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- photopreneur, on 01/16/2008, -3/+30title spelled wrong... my bad.. should be ARGUMENT
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -1/+19One thing I know is you should never go to bed angry or let your partner, lover or wife etc. leave for work. You should always say I love you because you never know when that will be the last time you get to do so.
- rossmcd, on 01/16/2008, -2/+15the advice in this article is debtabale
- PoopSalad, on 01/16/2008, -0/+10arugment's have ruined all of my friendships thanks for the tips
- ubernoggin, on 01/16/2008, -2/+11You know, I've heard the "never go to bed angry" advice before (I think the priest even said it at our wedding), but I've learned it depends on the person. My wife gets to a point where it's better to go to bed... and then we can have a more rational conversation the next day...
- navitatl, on 01/16/2008, -0/+9Damn right it should.
- SanTe, on 01/16/2008, -0/+8Will this be the five minute argument or the full half hour?
- fartbuttes, on 01/16/2008, -3/+10How to break the argument cycle: stop being an instigating dumbass and learn to deal with ***** like a man.
- EserVerx, on 01/16/2008, -2/+8Step one: lower your standards.
Step two: sell your soul.
Step three: Hate yourself and your spouse for ever because you lowered your standards and married her. - teddyrux, on 01/16/2008, -0/+6I love how whenever someone makes a mistake in their title and then admit they made a mistake, they get dugg up. The positive reinforcement related to inconsequential actions around here is strong enough to potty-train a poodle!
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -0/+5Don't forget, you're a digger.
- Jimbob200, on 01/16/2008, -0/+3At least you fessed up.
- counterplex, on 01/16/2008, -0/+3I'm sorry, time's up!
- GetUthunized, on 01/16/2008, -4/+7Apparently getting angry is out of style. Now its all about passive negotiating and letting the rage build up until you snap and shoot up your office. Smart.
- usherzx, on 01/16/2008, -3/+6yes this is true... some women know this thing about the "never go to bed angry" .. and when u try to work that out.. they will deliberately continue being bitchy just bc they can. women are more immature than kids.
- usherzx, on 01/16/2008, -0/+3IT'S NOT SPELLED WRONG! YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING
AAAAHH. - isunktheship, on 01/16/2008, -0/+3NO IT'S NOT! lets argue!
- INTERNETMASTER, on 01/16/2008, -0/+3that wasn't even a minute right there
- travitherabbi, on 01/16/2008, -0/+3Oh look, this isn't an argument. It's just contradiction!
- directrix13, on 01/16/2008, -1/+3Yeah, and women always stereotypically overgeneralize stuff.
- disabled4diggin, on 01/16/2008, -0/+2I didn't even see that. I read it as "argument" And as long as I'm not an editor, thats seems like a good thing.
- ProducedRaw, on 01/16/2008, -0/+2Or even a puddle!
- ericdano, on 01/16/2008, -3/+5Debatable. Damn, there is even a CHECK SPELLING button. Use it!
- capiCrimm, on 01/16/2008, -0/+2"Getting Past No" == good book.
- SanTe, on 01/17/2008, -0/+2No it isn't.
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -0/+2YEAH! He fessed up.
Those little ***** always get away with spelling errors and never reveal themselves.
Scantless hoes. - inactive, on 01/16/2008, -1/+3Men the only thing you need to do is shutup! Everything you say will be used against you, she will remember everything you say till hell it self freezes over, the less you say the better off you are! This drives my wife nuts she says I don't know how to argue.
- lalop, on 01/16/2008, -0/+2debt-a-bale?
- loquax, on 01/16/2008, -2/+4Down south we usually learn at an early age to say "Yes Mam" and then proceed to completely ignore whatever the mom, wife, girlfriend, drag queen, etc. said and do what we were going to do anyway.
- zephris, on 01/16/2008, -0/+2Oh look, this is the EXACT same stuff that was talked about in the book/movie "The Secret". Here, it's dugg up, in the original context it's treated like crap.
Come on, people. THINK. - Spoomeister, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1I understand your intention here, and mostly agree... but every once in a great while, if the argument is just piddly day-to-day irritants and not a fundamental problem... well, dude, angry sex is SOOOOO good....
- NatashaCall, on 01/20/2008, -0/+1I am not good a aruging, I guess, because I don't know what it is :) Just kidding! My husband and I are best friends so we talk about everything and talk all of the time. We also listen. We have never picked apart each other's little annoyances (accepting the fact that if I think that he has some, I sure must have about double!) and over the years we don't seem to even see those little things, or they have actually become humorous. Humor is another thing that helps...especially when it comes to being able to laugh at yourself. Me? I'm a total nerd and do stupid things all of the time and laugh at myself a ton. Like right now, I am laughing at myself for actually giving advice when I know that most comments under me will probably rip my comment apart because it is so dorky:-)
- rasko, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1I disagree
- Shamrock13, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1Dugg for the Arug.
- known, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1Lack of http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NPOV
- justok, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1This isn't a debate, its an argument.Debates are two websites down the hall.
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1F7 is your friend
- wepto, on 01/16/2008, -2/+3How to be a push over?
- Dwebtron, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1potty.
- inajeep, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1I'd never leave the house nor sleep so that advice isn't realistic for me.
- h3lx, on 01/16/2008, -1/+2If it's a good enough argument, you won't have another one. The best way to break the cycle is never accept the other point of view, adamantly insist you are correct, when you're finally not speaking to each other, pack your ***** and leave. You can always look back and use it a gauge for future conflict... Is it worth arguing over? Why is it I am always the one acting like an *****? Of course, you never answer these questions in a literal sense, it's best to just keep sidestepping the issue until they get tired hearing themselves talk... or you can just lie, pretend you're interested, agree to change but never make any real proactive decisions toward that change and call her a crazy bitch next time she brings it up and complain about her 'always' throwing that ***** in your face every goddamn time you around.
/which is why I have a dog and live with my mom. - scoutxxor, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1welcome to the comment section!
debate on.. - kencoach, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1This is great advice. Good article. Unexpressed expectations are mostly killers regardless of the environment. Accepting the other person's values and trying to understand how/why they are doing what they are doing can be very helpful. I've found a knowledge of personality type can really help in arguing situations also.
- rossmcd, on 01/16/2008, -0/+1are you trying to start an arugment with me?
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -2/+2One thing is for sure, if you are not careful you will spend a lot of time in jail for arguing. It is now illegal!!
- Yond, on 01/16/2008, -0/+0We like it when people admit a mistake they've made. Shows the rest of us that we don't have to play games with ourselves and everyone else avoiding it. It can be a painless as pudding.
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -1/+1"Let's say that every evening when you come home from work, your spouse launches into a tirade of complaints, negative comments, and problems she needs solved. After years of this, you now have a very low set-point for starting an argument when this happens. You feel she should greet you with a smile, some positive energy, and save the problem requests for after dinner. You've worked hard all day, fought your way home through traffic, and the last thing you want to be greeted with is more problems. You get mad because you've asked her not to do this many times. She thinks you don't care. The scenario keeps repeating. So how can you make the situation better without her changing?"
***** split up. The problem with most people is they don't like change. They become dependent on their partner and get this "I can't live without them" feeling.
I don't know why people put themselves through torture of bad relationships.
Seriously, if your partner treats you like that, ***** call it quits. People don't deserve to be treated like that, especially if the foundation of a successful relationship is trust and communication. - Spanq, on 01/16/2008, -2/+2Be aware of what makes you go ***** and walk away when it happens? Thanks, dumb little man!
- caffiend, on 01/16/2008, -2/+2drag queen? ma'am?
- inactive, on 01/16/2008, -1/+1Corny.
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