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seattlegirluwJul 28, 2010Submitter
It all went to hell when Ms. Collins critiqued my fingerpainting skills....
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
You think that's funny, but there's some truth to it.
When I was in Kindergarten I spent (what at the time) felt line an eternity coloring in a picture, choosing the colors, making sure I didn't go out of the lines, that is was literally perfect.
When I handed it in for grading, the teacher drew a big red X on it, wrote D-, and said, "YOU COULD DO BETTER!"
After that experience (which has stuck with me since) I pretty much gave up in school and even hobbies. By the time I got to highschool I just dropped out and homeschooled myself because I was so disgusted with the schooling system. I do feel that that Kindergarten teacher set the course for my cynicism.
Even at that age I understood that it wasn't the grade that mattered -- It was the fact that I put special effort into making something as best as I possibly could - The best of my ability - Knowing very well that I could, personally, do no better with all my potential - To only be told that it's still crap / garbage.
I'd even like to say it's why I'm currently under medication for obsessive compulsive disorder. Any task I try to tackle goes under such strict perfectionism that I never complete what I start - Because, well - "I could of did better." I'm self-doubting and incapable of judging quality since I was told my idea of high quality is actually low. The mind games behind it are sickening.
That woman's voice rings very clearly in my head every f**king day. I swear, I wish I could go back in time I would have just punched her square in the nose, knowing now that I wouldn't of really gotten in trouble at that age.
yaysterJul 29, 2010
Here is a tissue.
jasmareeJul 29, 2010
No, you set the course for your own cynicism. You think that this hasn't happened to many other people without the same effect it had on you? The teacher graded according to what she thought was right; they all do. Sometimes you agree with their assessments and sometimes you don't. Sometimes you should try talking to the teacher or work your hardest to show the teacher what you can do or try to bring up the bad grade by working harder in other areas. But the one thing you don't do is build your entire life around that one moment and blame your failures on it. Your kindergarten teacher did not force you to stop caring about school; you did. Your kindergarten teacher did not pull you out of school hobbies; you did. Your kindergarten teacher did not make you drop out of high school. You're at fault here. Take some responsibility for your actions.Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
poormansmemoryJul 29, 2010
I had a similar traumatizing experience in kindergarten...
We had to color 7 monkeys brown... there weren't enough crayons for everyone and I didn't get a hold of a crayon until there were only minutes left in the coloring session.
Now how the balls was I supposed to color 7 (seemingly) enormous monkeys with an 80% worn out brown crayon in 2min?
I start going as fast as I can and only get maybe 3 done with the time I had left...
My jerk teacher lays into me about not doing the work and being a slacker. I was not happy, I didn't get to tell her she didn't know how to count and didn't supply a sufficient amount of brown crayons to finish the task since I didn't have those reasoning skills yet.
Instead of thinking I was a failure and quiting, I learned not to rely on other people to finish on time with their tasks... I need to get mine started and up to a certain level of dependency where I wouldn't compromise a deadline, or, not rely on others at all. Also, I learned how to plan tasks properly so everyone has sufficient materials/information so I don't blame others for not doing stuff in time because I was too stupid to provide what they needed.
So, thank you kindergarten witch. I am now better off knowing how not to be a jerk that blames others for my own mistake.
blqysmgJul 29, 2010
Okay, so I didn't go to Kindergarden, but I did have trouble in early elementary school. In fact, I did so poorly in 1st grade that my teacher called a conference with my parents to suggest that I needed to be taken out of school because I was not smart enough, and I would never be able to compete with the other children. I did not learn out to write any more than my own name until the third grade.
I now hold two college degrees (a Bachelors and a Masters) and a decent paying job with a Fortune 500 company. Don't let early childhood trauma define your life.
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
@jasmaree Yes, because a child in Kindergarten has the capacity to talk and reason with a stubborn, pigheadish teacher. It's a losing battle.
I'm quite successful in life, so I'm not really complaining, but the experience did psychologically set up the way I approach (and struggle) with tasks for the rest of my life. You can call it blame-ism, or abandoning self responsibility, but there is a level at which psychological trauma cannot be reversed without years of therapy. Even then, there's still a lasting impression. That impression causes you to make life decisions that effect you into adulthood. This is basic psychology - You know, a college course I did ultimately take. I finished Highschool - Just not the normal way.
But to say the experience didn't even have an impact on my personal hobbies, and the way I approach situations would be a lie. It did. In Kindergarten those type of experiences have an impact on your reasoning skills, so the general "suck it up, it's your fault" mentality you're trying to display is flawed on many levels. When you're told multiple times by the same teacher that your literal best is not good enough, well, it isn't something you forget.
Never mind that a Kindergarten teacher shouldn't be so critical to a Kindergarten student to begin with. How can you honestly grade a child an F or a D for an artistic effort, especially at that age? As long as the child is behaving and trying to complete their work it should be deemed a success at that grade level. I think you missed that point entirely.
theodenkingJul 29, 2010
I think the problem is you went to a school that graded preschoolers on their colouring in. That's f**ked up.
pulsifierJul 29, 2010
definitely NOT successful living in Paterson, NJ
gsm54321Jul 29, 2010
School is the biggest crock of s**t.
We want to know why the US is geting worse by the year, I think e need to look at the schools.
I have seen poor students at a poor high school get expelled for crap they just call the parents at "nicer" schools. I've seen massive grade inflation at these nicer schools, with kids going off to ivy leagues, because they came from that school.
Our entire education system isn't geared to educate, it has become the moralizing arm of the state, and exists to perpetuate the class system and allow only the "right" types of people to get through.
I went to a Nice high school where the kids were given better grades because they were "nice kids." and the education was exactly the same, only this school got credit for high scores.
It's all bulls**t. My number one recommendation for everyone is to drop out of highschool, o to a community college for two years and then transfer into a 4 year early with the general ed done.
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
@pulsifier You do realize that there are nice/"rich" parts of Paterson, right?
opczarJul 29, 2010
So you were this kid?
http://imgur.com/ITPfV.jpg
sgerwel1985Jul 29, 2010
Coloring inside the lines was rather challenging, i must admit!
pstrollJul 29, 2010
kindergarten was the first time i wet myself in public.
gerrylazloJul 29, 2010
Ah the great lessons of Kindergarten. White milk or chocolate milk? Crayons or sparkle pen? Urinating in my pants: good or bad?
newerakbJul 29, 2010
chocolate crayons good
flashingcurserJul 29, 2010
Mmmmm... minty paste.
justokJul 29, 2010
went to a Catholic kindergarten?
flashingcurserJul 29, 2010
No. Catholic would be salty paste wouldn't it?
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
sparkle pen?! What the.....what is this blasphemy?
fantasyflamzJul 30, 2010
I never went to kindergarten as a kid. I turned out to be an excellent student and graduated college last year.
lnxfiJul 29, 2010
The letter people scared me. Consequently, I never learned to read. I hate that teacher.
markglJul 29, 2010
Your mom goes to college.
hyperbolebluesJul 29, 2010
Good man. Don't listen to these haters.
MicealOcorraJul 29, 2010
When I was in Kindergarten, I convinced my entire class stone a kid. I didn't go to University/College. I thought i had good leader skills. Ah well.
whacklyJul 29, 2010
You sound like you'd be a hit with the ladies....
MicealOcorraJul 29, 2010
Because all my wrong doing in elementary school passed on through out my lifetime. You couldn't be more wrong.
captininsanityJul 29, 2010
I remember plenty of kids that were held back in 1st and 2nd grade. WTF can a literate 7 year old fail in that warrants holding them back?
drmangrumJul 29, 2010
Meh. I went to college and I only spent a week in Kindergarten before I was bumped up to first grade.
worktruckJul 29, 2010
Well my own experiences would not make me reach that same conclusion. Don't get me wrong my parents did a good job of raising me, but cultivating a desire for learning wasn't at the top of the list and let's just say past 5th grade I don't ever remember getting help on my homework.
However for me the number one reason I went to college is I didn't want to do manual labor for the rest of my life. My dad owned a lumber yard that I worked on from 14 -22. If I had not gone that is probably what I would be doing today out in the humidity of Florida with the temperature getting close to 100.
moderntenshiJul 29, 2010
I like how you brag about only being in kindergarten a week, and that you went to college, but go on to say, "...attain an higher education."
drmangrumJul 29, 2010
I like how you missed the point where my kindergarten teacher had a whole week to influence my life yet I went on to get my undergrad degree and I'm considering to going back for my masters. I did so because my parents instilled in me a sense to succeed; I know this concept may seem foreign to a 24 year old member of the "gimme" generation.
moderntenshiJul 29, 2010
Yeah, because there's no way my parents did the same thing, with my father stoking my interest in science and technology, eventually leading me to be software engineer with a 4 year degree, to the point at which I'm now paying them back for student loans they obtained so I could go to college for the first two years I was there.
Then again, I guess viewing all the members of my generation as greedy bastards has clearly not made you a bitter working adult.
Oh wait.
I didn't miss the point, I was making a small joke at your expense.
Swear to God, it's like anyone over the age of 30 anymore has had all the life sucked out of them, and can't have fun anymore.
dalhectarJul 29, 2010
I think you're missing the point. Because you learned a lot when u were at kindergarten AGE, you were set early on a path for more educational success. You were pushed so hard at kindergarten u skipped a year, and now ur looking into a masters.
"For example, a 5-year-old with a good teacher would typically jump from the 50th percentile to the 60th, and, 22 years later, could expect to earn about $1,000 a year more other students who stayed average"
I imagine doing first grade when u were 5 would place u a lot higher than 60th percentile compared to other 5 year olds.
You PROVED the rule. GOOD teachers that PUSH children early help those kids achieve more later in life.
fantasyflamzJul 30, 2010
I never went to kindergarden as a kid. I turned out to be an excellent student and graduated college last year.
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
I wonder how much napping had an effect on us...
goweigusJul 29, 2010
naps in kindergarten!!??!?!??
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
"But Rhee's larger point, which D.C. Mayor Adrian Fenty supports, is that we need good, effective teachers in every classroom, and who could argue?"
Gee, maybe if we paid teachers more money, the profession would attract more people.
newerakbJul 29, 2010
Schools don't even have enough money now to pay current salaries, how are they supposed to give them raises? The school funding model is atrocious..
whacklyJul 29, 2010
You can't just go around saying that things suck. That's not helpful. You have to find a group with which you disagree idealogically and then rationalize a way to blame it on them!
manstein01Jul 29, 2010
A)Teachers get paid plenty. Especially given their health care plans, pensions, and the fact that they get more vacation time than any other profession.
B)Maybe if we had less irresponsible state supported parents having lots of children, academic achievement would improve. Comment is buried, click here to see the rest.
tangytengJul 29, 2010
all the public school teachers I know tutor on the side for $75-$150 an hour
if you want to give them higher salaries, it means higher property taxes. You down with that?
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
if it means that I won't have to be surrounded by idiots 20 years from now, it might be worth it.
mahadigaJul 29, 2010
There is no intrinsic motivation
http://researchnews.osu.edu/archive/inmotiv.htm
faderprimeJul 29, 2010
There was no reason for him to stop writing about dinosaurs.
k1k1r1k1Jul 29, 2010
*sigh*...
gctoinfinityJul 29, 2010
Never went to kindergarten. Now I'm a 4th year computer engineering student...
newerakbJul 29, 2010
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal_evidence
dalhectarJul 29, 2010
I suppose you were rarely called an "average" student in primary and secondary education.
These statistics are more about the average student.
sndreamJul 29, 2010
How can u gauge who a effective kindergarten teachers???
dalhectarJul 29, 2010
By the evidence?
"For example, a 5-year-old with a good teacher would typically jump from the 50th percentile to the 60th"
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
Well, for instance, if you read a Digg comment where words are completely butchered in spelling, excessive punctuation is used, and basic grammar is completely ignored, you may be able to safely conclude that this commenter's kindergarten teacher was not effective. Or, perhaps that the commenter might still be attending kindergarten.
shadicJul 29, 2010
I remember my kindergarten teacher as being an evil hag, but I'm about to finish my degree. Bitch sent me to the principal for acting like I was cutting my hair.
With plastic scissors.
giancarlo1003Jul 29, 2010
Ms. Ellman was a saint! How dare you digg. Wait... I went to college.
skinny01Jul 29, 2010
Is anyone else disturbed by these types of "experiments" we keep reading about? I don't think any parent offered up their kid voluntarily to be the one in the "don't teach my kid well in kindergarten so we can see if he's a f**kup by 30" group. I keep seeing the same thing for medical observations too, where in order to get the results, they let people live day to day with something messed up and they're not telling them what they need to know to help save their life.
hyperbolebluesJul 29, 2010
I don't think the study involved directly giving the children a bad teacher, just tracking the quality of teachers throughout the children's lives...
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
It's more likely the economists took data from someone else's experiments, analyzed them, then found patterns. All of the student's academic records are kept by the school district. It's easy enough to figure out who the better teachers were if students that had teacher A in kindergarten did better in later grades than teacher B (assuming the students were all of the same economic class, race, etc.). Then you just keep following the data to see where the students ended up at the age of 30.
Closed AccountJul 29, 2010
My kindergarten teacher was a red-headed demon woman, and I didn't go to college. Hmmmm.
quisquisJul 29, 2010
Mmmm... red headed demon women are the best!
hallisnaJul 29, 2010
Not sure how unbiased the study is. In many cities, it is your house and wealth of your parents that determines your school district and quality of education in kindergarden. This may be the underlying variable which is actually at work here. If your parents are willing / able to get you into classes with better teachers then they are most likely also encouraging their children to seek further education after high school.
whythefaceJul 29, 2010
I cant really agree or disagree with these findings mainly because I haven't read the report. Based on personal experience though, I can't say that I agree or disagree.
I went to one of the worst schools in Orlando, FL (Orange County), located in the ghetto. In spite of this, I think I was taught things that were really interesting, even in kindergarten. Maybe it was my kindergarten teacher, but I learned more than just fingerpainting or coloring. For example, my teacher taught us about the different dinosaurs, including some obscure ones. Even though I had some bad teachers later on in elementary school, I ended up learning things every year that were valuable. Eventually, I went to an academically gifted magnet school in middle and high school (in a different district with "better education"), and I ended up going to a top 10 engineering school, with a graduate engineering degree no less. I am not sure what happened to my classmates from kindergarten, but I know that most of them had joined gangs by 6th grade. So, yes, my school and my teachers did affect me in a positive way, and I'm sure my parents did too. However, I'm not certain what portions of these factors caused my eventual outcome.
hyperbolebluesJul 29, 2010
But now I just want to read a story about a dinosaur! A modern gentleman dinosaur!
nosecohnJul 29, 2010
I think the larger point, which is kind of lost in a study like this, is that kids need to be challenged and engaged at a young age in order to learn how to keep themselves challenged and engaged throughout life. It might not need to happen specifically in kindergarten or specifically from a teacher, but it does need to happen. Our "one size fits all" education system sometimes lets kids fall through the cracks.
ultrajesusJul 29, 2010
The disgusting disregard that people have for educational facilities is, in my opinion, one of the worst things about our culture right now. Kids don't give a s**t. Teachers (mostly) don't give a s**t. Getting set up with a teacher who personally dislikes you can have huge ramifications in terms of a child's morale.
I talk to my younger sibling's friends and the morale is "five-oh and go". Looking back it seems appropriate in many ways.
rwshillingJul 29, 2010
Class: [singing] There was a farmer, had a dog, and Bingo was his name-O!
Bart: B-I-(clap)-(clap)-O! B-I-(clap)-(clap)-O!
B-I-(clap)-(clap)-(clap)! And Bingo was his name-O!
Teacher: [observing with clipboard] Added extra clap; not college material.
rxbudianJul 29, 2010
why not blame the parents? They're the one who gave birth to you, they're the one who you're supposed to spend most time with and they're the one who is responsible to raise you.
0xbaadf00dJul 29, 2010
Parental involvement is much more important than any particular teacher you had along the way. Kids who go to Kindergarten unprepared are already behind, and it is the parent's fault. Kids who are "ahead of the class" throughout their education were probably ahead of the class in Kindergarten, because their parents properly prepared them.
majoroutageJul 29, 2010
Nah, kids who are ahead of the class that early are more likely to become slackers later on. It happened to me. By the time schoolwork became challenging, I had no interest because I was already used to learning elsewhere what i wanted to learn.
moderntenshiJul 29, 2010
Here here. I was in some class that met once a week for "gifted" students in second and third grade (moved after third grade, and you had to test early for the program at the school I ended up going to, so they said I couldn't join), learning all sorts of things I wouldn't learn until much later on, like boatloads of studies on ancient Egypt and Greece in third grade. THIRD GRADE.
After about 5th grade, I really didn't care that much. I felt teachers moved too slowly for most material. Carried on into college, where half the time I never opened or read the book since the instructors just gave us all the information in their notes. Still only graduated with a C average, but given how much slacking I did, I'm surprised at how little I had to do to obtain most of my grades. I was in a film and literature class that had 8 to 10 required reading books. I only ever bought two of them, and only ever read none of them, but still passed with a C+.
Makes you wonder how effective that instructor was if she has that many required books, but I could still pass her class with a C+ without reading a single one of them. Guess she's just good at preparing notes. I figure, why spend hours each night reading books I don't really care to read, when I can just sort of pay attention in class 4 hours a week and get the information I need?
Then there was my discrete math class. The class was a bit challenging, but not overtly so, but nearly everyone in the class felt the instructor was moving too fast and wasn't providing adequate help. He put all his notes online, described everything in detail, and had the most open office hours of any instructor I'd ever had while in college. He would bend over backwards to help kids, so if you were failing, it's because you either can't handle the material, or you simply didn't try.
After much protesting form the students, we went from clearing a chapter a week to a chapter every 1.5 to 2 weeks, and I stopped caring. I beat Mario Kart DS in the back of his class. Ended up with a C+ or B- or something, and that was with nearly acing all three of his exams, and doing half of the homeworks.
"But if you would have done all the homeworks you would have had a much higher grade!"
Yup, but if I could get an average to slightly above average grade doing NOTHING, what's the damn point?
whythefaceJul 29, 2010
I cant really agree or disagree with these findings mainly because I haven't read the report. Based on personal experience though, I can't say that I agree or disagree. I went to one of the worst schools in Orlando, FL (Orange County), located in the ghetto. In spite of this, I think I was taught things that were really interesting, even in kindergarten. Maybe it was my kindergarten teacher, but I learned more than just fingerpainting or coloring. My teacher taught us about dinosaurs, using our imagination to come up with solutions to real world problems, and really to think outside of the box. For example, one time, she had all of us guess the diameter of a pumpkin by hugging it with our arms. Even though I had some bad teachers later on in elementary school, I ended up learning things every year that were valuable. Eventually, I went to an academically gifted magnet school in middle and high school (in a different district with "better education"), and I ended up going to a top 10 engineering school, with a graduate engineering degree no less. I am not sure what happened to my classmates from kindergarten, but I know that most of them had joined gangs by 6th grade. So, yes, my school and my teachers did affect me in a positive way, and I'm sure my parents did too. However, I'm not certain what portions of these factors caused my eventual outcome.
needcoffeeJul 29, 2010
Guessing this has less to do with what content was teached during that time frame, but the skillset taught. Instilling respect and care for education, getting kids excited to learn, basic responsibility, etc.
hokie47Jul 29, 2010
I just liked looking up her skirt during nap time.
iambsJul 29, 2010
And I bet the kids that learned more in every grade had a higher chance of going to college. All I learned in kindergarten was how to build some sweet ass block castles and play with other stuff
ishqboliJul 29, 2010
but while you don't know it, you're also learning social skills and problem solving through play.
iambsJul 29, 2010
I know how a child develops through the years at school, obviously people wouldn't be sending their kids to preschool and kindergarten if it didn't do anything, I was simply making a joke about the highlights of any kids kindergarten experience, playing
artsiiJul 29, 2010
i didn't even go to kindergarten. suck on that.
/college student
mcfriendlyJul 29, 2010
It is always so easy to blame anyone but yourself.
ishqboliJul 29, 2010
this isn't based on scientific data or anything, but in seems to me that it depends a lot on your family too. i know people who have many two or three members of their family in college but almost all of them didn't. i on the otherhand grew up in a family where a college education was a given. it never even occurred to be that i could not go. that's how it always was since I was a child, and I can see it's the same for many other college students as well.
sarthaxJul 29, 2010
A whole whopping $1000 a year? Teach your kid not to suck down starbucks or bottled water and they can save even more than that. There are plenty of other life lessons available that will have a more significant impact. Not that I'm dismissing this, but it's minor in the scheme of things.
lastdawnofmanJul 29, 2010
My teachers in preschool and elementary were almost solely concerned with keeping the kids quiet and orderly and didn't care about anyone's ability. The only memorable experiences were things like my first grade teacher yelling at me because I had already learned how to read, so obviously I had learned it "wrong." Despite having a college reading level by 3rd grade, no one including my family seemed to give a crap. I could have been an achiever on my own, and so of course a lot of the fault is mine, but some support somewhere along the line could have changed my whole life.
I'm always so jealous when I hear about some "genius kid" who is getting all sorts of attention and scholarships and who knows what else because he can do stuff that I was doing at that age.
cnldeltaJul 29, 2010
Some of the so called prodigies who are alive today wouldn't be that much of a prodigy if they only had the raw talent (genes) yet didn't have a supportive socio-economic background.
The genius kid got a more lucky break. I'm sure if he swapped places with ya, he wouldn't have achieved more than ya have.
mavmavvJul 29, 2010
Dont take personal responsibility for not wanting to further yourself and your education! Blame someone else.
cnldeltaJul 29, 2010
I skipped KG 2 and went to grade/year 1.
That could be the reason why I didn't want to (and did not) graduate college despite studying for all 4 years of a program.
atmosphereeeJul 29, 2010
Thank you Montessori School, for making me capable of useful things like logic and reason
its420somewhereJul 29, 2010
It disturbs me that people get paid to such bulls**t studies while honest hardworking people are unemployed.
amnesianJul 29, 2010
I knew it wasn't my fault for not filling those college applications. I knew it! Time to sue my kindergarten teacher!