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A woman with kids is typically pretty easy to get in the sack, that's partly why they usually have kids to begin with, especially in their early 20's. I wouldn't exactly admire men who get with single mothers. most don't even know what they're getting into, and most don't do a damn thing, and they try to get brownie points for doing something for kids they aren't the father of. for something a normal parent does without any kind of recognition. that can get old real quick.

If a woman tells you 'you aren't obligated to help raise these children', she's lying. just simply being around her with them will mean eventually you will have to do some parenting whether you like it or not, whether it's to keep them from hurting themselves or f**king up s**t, etc.

on top of all that, you will NEVER be #1 in a single mothers life. this is bound to cause problems. see before people have kids, they typically have a time period where they get to know each other and become each others #1. with a single mother, this period can never happen. they're invested more in their children than they are in you, rather than being invested in all of you equally like they would be if they were your children instead.

then there's the issue of if the biological father is still in their life or not, which could be anywhere from annoying to restraining order time. and since those kids aren't going anywhere anytime soon, you'll have to deal with their presence for a very long time. it can be made even worse if the mother still has mixed feelings for the real father of her children.

see, everyone would like to ideally be with the person they had children with and if they at some point see that it is possible to work things out, in many cases they will pursue that. this can range from leaving you to cheating on you. in the ghetto they have a saying, 'baby daddy's are forever'. but this form of truth applies to all classes of people. if they had studies on it, I'm sure they'd show that most single mothers do end up fooling around with their baby's father - even if they're not with them. this is eventual at some point, especially since children will tie them together for decades or their whole life in some way.

single mothers just aren't worth it. typically single mothers are woman who have deep seeded issues, which can be a good reason why many of them are single to begin with. not to mention that even if the guy they left (the father of their children) was an assh**e, that doesn't say much of anything good about their choices and judgements in the first place. don't raise someone elses family, raise your own god damn family. let those single mother bitches wallow in the hole they dug themselves into, otherwise most will just drag you down into that hole with them.

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