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- suckaPU, on 10/14/2008, -13/+257wrong... girls like *****
- inactive, on 10/14/2008, -6/+134Wrong, girls like confidence. It just so happens that being an ***** works wonders in the confidence department.
- inactive, on 10/15/2008, -3/+86Dumb girls like *****...smart girls like confidence without cockiness... which is like trying to find a flying albatross.
- flashingcurser, on 10/14/2008, -1/+77I wish this was true. Being a VP of a charity I can tell you this has no basis in reality.
- onederboy, on 10/15/2008, -1/+66I couldn't agree more.
They gave the women a survey, all that means is this is a representation of what they'd like to think they look for, in reality the ***** will beat this guy at least 95% of the time. - cle2105, on 10/15/2008, -3/+55Jesus must've gotten so much tail
- rearlgrant, on 10/14/2008, -3/+47Giving away money to woman == she acts as if she finds you attractive.
Being altruistic towards her and others == labled urbane/gay/milquetoast, pick one or all.
That's my experience. - DirtyVicar, on 10/15/2008, -0/+42"I'm really attracted to your altruism. You're such a nice guy. I sure don't want to ruin this friendship."
- spoofer56, on 10/15/2008, -0/+33I call *****.
- Darkhacker, on 10/15/2008, -2/+34Actually, I probably get more homophobic comments from women than I do from men. Homophobic men call me a ***** and leave. Women actually stick around to harass me. They'll say ***** like "I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, so you don't ***** stand a chance of stealing him away from me"... bitch, puh-leez.
The stereotype of the fag-hag is very overrated. - aelder, on 10/15/2008, -1/+27It won't make you attractive to Ayn Rand.
- inactive, on 10/15/2008, -2/+28Two letters: BS
- bicyclethief, on 10/15/2008, -8/+33wrong... girls like gay men
- fknrat, on 10/15/2008, -6/+31They like ***** because they think they can change them.
The "nice" guys build a trap for themselves by whining like they're "owed" something.
The best bet is just to find a girl who'll like you for you, and that's pretty rare. Typically, yes, girls will always go for the ***** because he is assertive, knows what he wants and makes them want to work harder at feeling needed. - Morghin, on 10/15/2008, -0/+25If altruism was the key to finding a partner I can guarantee you that 90% of my friends, and geeks around the world, would've had girlfriends non-stop since they're usually the nicest people there is. Nope, that's not the real world.
In the real world it's that ***** from school that runs around bullying anyone and anything that looks weaker than him that gets the chick because he "looks confident and strong" and then proceeds to treat her like an item, i.e. *****.
Sounds more like it's a survey asking "What would you like to like?" instead of "What do you like?". - inactive, on 10/15/2008, -2/+26***** YOU! YOU STUPID BITCH!
uhm...wanna go out? - gotamd, on 10/15/2008, -0/+24Unfortunately, this was a survey about what people think they want. They should have asked people more specifically about the qualities of their ex's and current relationship(s). Those results would have been more interesting to me.
- mrtman, on 10/15/2008, -0/+22Flawed survey, ask 1000 chics do you like what kinda guy a) Guy who donates money to charities or b) guy who pisses in you mom's mailbox? They will all say a. But deep down every woman wants a mailbox pisser.
- GodIsntReal, on 10/15/2008, -5/+26Am i the only one who read that as "Being Autistic May Make You Attractive"?
- cgibbo, on 10/15/2008, -0/+21Dugg for milquetoast.
- bicyclethief, on 10/15/2008, -0/+21I drop off my trash-- I mean donate to Goodwill all the time, LADIES....
- GordonFree, on 10/15/2008, -5/+26They say this, because writing a scientific article about how hot girls have an attraction for moronic ***** would be targeted by feminist protesters and taken down for sexism.
- topgigmedia, on 10/15/2008, -1/+22small correction: sorority girls like *****. many quality women like quality men.
- BXRWXR, on 10/15/2008, -0/+19I like girls with low self esteem and father issues. Does that make me altruistic?
- sockpuppets, on 10/15/2008, -0/+18I accept paypal.
- WhiskeyLemur, on 06/30/2009, -0/+17Wrong.
- SteaminTmann, on 10/15/2008, -5/+22Women are attracted to men who have higher "social value" than them.
I.E. You walk up to a woman and offer to buy her a drink, or start 'obviously' hitting on her. She picks up on this, and subconsciously realizes that you want something from her, therefore she is of value to you, and you are of less value to her.
The key is, convincing them that you are more important than they are. - psion01, on 10/15/2008, -0/+16Maybe that's the final outcome of years of altruism.
- inactive, on 10/15/2008, -2/+18This just in... a sense of humor may make you attractive... What's with all these articles stating the obvious?
- Merp08, on 10/15/2008, -2/+17Nicely said.
You really need a girlfriend. - noelsusman, on 10/15/2008, -9/+24You are both wrong.
Just being nice to a girl isn't going to make her magically fall in love with you. You need to be nice to her and also bring security and confidence. ***** bring confidence to the able. If you are a "nice guy" and you have trouble getting women, then you probably lack confidence. There is somebody out there for everybody.
Stop using "girls like *****" as an excuse. To be honest, it sounds pretty pathetic. Some girls do like *****, but those aren't the girls you want to be with anyway so who gives a *****? - dalnet22, on 10/15/2008, -0/+15I wonder what the average age was for these studies. Probably 35-40.
- ligyron, on 10/15/2008, -2/+16Lots of relationship experts on Digg...and what was all that "Diggers never get laid" talk
- zomgwaffles, on 10/15/2008, -1/+15Not many people know how to tell the difference between cockiness and confidence. But if your confident you don't worry about anyone mistaking you as cocky :)
- ngmcs8203, on 10/15/2008, -1/+14@Darkhacker: Dugg for "bitch, puh-leez"
Oh and... No on Prop 8. - GoKings, on 10/15/2008, -0/+13These articles are *****. First girls like guys that are smart. Then they like guys that are nice. So how come I see a bunch of juiced up frat bro's majoring in Communications walking around school with some of the hottest chicks on campus?
- MaxMWood, on 10/15/2008, -0/+13Being Altruistic? Sex offender.
- cave, on 10/15/2008, -0/+13You should buy a go-kart.
- Cenobite, on 10/15/2008, -1/+13That's what she said.
- HippyInASuit, on 10/15/2008, -1/+13Total BS. Women are driven by emotion. Being altruistic doesn't get her blood flowing. They fill out a survey on paper and of course they're going to say they prefer nice guys, nobody really likes an ass hole because he's an ass hole. They like the ass holes because they can evoke emotion.
- sapphire9488, on 10/15/2008, -2/+14I'm so tired of hearing about how all women like ***** and the poor men who just can't get a date. It goes both ways. Most of my guy friends choose to get involved with complete bitches, and then complain about it all of the time!
- 1smartguy, on 10/15/2008, -2/+14Wait, are saying if I freely give away my *****, girls will find that attractive?
I'm so confused, but I'm ready to try anything. - petebot, on 10/15/2008, -1/+13That’s funny, because I’m reading Atlas Shrugged right now, and man, does that woman have some sex issues.
- enotswhat, on 10/15/2008, -1/+13i agree i used to be a nice guy, then the more honest I became the more girls thought of me as a dick...funny it was only the fat girls
i.e.
Fat Girl: Would you date me?
Old Nice Me: NO you are a brunette I like redheads (or anything else to avoid the obv fact that she was fat
Fat Girl: Thanks (rolls away)
Fat Girl: Would you date me?
New Me: No
Fat Girl: It is because I am fat, right?
New Me: Yes
Fat Girl: Dick (rolls away)
- ejpusa, on 10/15/2008, -0/+11Woah, guys, CALM DOWN, take a breather, OK! The vitriolic of the comments is astounding, there seems to be a big divide out there between the sexes.
Some GIRL advice, from an OLD TIMER. At the moment I have 6 women (i had to stop at 1/2 dozen) that would love to spend the rest of their life's with me. They are wild, crazy, and cute. I still prefer bachelorhood.
First off, they are a boiling vat of hormones, ok? They may hate you today and love you tomorrow. This means, don't give up! Don't go overboard of course, don't stalk anybody, you'll know if it's really over. But give it at least 3 tries.
If you wan to meet them, you have to say "HELLO". That's where you have to start. No getting around it. And yes, they do prefer smart guys. It may not look like that as she walks away with the quarterback, but in the long run, smarts win. Remember Ms. Monroe married Arthur Miller. And how can you get more beautiful then Marilyn and more nerdy then Miller?
Do your nails, get a REAL manicure. It's worth it.
Do you yoga, light weights, whatever, just do something daily to keep yourself in shape.
Get your teeth cleaned. Use white strips if you have too. FLOSS! Use a funky stick from India if you have too.
You can dress like a slob, but do it with style.
Travel! Telling her about your trips to Nepal and Goa will beat any football story about the guys anytime.
Go to a museum. I fight them off in museums. Art openings, hipster stuff. Go to COOL coffee shops, Starbucks will do.
ASK QUESTIONS, you know that already right?
PATIENCE wins!
Yes, in my bed, they are mind blowing, us guys don't stand a chance. In the end they will inherit the earth. Enhance their lives, and YOU TOO will be fighting off intelligent, beautiful, super cool, crazy hippie chicks with Ivy League degree's.
ENHANCE THEIR LIFE'S, send them a digg story, buy them a $3 piece of jewelry, anything cute. It works. They are catching onto the flowers, so maybe something else. But in a pinch flowers will do.
A $3 meal in a NYC cab stand at 4 AM can mean 10x more then the best dinner in an uptown $250 an entree French restaurant.
Say YES. LOTS.
Grab that new Woody Allen film with Scarlett, some great relationship tips there.
And remember, they are much smarter, much kinder, more beautiful then we are. But hey, we're pretty interesting too. We're a mystery to them!
Ok, that's a start, good luck, go forth and procreate! :-) - Rhendal, on 10/15/2008, -1/+12That's strange, because all of those girls kept telling me "You're such a nice guy, but you're just not right for me." Then they start dating *****. Then I dropped 40 lbs, and got a girlfriend and now chicks dig me.
I'm not saying my girl only started dating me because I'm more fit than I was before, but what a crock of *****. - Arkanok, on 10/15/2008, -0/+11I must be doing something wrong, I've selflessly attempted to donate my penis to women for their sexual pleasure, but it doesn't seem to make them like me any more.
- inactive, on 10/15/2008, -1/+11You mean gay men like *****.
- flashingcurser, on 10/15/2008, -2/+12Altruism is selflessness, giving and thinking of others first. It has nothing to do with humor. I hate to be that ***** who points that out.
As for humor, humor is only important when a man has taken care of the big three; taller, smarter, and makes more money. I know this upsets a lot of women. Those same women NEVER date men who are shorter, dumber, and make less money. I guess this becomes more obvious when your 5'8", bachelors degree, and work for a charity. lol
Women find me much more 'humorous' when they are 5'4", associates degree, and unemployed. ;-) - jonnyboy1544, on 10/15/2008, -0/+10I keep being altruistic in bed but then she just goes to sleep.
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