul 25, 2010
I hate to break it to you, but some women actually do think rationally.
derek817Jul 25, 2010
I agree with pixelMagic....stop being so weak you set a bad precedent for the rest of us. you really do. Get her ass in line...and if she doesn't leave hold back your money. Stop getting tooled man.
shutupflandersJul 25, 2010
Oh, look... the University of Duh released another study.
themadmuleJul 25, 2010
Hey, that's where I graduated from!
tgc1Jul 25, 2010
Unfortunately, I could only afford to go to the University of Durrr.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
"I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."
hawaiianruleJul 25, 2010
No s**t Sherlock.
bc200Jul 25, 2010
Men need women. Women don't need men.'
... inb4 biology lesson.
derek817Jul 25, 2010
If you are talking about sex you are sorely mistaken. Women just don't want to come off as sluts....women need men....because if they didn't we would all be dead
zb757Jul 25, 2010
Unless you're homosexual
s0nicfreakAug 11, 2010
They can already clone females
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
The difference between men and women:
Men are afraid women will reject them
Women are afraid men will kill them
- Gavin de Becker
thecasablancanJul 25, 2010
You know, it's funny. There are only 2 references to the phrases "Men are afraid women will reject them" and "Women are afraid men will kill them" together on Google.
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TP0EV351B01QKL95A#c12
http://minekey.com/theopinion/328162/men-are-afraid-women-will-reject-them-and-women-are-afraid-men-will-killl-them
The minekey one didn't show up at first because "killl" is misspelled. The poster on minekey heard it on Oprah, presumable while Gavin de Becker was pimping one of his books. I'm not sure, because I don't watch her show.
http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/The-Gift-of-Fear-by-Gavin-de-Becker
http://myown.oprah.com/search/index.html?q=Gavin+de+Becker
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gavin_de_becker
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
"I don't remember where I first heard this simple description of one dramatic contrast between the genders, but it is strikingly accurate: At core, men are afraid women will laugh at them, while at core, women are afraid men will kill them." -- Gavin DeBecker, The Gift of Fear, pg. 77
I apologize that i used the word reject instead of laugh.. i pulled it from memory
and it seems with a simple google search the originator is Margaret Atwood
drsolaceJul 25, 2010
This is a bulls**t article. 2 out of the 5 paragraphs outline how men suffer more. While the extra 3 go on to describe women's suffering.
zenmojoJul 25, 2010
This article is about a month late. Well, not really. She's just showing that women suffer by not being in relationships.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
First thought: "extra 3 go on to describe women's right to vote?" then: "oh suffrage not suffering"
thegiggletestJul 25, 2010
The last three paragraphs are about women because the article is written by a women. Duh.
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
The study has it all wrong. The reason men suffer so much is because for the last 50 years men have had to give up so much. Naturally men have testosterone, and that means we can fight. Nope, not any more, not allowed. It means we can earn more. Nope, not any more, not allowed. There was a time just 60 years ago when "keep away from run around Sue" was popular on the charts. Now millions of women are on the web porking total stranger for money. Men are still expected to be chivalrous. Women hold the pussy power and men traditionally held the money power, it was a balance of power. Nope, not any more, not allowed. Women hold ALL the power now. Go to court, women win. They'll take the house, the kids, every f**king thing...
professorwolandJul 25, 2010
Quit bein such a whiny pussy and man up, bro.
missaoJul 25, 2010
do you have nightmares with this? also, apparently women took out saturdays and sundays for men, too. damn invasion.
smemilyJul 25, 2010
Um, what? Since when are you "not allowed" to make more money, and since when was it testosterone that allowed you to do so in the 1st place?
And why oughtn't you be polite to people collectively just because SOME women (not a majority by any means) do porn for money? What the f**k is that about, anyway? You look up the porn and then deride the people in it? Hint: If you don't think they should be doing porn, DON'T BE THE MARKET FOR IT.
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
Add condescending to the list of complaints.. (j/k)
Emily, the entire face of womanhood has changed for men. I'm not in the market for obese women either. Do you realize how in demand normal women have become? Will millions of people doing porn on the internet (both male and female), the market has simply turned wretched.
Hey, maybe women are more normal in NM where you live. At least one is cute..
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
Add condescending to the list of complaints.. (j/k)
As for my statement that men are not allowed to earn more than women. Look it up, it's true. It's called "equality." Women have battled for a century to earn the same amount, when in fact they do much less. Men have built this entire world. We've engineered every single building, every bridge, every house, everything. Women are earning the same for much less risk, and much less work.
Emily, the entire face of womanhood has changed for men. I'm not in the market for obese women either. Do you realize how in demand normal women have become? With millions of Americans posted on the internet doing porn (both male and female), the market has simply turned wretched. I suppose it's true for both genders. At least with men, who have more testosterone, spreading the seed is expected. Women traditionally were expected to withhold from this sort of behavior.
Hey, maybe women are more normal in NM where you live. At least one is cute..Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
pcghostJul 25, 2010
I'll go out on a limb and defend asus here. I think what he is saying is that due to the changes in our society men no longer have socially acceptable outlets for their natural urges. Virtually everything we are hard-wired to do is now socially unacceptable, and he has a valid point. I sometimes wonder what women would have us be if they actually were able to mold us into what they really want, and I suspect very little of our natural behaviors would remain. It sometimes seems like women want to be with other women, but with penises.
Don't get me wrong, I am all for equality of the sexes, and as such married an educated, intelligent, and driven woman. But I want to change her nature far less than I suspect she would like to change mine.
So ladies, please chime in. How are men supposed to express the effects of testosterone in an approved way in our modern world?
smemilyJul 25, 2010
I'd argue that there are many options like kickboxing at the gym, motocross, and even watching televised sports.
I really don't understand his argument at all, actually, as he's comparing current society not to caveman days, but to the 1950s-1960s - when men were more buttoned up, and had fewer outlets for testosterone - unless you count rape and spousal abuse as positives?
If anything, the internet has given you more outlets, sex-wise, (even if like asus you enjoy them primarily because someone is being degraded, yes I realize not all porn is like this but he mentioned this kind specifically) and there are more gyms and activities available for one to work out a need for aggression.
Hell, video games. I believe we've talked on Digg many times about how for many men, video games fulfill a need for - not violence, I guess, but - dominance, over another person. That's one way to express a need to dominate someone else in a safe, inexpensive, and relatively socially acceptable form, and it wasn't available 50 years ago.
Also in the 1950s-1960s it was socially unacceptable for a man to really spend time with, and be emotionally invested in, his offspring. Maybe you could toss a baseball together, but the 1950s are notorious for a sort of isolation from one's dad, a complete lack of relationship. That has changed, and I'm pretty sure it's good for men and boys. Don't most men have a desire for a relationship with their son(s)? Don't boys benefit from having a dad who's physically and emotionally available?
pcghostJul 25, 2010
You make sound arguements for outlets, though kickboxing is not normally encouraged by one's spouse in my experience. But I see your point here.
I wasn't supporting him in the need for degradation in porn or in relationships, just in the frustration of one gender's unending need to emasculate another. I think we go too far in the restrictions placed on young males which only serve to dampen their instincts. We have armies of idiots out there removing things like dodgeball from the schools and changing school sports into non-competitive events in grade school. While they are failing, there is also still a large movement against violence in video games as well.
I do not advocate going back to the old days as there is little good about them. Our society (speaking as an American here) was not something to be proud of in the 50's. We have improved in that we have taken the boot off of several minoritie's and women's necks. I simply believe we screwed up in the area of the male role in society.
I solved the problem of worrying about my mate ruining 18+ years of my life by simply not breeding. I don't need children and they tend to destroy happy marriages in my opinion. I do know many men who live like hobos because of the current child support system we have, and many of their X's use said system as a means of punishment. Hard to have sympathy when they chose to breed with those women, but it seems like a small epidemic, not to take away the shame of the dead-beat-dads out there.
I can't speak to the instincts of fathers regarding their offspring, as I'm not a parent. It is not rare in other mammals for the father to have nothing to do with their offspring though.
smemilyJul 25, 2010
Your point RE: removing sports from schools is a good one. They provide much more than just a testosterone outlet, such as physical activity, camaraderie, etc. I agree with you that competition is good even if it means that one side loses. Humans thrive when challenged, and we seem to need challenges in our lives to feel happy and satisfied.
I disagree that kids ruin good relationships - in my experience they act as exponents on a relationship's equation, magnifying any problem that was already there. If there was already a problem with one partner being a miser, and the other overspending - it's exacerbated. If there was a problem with one partner spending too much time with friends, and the other being a homebody - it's tenfold. If there was a problem with maturity in one or both partners, it becomes much more obvious than it was before.
spacejackJul 25, 2010
@pcghost:
"I wasn't supporting him in the need for degradation in porn or in relationships"
The guy didn't say anything about needing degradation in porn. He mentioned the song "Keep Away from Runaround Sue" and then contrasted it with the contemporary ubiquity of porn, which "smemily" then responded to by saying that he must be the market for it. She then reported this to you as though it were fact, and you responded to her as though it was.
I urge you to avoid responding to libelous statements on their own terms, as it does nothing but reinforce those terms.
asus3000Jul 26, 2010
@Spacejack, that's a woman. Case in point.
I imagine back in the days of hunting and gathering, women sat around the camp devising ways of out maneuvering one another for the best alpha tribesman, most food, and things for their offspring. It explains why women love soap operas. Women have a power to twist reality, create drama, and when you're not looking spring the dagger. Man's power, as pcghost explained so well, has been removed by the courts. Naturally we have physical power, which tamed women. Nature is the great equalizer. No matter what prairie you're on, both predator and grazer coexist. There was once a balance of power among humans, but it has long been taken away in the name of "equality", ironically.
Porn, it's another power for women. Not only are they paid better for it, but men are entranced. But more importantly the landscape has changed. When women were more wholesome and innocent just 30 years ago, before widespread pornography, men had what they coveted. Now our choices are increasingly more limited to obese, filthy minded, promiscuous, and older women. Men now worry from day to day what is going through the mind of their all-powerful mates.Will today be the day she leaves me to experiment in Jamaica? Is she younger than you and good looking? Yes it is that day.
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
and yet woman still want more....
zachimalJul 25, 2010
Boo-freakin'-hoo.
thegiggletestJul 25, 2010
Forget the testosterone and the fighting. Assault is a criminal offense last time I checked, but we won't go there . . .
The article says men need more support (read: according to asus3000 men need to earn more money than women to keep their self-esteems intact). I think men should get the love and support they need to be happy and successful. But please, men have to earn more otherwise their not "man enough"? Or it's a man's place to earn more? Men are men because they have Y chromosomes. Men shouldn't let their paychecks define them.
hexrrAug 6, 2010
Are you serious? What a load of crap. Yes most things (not everything) has been to the advantage of women because men had 95% of the advantages to begin with. And I'm sorry if you feel our society is too civilized, and you can't just assault people at your leisure. Perhaps there's a nomadic tribe in Africa where you can exercise these "privileges" you seem to think you deserve. They might let you be a man whore rapist there too since they're still a little behind us with civil rights too. Women don't hold all of the power, there's (more of) a power balance now, and definitely wasn't before. The only difference is that money and sex are (more) equal now. If you don't believe me, look at history. If you can't see it then quite frankly, you're retarded.
babywookieJul 25, 2010
This is what we get for giving them equality and s**t. Things were a whole lot better back in the old days, when all women were bought and sold like the whores that they are, kept in their place and knew to keep their mouths shut or else.
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
Equality is what we had. Nature equalized everything. What we have now is a total imbalance of power. Before women had pussy and it's always what men want. Men had money and it's what women wanted because they weren't able to earn it.
Simply, now women have what men want and already have what men have... Equality is long gone.
pcghostJul 25, 2010
Actually that is equality, we just happen to lack anything that makes women as crazy as the attraction to their bodies makes us. We got the short end of the stick in that regard. It is the poisonous side of testosterone.
ncg8rJul 25, 2010
And they are finding out that holding all of the cards SUCKS. It's a pain in the ass and a giant, 24-hour responsibility they were largely unaware of for decades (barring single mothers, which used to be considered a MAJOR HARDSHIP). Now they are calling the shots and resent the responsibilities that go with the use of power. They want their cake, to eat it too, AND to not gain any weight over it. And they're right pissed that they're not getting this handed to them like everything else has been over the past few decades.
babywookieJul 25, 2010
Just for the record, that was /s
pun1sherJul 25, 2010
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thecasablancanJul 25, 2010
You know, it's funny. There are only 2 references to the phrases "Men are afraid women will reject them" and "Women are afraid men will kill them" together on Google.
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TP0EV351B01QKL95A#c12
http://minekey.com/theopinion/328162/men-are-afraid-women-will-reject-them-and-women-are-afraid-men-will-killl-them
The minekey one didn't show up at first because "killl" is misspelled. The poster on minekey heard it on Oprah, presumable while Gavin de Becker was pimping one of his books. I'm not sure, because I don't watch her show.
http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/The-Gift-of-Fear-by-Gavin-de-Becker
http://myown.oprah.com/search/index.html?q=Gavin+de+Becker
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gavin_de_becker
mhttJul 25, 2010
I am 27, my ex and I dated for 4.5 years. lived together for 2.
2 years on she has a new bf.
I am still jaded and cannot fathom how one falls out of love.
It really sucks for me because I can't get a boner with random bitches. I learned the hard way...I need to be in love.
I was suicidal for a good 8 months immediately after. My salvation was that my parents are retired and needed a lot of house work done. painting/gardening/general maintenance -- I would do anything for my folks. This also reminded me of what a douche move killing myself would be to everyone that loved me.
I troops on though, wondering why loving her was rewarded with such dark feelings. Stupidly I imagine that I can find love again. I just hope my parents live long enough to need me around the next time my heart is shattered.
joculatorJul 25, 2010
Funny, I get bored of f**king the girls I date after about a month....even if I love them...
bak1Jul 25, 2010
that's the opposite of funny
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
It hurts less and less as you get older. 27 is still young. When you're 37 it won't feel half as bad..
whomodJul 25, 2010
Nope. Wrong there bud. Separated/Divorced for 1 year this August. Going to be 42 that same month. So yeah, do the math. i was moving out of my 17 year relationship and 12 year marriage on my birthday. We'd had a baby that was just under 2 at the time and had just come back from vacation in Cancun the month before.
And yeah, it hurts like hell. Even a year later., In fact, it's much worse now because although i really don't want to be, since I KNOW logic-wise it serves no productive or healthy purpose, I am angry and bitter as hell. I'm balls deep in debt from the divorce, i hardly see my baby and the ex- just keeps going to child support to raise the amount that i already can't afford to pay every time we communicate and she doesn't get her way.
Reason for divorce? Workplace affair. Yet she insists on acting like the wronged victim in all of this. She called about a month ago wanting to remain on good terms and I told her fat chance. So she ran to the child support again and i had to fill out an earnings report again. 3rd one this year. I just feel like i'm on some nightmare ride that will never end.
asus3000Jul 25, 2010
@whomod: Sorry to hear that.. It goes to show how unequal things have become. The policy of our wonderful government has been to make the courts favor the women while simultaneously making the men impotent. If you're a white man, you know, the one's who built this whole f**king place, you're going to be dragged down and walked all over by every single jealous group..
Incidentally, I bugged my ex-fiancee's computer with a key-logger in 2008. I was out of the country and she cheated on me. I have the whole affair confessed to one of her friends. Guess what day I caught her, my birthday also.. It really knocked the wind outta me too.. Better to find out before we got married.
Women have a sense of entitlement. They think they're entitled to act however they feel that moment, and it should be fine. Bitches.
Stay away from American women.
serendipiteeJul 25, 2010
asus3000: that's a stereotype. I've seen a vastly increasing number of women get f**ked in divorces recently. It no longer works that way if the man puts up a fight. If they roll over, then yeah, they'll get rolled over.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
tyrghastJul 25, 2010
Six billion other fish in the water. Biologically, mentally, everythingly speaking your ex was nothing special. Theres plenty of strange out there to stick your wick in.
supurcellJul 25, 2010
Six billion? That sounds like a lot, but half of those are men. Two thirds of the women are either too old or too young to be potential mates. Subtract all the ones that you are just not attracted to and you have maybe a few hundred million datable women spread across the face of the world. How many of those will be in your neck of the woods? About 70,000. Yeah, still a lot.
johnfluxJul 25, 2010
> I am still jaded and cannot fathom how one falls out of love.
You have sex with someone else.
I'm serious. The website http://fastseduction.com really saved me. (Bah, I sound like a commercial),
But yeah, I got dumped after a 3 year relationship and was depressed for a year. Meanwhile she didn't seem to give a f**k and dated some bouncer. I read everything I could about dating and turned my life around.
I got 5 dates just from walking up to women and saying "hi" and got a "sex friend" for a few months, and then found a woman I could date. We got married, and now I have a kid and we've been married for 3 years now.
My ex, on the hand hand, got dumped quickly and is still single (ah facebook, so great for stalking exs).
Closed AccountJul 25, 2010
I am in almost exactly the same situation as you. 27 years old. Only had a couple serious relationships. And I became suicidal after the longest one was ended with my girlfriend joining the Navy, and subsequently attempting to have sex with the entire male force. Then she went to buy a car and moved in with the f**king salesman, whom she immediately cheated on with his friends. What an evil whore.
I still fall in love so easily though. I'm hopeless :/
sweet8Jul 25, 2010
I'm 27 as well, about to get divorced on monday. 6yrs invested. Sucks ass...big time. BTW, second time in a row that my heart has been ripped out.
It's the best feeling in the world
/sarcasm
jonomirJul 25, 2010
dugg for "It really sucks for me because I can't get a boner with random bitches. I learned the hard way...I need to be in love."
yourekinkyJul 25, 2010
This is the most depressing thread. Yes, I'm only 20, but I've gone through this entire long-term-relationship breakup, and it tore me apart so bad that I had to be put on a mood stabilizer, but I carried on. I found that once the relationship was over, I started to actually make progress with my life. I was stagnant throughout the entire thing, making the woman my only priority, the only thing that made me truly happy throughout the entire relationship. I became reliant on her, and once she left I had nothing.
The thing is, you can't rely on women and devote so much of yourself to them. You have to put yourself and your life, your ambitions ahead of them. You have to love yourself more than you love your significant other. You have to life your life and not fail subject to being so dependent on them that once they're gone you have nothing. It might sound selfish, but it's necessary to keep yourself happy and prevent heartbreak. A lot of people fall out of serious relationships feeling like they'll never fall in love again because that person was so perfect to them, but it failed for whatever reason. Love usually turns to dependence, and it's not real love- it's clinginess and reliance. You have to love yourself, and make yourself happy, and have love for another on the side. Don't let the past hold you back in life. Move on, and make progress.
thegreatone2009Jul 25, 2010
^^^^^^this statement needs to be sent to every guy in college/university around the globe. Focus on your dreams and goals, and if the chick really does like and understand you, she'll let you pursue them....sadly there isn't many like that in this world. Chin-up guys the world isn't ending anytime soon so just enjoy life and let whoever may come into your life enrich it instead of hindering it. But for now, its M.O.C......Money Over Chicks :D
russkiguyJul 25, 2010
"I was stagnant throughout the entire thing, making the woman my only priority"
There's your problem right there. There's nothing wrong with making your significant other the priority, but you have to remember that they're attracted to the you they met, with your own goals and aspirations, morals and standards, experience and outlook. For the sake of keeping the relationship going, stay true to yourself and try to strike a balance between who you want to be for her and for yourself. If it's too difficult, then maybe you're with the wrong person.
E.g.: I may reluctantly tag along to a Twilight movie, because somehow she's a fan, but I would draw the line at reading the books and instead spend the time furthering my education.
0a0563Jul 25, 2010
if you learned that lesson at 20 you should consider yourself very, very, very lucky. at that age, and with that lesson learned, there is only a bright side to it; call the bitch and thank her for the opportunity :)
yourekinkyJul 26, 2010
We haven't talked in 8 months, and I want to keep it that way. It's for the best- for both of us. I wrote her a note right after it happened telling her that I appreciated the good times we spent, and that was enough closure for me.