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- frostbyt, on 06/13/2008, -23/+209Can you talk more about how you would not f*ck her?
How you would not set the mood the candle light and a nice red. Then talk about how you would defiantly not take her cloths off using only your teeth. Next how cupping her firm breasts before you nibble on her areola repulses you. Moving on to how the positioning your selfs in the scissor move just makes you sick. Finally explain just how gross it would be to kiss her taunt thighs until you reached heaven.
Help us understand. - foofoobee, on 06/13/2008, -3/+163And people wonder why there aren't more women on Digg.
- Eugenia, on 06/13/2008, -24/+152Sorry, but this doesn't work with me. I am a straight woman, and I don't like women sexually AT ALL. The thought of it repulses me. This doesn't mean that I don't have lesbian friends which I respect (I do). It's just that sexually, I am a gentlemen's girl through and through. If anything, I feel like a gay man trapped into a female body (Madonna said that first, but it represents me well).
And when I see a beautiful woman I only think "I wish *I* looked that good", not "I'd f*ck her". - Orchid64, on 06/13/2008, -2/+111This information is not new. I heard it 25 years ago when I was studying psychology in college and it has far more to do with social and cultural influences than any sort of innate sexual continuum. Women sexualize women because that's what the vast majorities of cultures do. Most pornographic material is geared toward men so women are accustomed to seeing sexuality linked with the female form rather than the male form. Men are rarely objectified in the same manner as women and less frequently paired with sexual situations.
In essence, women are conditioned to view women sexually and not conditioned to view men in a similar fashion. However, that doesn't mean they are attracted to women or even find them attractive. They are just like Pavlov's dogs hearing the bell and salivating. They see a woman in tight clothing and they associate the image with sex. - captnkurt, on 06/13/2008, -0/+107What Eugenia said:
Sorry, but this doesn't work with me. I am a straight woman, and I don't like women sexually AT ALL. The thought of it repulses me. This doesn't mean that I don't have lesbian friends which I respect (I do). It's just that sexually, I am a gentlemen's girl through and through. If anything, I feel like a gay man trapped into a female body (Madonna said that first, but it represents me well).
And when I see a beautiful woman I only think "I wish *I* looked that good", not "I'd f*ck her".
What Diggers read:
~~~~, ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~. ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~, ~~~~ I ~~~~ like women sexually ~~~~ ~~~~. ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~. ~~~~ I ~~~~ have lesbian friends which ~~~ (I do) ~~~~ ~~~~ sexually~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ through and through. If anything, I ~~~~ like a gay ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ female body ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~.
And when I see a beautiful woman I only think "I wish ~~~~ ~~~~ ~~~~ "I'd f*ck her". - noahhoward, on 06/13/2008, -11/+109So you're saying you DO find other women attractive.
- upthedownslide, on 06/13/2008, -5/+92i can honestly say, as a straight female, i'm sexually attracted to both sexes.
guys like t & a. why can't i? - Steinr, on 06/13/2008, -2/+83I dig women and I am straight
- and a man. ;)
I do understand why women would dig women. Most ladies that I know feel in no way sexually inclined to others of the same sex but can appreciate them easier than men can. - Jauladeoro, on 08/27/2008, -0/+59I'm a heterosexual married female, and I very much agree with the findings of this article. When I was younger it caused me to question my sexuality, but as an adult I'm comfortable simply with what is.
But it makes me wonder why exactly this is occurring. I wonder how much our brains have been rewired due to the culture of making women sex objects. There is so much "male gaze", (if you haven't heard this term, look it up. It's really interesting), that it feels normal to look at females in the way a male would - simply because this is the perspective we're given whether we want it or not - on billboards, magazine ads, on TV, music videos, and movies, etc.
It's almost a (not so?) subtle brainwashing. It would have been interesting if they'd done this study 50 or 100 years ago to see how the female response to various stimuli has changed. - Jsmuli2, on 06/13/2008, -2/+59The Female Physique is art in itself.
The flow of the curves are simply mesmerizing. - brandonelliott, on 06/13/2008, -1/+49well, the other day my girlfriend got a virus from a porn site which concerned me because i didn't know she looked at porn, i confronted and she said there was no problems with us, you know.. doing that stuff. so whatever. i dugg into the history only to find it was all girl on girl? which i dunno made me feel a little confused so i confronted again and she was already embarassed at this point and after a bit of forcing some stuff out she said her fantasy was to have a three-some..JACKMOTHER ***** POT.. i thoought... then she says.. but i would be jealous seeing you touch another girl.. and that my friends ends that chapter.
- xXIrsotehkewlXx, on 06/13/2008, -3/+48"F*cking her" has nothing to do with it.
As I have said previously, I love dick but boobs are awesome.
I would much rather watch a Hot chick with not so hot guy porn than hot guy with not so hot chick porn. - cuntmate99, on 06/13/2008, -0/+42Why Straight Women Don't Dig Men Who Go On Digg
- kdog630, on 06/13/2008, -3/+43Like Finch said, "All women are just three drinks away from girl-on-girl action."
- gobbleplex, on 06/13/2008, -1/+41Then what is your definition of straight vs bisexual?
- feshmania, on 06/13/2008, -0/+38I take off my robe and wizard hat.
- Hudon689, on 06/13/2009, -0/+36well played sir
- Cossins, on 06/13/2008, -4/+38I am a homosexual man, and I somehow feel these studies completely neglect the complex intricacies of male sexuality.
I know from experience that men who identify as heterosexual will often be quite curious as to what goes on in the bed between two guys. And especially if you subtract the anal sex (which is still a bit repulsive to some), and add a pint or two, many will also be willing to explore this side, provided they do it with someone attractive.
Generally, there seems to be universal standards for beauty, that aren't at all gender-specific. The stereotype is that females are inherently elegant and beautiful, and males are inherently rough and ugly. But look around you, you'll find lots of inelegant, ugly women, and lots of very elengant men. Some mistake male beauty for effeminate behaviour or vanity, but there's a huge difference.
And as with women, men are most beautiful when they're young. The Ancient Greeks had a knack for celebrating this beauty, and especially in boys...
Anyway, there's no denying the social aspects. In societies that stigmatize one sexuality, or establish a dichotomy between two alleged polarities, people will be very inclined to pick one sexual behaviour and stick with it. My generation (I'm 21) is definitely beginning to dissolve the dichotomy between homosexuality and heterosexuality, which opens up for a much richer repertoire for everyone. Of course, I'm lucky to be from a region where homophobia is practically non-existent (Scandinavia), so maybe people in other parts of the world wouldn't be considered as "open minded".
The point is, I don't believe that "female sexuality" is inherently any more liquid than male sexuality. Whatever differences in behaviour between the sexes in this regard, I think can be attributed to social indoctrination: Men consider themselves better than women, as a feature of thousands of years of patriarchy and male dominance (no, I'd probably call that a bug in our society), and homosexuality is (wrongly) associated with being effeminate (which shallow homosexuals lacking an identity, thus adopting the stereotype, aren't exactly helping to dismantle), so heterosexual men will scowl at the thought of being associated with this "culture". This goes on while heterosexual men have collectively agreed that lesbian action is hot-hot-hot, which plants the thought among women that it is OK to be attracted to another woman -- if nothing else, it gets the men going.
This means that women will be more open-minded to alternative sexual experimentation "per default" than straight men. There may be biological determinants to this behaviour, but as I see it, they definitely aren't required.
- Simon - seanmx, on 06/13/2008, -1/+34Its not women digging women, its more of an envy thing as opposed to an attraction thing.
- pockiez, on 06/13/2008, -1/+31I prove the rule. I'd much rather look at a woman than a man. However, I like the penis.
- Zaggynl, on 06/13/2008, -0/+30digger with girlfriend? AND THAT GIRLFRIEND WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL?!
*pinches arm* - shortyjacobs, on 06/13/2008, -0/+29It's what they are growing that has me concerned.
- beastee, on 06/13/2008, -3/+32Wow, what a coincidence...I have a penis.
- mimigins, on 06/13/2008, -2/+27Is that seriously a girl next to Lindsay Lohan? Gross.
I appreciate the female form, but I don't find it sexually appealing. - mrsteveman1, on 06/13/2008, -0/+25I thought it might have been kid rock until i looked closer
- sabach, on 06/13/2008, -0/+25Can you tie them in a knot,
Can you tie them in a bow? - Hypermarkalan, on 06/13/2008, -0/+24Scissor me timbers!
- DaHuuuuuudge, on 06/13/2008, -0/+24Your penis is so much bigger than mine, but I think mine is harder. Let me feel your penis? Yep, I was right. Feel mine. See how hard it is?
- Machismo, on 06/13/2008, -0/+24You didn't read the article. Their basic claim is that women find sensuality more attractive than strictly gender. A couple making love is more exciting than just a naked person. Whether the couple is MM, MW, or WW.
- inactive, on 06/13/2008, -9/+33That's your fantasy, dude. Not reality.
- WhiskeyLemur, on 06/30/2009, -0/+24And the reason I dislike going into video game stores without my husband looming in the background, yes.
- inactive, on 06/13/2008, -4/+28I understand why the results are so skewed. The research was done in Ontario.
- Jauladeoro, on 08/27/2008, -0/+23Ah, we must have left our comments at about the same time. This was the psychology I was driving at. I think you are spot on.
- Taiyoryu, on 06/13/2008, -0/+23The experiment did not test whether or not a heterosexual woman wanted to have sex with women. The experiment tested whether or not a heterosexual woman illicited an _involuntary_ sexual response while viewing depictions of sexual acts of varying degree from no sexuality (himalayan mountains) to full on sexuality (people having sex). The vaginal photoplethysmograph was used to see if the woman had a physiological response to the images by measuring the woman's vasoengorgement, analogous to the male erection. Just because your head isn't thinking sex doesn't mean your body won't respond to it when you see the act. What the experiment showed is that heterosexual women responded to a wider variety of sexual depictions than men and homosexual men/women who are selective with regards to their sexual preference.
I recommend you watch the BBC documentary, The Truth About Female Desire, where they conduct a similar expeirment.
http://bestdocumentaries.blogspot.com/2008/01/trut ... - DangerCollie, on 06/13/2008, -0/+20You can and it's fine. Kind of plays into the old trusim that there are a lot of women 2 drinks away from being bisexual. But whether it plays out that way or not, it doesn't change the response. Probably explains the number of couples going to strip clubs together. It's a safe environment to indulge the visual response without any real threat of it turning into unwanted physical contact.
My experience has been that women are generally more comfortable with a wider range of sexual expression. What you choose to act on, or how you choose to express it, is a matter of personal preference.
Correct me if I'm wrong here, but my opinion is if you provide your female partner the freedom to indulge sexual response without pressure to do anything in particular, they're more likely, over time, to get more comfortable exploring a wider range of actual behaviors. Just my $0.02. YMMV. - Steinr, on 06/13/2008, -2/+22this statement would have made a lot of people happy, if it were posted by a woman.
- LLLSecretChimp, on 06/13/2008, -0/+20Maybe they've proven that straight women think landscapes are really hot.
- 76Cents, on 06/13/2008, -2/+21RAmen to that brother
- GiggleStick, on 06/13/2008, -1/+20Dude, you're worse than that woman complaining about finding porn on her boyfriends computer, and kvetching about it endlessly. Then you dig through her history. How would you feel if she was doing that to you?
- iamgreg007, on 06/13/2008, -1/+20I like the part where they talk about women watching porno, followed by watching images of mountains. Nothin gets ya going like the Grand Teetons.
- Jsmuli2, on 06/13/2008, -1/+18Do they wobble to and fro?
- Jsmuli2, on 06/13/2008, -3/+20It's like the Noodley One created women is it's own image!
- inactive, on 06/13/2008, -0/+16Yeah, but being attracted to both sexes makes you bi.
A person that is emotionally and/or physically attratected of persons of both men and women. Describes a persons sexual orientation.
www.alexandra.st/
A person who is attracted to members of either gender.
www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/sexual-health-glossary
A bisexual is a any person who has a sexual interst in or a disire to have sex with both men and women.
bishemale.com/shemale/transvestite-shemale-glossary/
sexually attracted to both sexes
having an ambiguous sexual identity
a person who is sexually attracted to both sexes
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of either gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexual - PapaBoojum, on 06/13/2008, -2/+18Giggity!
or is that Diggity? - priegog, on 06/13/2008, -0/+14Nice to see Digg hasn't quite completely turned to ***** just yet.
I think you nailed it. - fantasyflamz, on 06/13/2008, -0/+14When I see a woman in a sexual situation I don't think that I want to have sex with her, I imagine that I am her and whatever's happening to her is happening to me. It's not about being attracted to the female on the video.
- rolosworld, on 06/13/2008, -0/+13so... when you see a beautiful man you think about f*cking him?
- friarcrazy, on 06/13/2008, -8/+21I kissed a girl and I liked it, the taste of her cherry ChapStick...
- Arcesius, on 06/13/2008, -1/+13Keeeeep going. Just a feeewwww.... more...... sentences...
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